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Archived questions from: September, 2014 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

What am I doing wrong in our relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3700 days ago

30 September 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. We used to have a lot of fun together , hanging with friends, drinking, going out etc... I got pregnant right away. After being together for 4 months I got pregnant with our son. The whole ...

It seems like he can't make time to talk to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3705 days ago

29 September 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid I'm with my bf for 2 years, currently we are in LDR due to his work. Its been days since he contacted me, he talks to me only once a week for few mins. I call him once everyday he never picks, if he does always finds reason to cut th...

Has my GF moved on, or can I restart and save our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3705 days ago

29 September 2014 (M) - Hey friends..my gf has been annoying me for the last few weeks. she has also been spending time with a new male friend, because i refused to have sex with her last time as i was not feeling well. Is she teasing me or something else?please do sugge...

My LDR has admitted to ongoing cheating. Do I fight for us or sit back while he leaves me for the other girl?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3706 days ago

27 September 2014 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 years just told me he cheated on me...by text message. He met this girl, got her number, has been hanging out with her, going out in groups, hanging at her house, and having sex with her. He told me and seemed to think that since ...

It feels like the passion is gone

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3707 days ago

26 September 2014 (F) - Recently in my relationship with my long term boyfriend I've felt the passion leave our relationship. We've been together 2 years and moved in with 2 others for financial university reasons. Recently I've been feeling neglected and he doesn't show ...

He hasn't taken responsibility for his actions but did stop talking to her. And what do I do about my so-called friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

24 September 2014 (F) - Hi everyone I'm a female seeking advise on whether it's ok my husband and my best friend have been texting anywhere from 5 to 30x a day while I only get 3 texts a day from both of them over the past couple months.during which time I found out my ...

He doesn't seem interested in me or our new baby

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3709 days ago

23 September 2014 (F) - I would like to hear some of your perspectives on what I'm going through: I used to live in a foreign country (as an expat) and I met another guy (also an expat from a different country). We started seeing each other and in a short time I got...

I think I need to leave him, but I also want him to see that he's wrong about me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3712 days ago

21 September 2014 (F) - Ive written here before, and I know I think I am looking for an answer that doesn't exist. I've been with a man for over 3 1/2 years. We got engaged last year and broke off the engagement about 6 weeks before the wedding. Every time I get upse...

I'm suspicious of my LDR and his ex-girlfriend, and we've been fighting about it. Is there any chance this relationship can be saved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3705 days ago

21 September 2014 (F) - Hi all, I was in a long distance relationship for over a year with a guy who I thought I could really see myself with in the future. However, we recently broke up due to fighting a lot mostly from trust issues and my insecurity. We agreed to tak...

I'm over my ex, but I feel emotional about his new baby with another woman

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3714 days ago

19 September 2014 (F) - Hi I will try to condense a long complex story .I split with my sons dad three and a half years ago .it was a painful and messy split .we had a very intense 5 years together where we were either deeply in love of fighting. We were over the moon when ...

Did I really love him? We are now divorcing. Why don't I feel worse? I'm not crying over this breakup.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

18 September 2014 (F) - 6 months ago I thought I married my best friend and love of my life. We were together for 3 years, lived together for the last 2. It was practically love at first sight! We waited to have sex for the first time. Even our first kiss took time, li...

I wanted her to be there for me too, but she seemed too focused on her own life and other people

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

17 September 2014 (F) - hi i'm a 19 year old girl, i had never dated until i got to varsity. i met this girl, we became really good friends and then we started dating. it was perfect at first because we were both very much into it. her life started to go a whole lot bett...

Are these signs he's no longer interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

16 September 2014 (F) - Now, I wouldn't normally consider myself the clingy type but now I'm not so sure. Basically me and my boyfriend just got together for about a month and before we got together, we were almost inseparable to the point were everyone else noticed too. ...

We are in an affectionless marriage! Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3718 days ago

16 September 2014 (F) - Hi I am new to the board and am in an affectionless marriage. We have been married 14 years, 3 kids. We met, moved in together and got married within a year. We used to not be able to get enough of each other, now it feels like we are nothing more ...

I hear less and less from my LDR

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3718 days ago

14 September 2014 (F) - I really don't know whether to stay with my boyfriend. We're in a fairly long distance relationship, about four hours away, so it's not easy seeing each other. At first it was fine because we'd text and skype all the time, but recently things have ...

How to be a friend to someone you still love (or like) but have to forget?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3671 days ago

12 September 2014 (F) - I have this whirlwind "romance" with a co-worker I've only known for two months. It started out as being polite. He's a new staff, I'm old and so I started to show him the ropes. He would say how smart I was etc. After seeing how I work. I would ...

If I leave my wife it will be for the right reasons, but it would be a comfort to know this friend is out there

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3722 days ago

12 September 2014 (M) - I have read many questions of women wondering if they should date a man after he divorces if he shows interest in you before he actually divorced. This may be long to explain, so I will try to be as brief as possible as this question is from the ...

Is there a chance for this relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3720 days ago

11 September 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been having some problems lately... I've been feeling a bit left out because he has a large group of friends and a new job and so on. We've still been hanging out and when we do it has been really nice and great just like ...

Am I too much of an oppressing person? Am I asking too much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3723 days ago

11 September 2014 (F) - Been married for 14 now first 10 were great, seems like I was living in a dream, but I had to wake up when he started getting aggressive, crazy, spacing out, staying out for long or wanting me to go for a few days with my family; my son 6then comes ...

It's like whenever something better comes along I get ditched

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3724 days ago

10 September 2014 (F) - My boyfriend of 1 and a half yrs is very selfish he has been this way the whole time so i knew what i was getting into but i honestly never thought he would choose his friends over my birthday weekend. His friends planned a get together " boys ...

Confusion in a long-distance relationship, will she ever become more affectionate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3725 days ago

8 September 2014 (M) - Hello everyone, I will firstly give some context on the situation. I am currently in a long-distance relationship with a woman who lives in Italy. I live in the UK. We have been together for 8 months. We were living in the UK together until a...

Torn between doing whats right by my family and my lover.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

7 September 2014 (F) - I've been having an affair for 5 months because my boyfriend has not fulfilled certain needs however I have stayed with him to try and hold my family together as he is the father my boys (17 and 15) has known for 7 years. There has been alot of ...

When we spend time in his country I'm basically an afterthought

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

7 September 2014 (F) - My husband and I have grown apart. When we are together traveling (which we do frequently) or even staying in my country we get along great. We spend time together and have dates, watch movies, exercise together, make love and generally get along ...

What is the answer to this problem? Lately, every single thing I do is always wrong in his eyes.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3728 days ago

6 September 2014 (F) - i have been dating for 2 yrs. My boyfriend was a lovable person, cared, always show his feelings to me, and so on. But lately he was being so heartless, stubborn, never told how was his day even i asked to, everything has changed. I loved him so...

I hate my husband and in laws!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3729 days ago

4 September 2014 (F) - Hi, I'm new here and hoping to get some advice. I am married for 1.5 years now and have a 2 month old son who I absolutely love and adore. However, I feel like I have started to hate my husband. He completely changed after we got married and star...