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Archived questions from: October, 2013 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

Are we headed for a future break-up? I don't want to lose him

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

29 October 2013 (F) - I'm needing some serious advice/help with my boyfriend of 3 years. We're the same age, don't live together, and spend weekends/any times we can find in our work schedules together. Over the last few months things have gotten really rocky. We've ...

I'm becoming less attracted to my girlfriend though I love her. What's the solution?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

28 October 2013 (M) - I am a 23 years old guy, and I've been dating my girlfriend for a few months now. I've been alone for 5 years before I met her, and anything before her wasn't very serious, so I may as well say this is my first real relationship. She is 5 years ol...

No closure because of the way things ended, and my mother making it worse

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4042 days ago

27 October 2013 (F) - Hi all, any advice given will be appreciated greatly. I had been with my boyfriend for nearly four years, (four years in December). Most of those years were happy, loving years. However around 10 months ago MY feelings started to change. I ju...

The spark is gone with my b/f, and there's this other guy ...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4043 days ago

25 October 2013 (F) - I guess I will start by saying that I have a boyfriend for 2 years. We are in a very good terms with him and I care deeply for him and so does he. I guess it's love. My boyfriend and I have been on many adventures. I love him still, but I think I am ...

She doesn't turn me on any more.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

23 October 2013 (M) - Help! I don't find my girlfriend sexually attractive anymore. We've been dating about 1 and half years. We do get along really well, I do enjoy spending time with her. She's funny, weird, quirky, clever but I come to the point where I fantasize ...

I love him, but seem much more affectionate than he is. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

22 October 2013 (F) - I'm a very affectionate, outgoing person. I like texting people saying goodmorning and goodnight, asking people how their day is, wishing them well. I do it to close family members and my boyfriend. Because of my job, I work and live several hours ...

It's a terrible mess, can't stay, can't leave my husband

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

21 October 2013 (F) - Please help. I'm a 39 year old woman, been with my husband for 11 years, one of them married. We have two beautiful children. My relationship with my husband began breaking down about three years ago. Too many details as always but essentally...

Is this something that can be salvaged or should I throw in the towel now and save myself time and heartache?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

21 October 2013 (F) - I'm really unsure if me and my boyfriend have a future together. After nearly a year together I discovered texts on my boyfriends phone begging his ex to get back with him from around the time we got together. I snooped on his phone, don't ask...

Should I consider marrying my best friend, even though I don't feel anything for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

21 October 2013 (F) - I have a friend we have been really best buddies since 5 years and started to like me but i dont have feelings for him, he proposed me n i became mad and ended our friendship, after a year i contacted him because i was really falling apart due to my ...

I'm hurting so bad, I'm losing him. Please help!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

19 October 2013 (F) - I really need some advice. I feel like I'm dying a slow painful death. I've been with my bf for 3 years. We're the same age. We aren't living together but spent our weekends/a couple days a week together. We've been through, and overcome, a lot in ...

Got the MM and it hasn't exactly been "happily ever after"

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

19 October 2013 (F) - this is very long winded so anybody who has the patience to read and answer...thankyou in advance! 5 years ago i started an affair with a married man. at first it was just fun then it got deeper and everybody started getting hurt. eventually...

At first all was well in our marriage, but now I'm a lonely, lost lady as I have to be and do what he thinks is the best for the marriage!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

17 October 2013 (F) - Dear aunty. I'm a young lady who is in late 20's and I got married at the age of 20 as a second wife to my husband who is 13 years older than me. At the beggining all was well but now I fell ...

He's withholding emotionally and romantically.... Advice please??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

16 October 2013 (F) - My bf and I have been together 3 years. We're both in our early to mid 30's. We don't live together but usually spend weekends together and sometimes during the week if we can work it out. He used to be emotionally/physically available to me until ...

If you tell your lover what you need and they don't even make an effort to hear you is it time to leave?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4053 days ago

15 October 2013 (F) - My boyfriend of 3 years is not demonstrative about his feelings for me. I like getting the occasional text or phone call, especially when I am ill or he knows I am having a tough time. I have tried calmly telling him how I feel. That intimacy to...

Why does he suddenly seem distant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4055 days ago

14 October 2013 (F) - Why does he suddenly seem distant? I've been chatting with an old high school friend for about 4 months. We've been talking everyday (facebook, skype, phone, etc) and it was pretty intense-talking about the future, him telling me he misses me, al...

Can you sue someone for giving you an STD?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

13 October 2013 (F) - Can you sue someone for giving you an STD? My ex boyfriend has contacted me, to say that he recently ejaculated blood and that if he has an STD he will be suing me. I haven't had a check-up for a few months, but last time I went to the doctors ...

It's like we have nothing interesting to talk about even though I know we do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

8 October 2013 (F) - I feel like me and my boyfriend aren't communicating as much and aren't as connected like we used to be. He's been off with me lately and I always think the worst of things which I hate but I really want things to work between us and I don't like ...

Losing attachement to boyfriemd but I love him... what next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

7 October 2013 (F) - I really do love and care for my boyfriend. However, I'm beginning to question his... Dedication. He is quite lazy when it comes to building our relationship. I'm always wanting to hang out and talk (he lives about 2 hrs away)... He'd rather surf ...

I really love this guy and want to spend the rest of my life with him but he left me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

7 October 2013 (F) - Hi All, Please help me out.I am so hurt. Me and my guy friend were dating for 6 months. I fell for him.He was seriously unto me and happy with me and all stuffs happened between us.He let a female friend between us and woud never stop texting ...

I have a good boyfriend now but my ex lover contacted me again and I am confused.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4063 days ago

6 October 2013 (F) - Hi there I am in a pickle at the moment. I am currently with a man whom I love dearly and have pictured having kids with him and also marriage he's a gem! Have had a tough relationship but we've lulled through a lot together, he also has autistic ...

He spends more time online and in chat rooms than with me - what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

3 October 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm on the verge of tears, I have no idea what to do. I love my boyfriend with all my heart and soul, but lately he's become so enamored with this virtual chat game called IMVU. He spends more time on that game then he does ...

He cheated on me - is this worth fixing?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4065 days ago

3 October 2013 (F) - Hi there, I'm in need of help. I started dating this man in sept. 2011 and we dated a year and got engaged October. 2012, moved in with him, things have been going great, was thinking i found a good man, then surprise I got into his email cause ...

We aren't really together nor broken up.. Need advice please!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4064 days ago

3 October 2013 (F) - My boyfriend (of 3 years) and I just... broke up?? I'll explain why that's questionable. We didn't live together but spent weekends together and a couple days during the week when our work schedules allowed. We had a serious relationship where we'd ...

He's been depressed and gone off sex and I'm secretly glad

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4066 days ago

3 October 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 years. It took us a while to finally get together in a relationship so I was ecstatic when we did. We've had the most amazing 2 years. We regularly go on city breaks together and do lots of ...

Can you get over a lack of physical attraction if the person is great enough?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4067 days ago

1 October 2013 (F) - How do you get over not having a physical attraction to someone? I met the most amazing guy. Which is not something I say easily or throw around, I have been married and never talked that way about my ex husband. We have been talking for a fe...