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female
age
30-35,
*pendy
writes:this guy and i are getting to know each other.. i like him and he tells me he likes me too..but he keeps asking me how long has it been since ive been single, if ive ever gotten pregnant before or had an abortion:( i told him my ex was careful, he said how can he be careful when hes only 21? wtf?why does he keep asking me all these questions?? ive never been pregnant..thnx
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (12 December 2009):
 No problem with wanting to gauge if someone is a health concern, ... but as for the pregnancy and abortion questions they are just odd and none of his business to boot. I am WONDERING here if he is trying to ascertain if you got pregnant to him whether you would pin being a baby daddy on him or if you would take care of what he may view as a 'problem'. I'd bail on this one personally. Whatever his agenda is he sounds a bit weird. At the very least tell him to cut the bull and get to the reason behind such questioning.
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (12 December 2009):
 While I agree if he asks for a clean bill of health, you should comply, I dont agree that a history of abortion or pregnancy are any of his business. I would find that line of questioning disquietning.
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (11 December 2009):
These things are none of his business, and I would find them disquietning, he sounds weird, I would walk away before any deeper feelings develop on your part.
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