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Why do I feel this way about sex?? Am I weird???

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Question - (11 December 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 December 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *pendy writes:

I am 20 and I've not had sex for a year and couple of months now...

I've had 4 bfs.. I slept with 2... cos i loved them but they broke my heart and left me.

All my friends think i should just have fun.. cos they sleep with guys like within a week of meeting them and am not like that i cant do it..ive got to really like a guy to kiss Him and ive got be with a guy in a relationship to love him to have sex with him.

do you think am weird? am planning on waiting for good guy to come into my life before having sex again... do u think am weird??

thnx..xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2009):

Sex is so exploited nowadays because of television, movies, the Internet, etc. so while your friends may enjoy having these flings, they will not get a relationship out of it. This is okay because maybe they're not ready for one. You sound more mature and it is perfectly normal to be less sexually adventurous than them. You just want it to mean more when you're with someone. Perfectly normal. Don't be afraid to stick up for your opinions and perhaps once your friends notice this, they'll begin to follow you. Either way, you're not "weird." Keep your head held high and just do what you think is right- and don't let anyone tell you otherwise!

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