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30-35,
*livialoves
writes:I have been in a long distance relationship for two years but have recently started developing feelings for my friend and i feel i need to end things.There have been a couple of drunken nights together with this friend, and he is very sweet to me, but have no idea how he feels, i think im more interested in him than he is me, hes recently come out a long relationship, with a friend of mine, and is enjoying his first year at uni.Should i just get over it? or should i tell him how i feel?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2009): I've been in this situation before, and the best advice I can give you is to be honest. The worst that is going to happen is he doesn't feel the same way. If you think your friendship can survive that, then tell him! Otherwise, you may always wonder "what if" and never know how he feels.
However, you need to be completely sure of your feelings first. If you have any doubts, take some time out to think about it. You might be risking both your long distance relationship and your friendship.
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