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*endra0589
writes:Today I met this guy that my friend's boyfriend introduced me to. We have been talking on the [hone for about a week now and today we finally met to see each other. I swear he is so sweet it's ridiculous We had described to each other how we looked over the phone. He sounded so cute that I knew he was good looking without even seeing him. I on the other hand have always had low self esteem and never thought I was pretty. When i got to his house I freaked out! He was so cute that I automatically felt I wasn't pretty enough for him. I acted so nervous that I ended up leaving. For some reason I felt he wasn't attracted to me. It's like I could see it in his eyes. He kinda just sat there saying nothing until we started to get into a small argument because of the way I was acting. Then all of a sudden he said his friend called and he had to help him because he was moving. I lived about 40 mins away so I felt like he could have told me before I left. He claimed his friend called a little before I arrived. I just don't feel like he was attracted to me at all but I don't know because I freaked him out acting nervous. He did call to see if I made it home. Do you think he was not attracted or is it just my negative thoughts?? If so what should I do?
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reader, Frenzotic  +, writes (13 December 2009):
 It's definitely hard to tell.
He could have been nervous himself and by the way you were being nervous it could of made it incredibly difficult to converse with each other.
It's a good thing he called to check up on you, it shows he cares.
You should try setting up another meeting away from both your houses so that you guys can make time and no excuses(if any) to leave during it! Good luck
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