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writes:hiya.There is this boy and we have been such good friends for a couple of years. I started to fancy him about 1.5 years ago. He knows i fancy him and so does everyone else. He has just never mentioned it. When we are alone (eg. in the computer room at school)... we are like a proper couple, holding hands and cuddling up. Even in one lesson we hold hands under the table and things. But when we are with friends.. he doesnt seem interested in me.. whereas I would blow my friends off to be with him because I love him so much. What do I do? please helpp x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2009): just chilll out. there is no need to rush. its obvious you like eachother, and trust me you dont want to blow that, because i was in a very same incident as your in right now but i was too clingy and selfish and even though you dont mean to seem selfish, cause your so loving, it soes come across selfish. i think, maybe he is a bit embaressed. not by you, but embarresed that he doesnt know how to treat you in the 'outside world' and kinda goes off with his friends, to save making a fool of himself. or he could just well, not know what he wants. and trust me, thats typical for a boy!! so just take it cool, and why not try to be the same as hes acting, and see how he reacts! and if he doesnt react, then you will know were you stand with him. just dont get wound up about it, it happens to alot of people. just enjoy living.
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