A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have a friend (lets call her gemma) and she is a maneater ! She has a boyfriend but yet wouldn't pass if anything better came along. She is getting a reputation for herself but that isn't what bothers me as it is her life...however, my problem is she really likes the guy that i'm meant to be seeing and she has already thrown herself at him in the past. Gemma has already told other friends that she doesn't like me talking to him because she likes him... (she has already done this once before) i am scared that she has told him something awful about me (not that i have secrets) to make him go off me as now he is acting really coldly. I want to ask him if i have done anything wrong, but not sure how to.... can anyone help me?
View related questions:
has a boyfriend, she has a boyfriend Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2009): Hiya just get him on his own and have a private word with him. Ask him up front if hes ok, say youve noticed hes not as friendly as he used to be. If your friend does like him and she has no morals, she may have put the poison down. She doesnt sound very nice btw. If hes ok and likes you, go for it. You said she made it obvious she liked him before, i take it nothing came of it, so he may not like her much. In which case you wont have to worry about her taking him away. Good luck x
A
female
reader, boo22 +, writes (11 December 2009):
 Hi, hope you're ok!
Hun, there isn't a girl in the world who can take your boy away from you if he doesn't want to be taken.
All of this is out of your control.
Relax and see what happens. If you act all needy and insecure round him that won't help
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2009): Ooohh girl...lemme say that things like this are exactly why at age 30 I have no female friends left. First of all you gotta let this guy know your suspisions and see his response. You will probably be able to read whether he is telling the truth. Be aware though, most often in these situations a man will think you're jealous. Either way you have to get to the bottom of this. I would strongly recommend re-evaluating your friendship. If she was really someone worth your time there would be no fear of this no matter the type of person. You would know that she had your back 100% even if she was feelin him. So I wish you all the luck & hope you find some better friends & men for that matter.
...............................
|
