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Archived questions from: March, 2016 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Should I end this relationship? It hurts me to end something that has so much potential and beauty to grow

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

31 March 2016 (F) - Hi guys, I'm in a dilemma. I come from a very traditional Pakistani family but born and raised in the states. I grew up wanting a Pakistani guy who looks like me and has similar values and upbringing because it's so complex and detailed. An...

What do I do? My BF refuses to stop talking to a girl he had a crush on before meeting me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

31 March 2016 (F) - So I moved in with my boyfriend in the end of OCT . It was love at first meeting and a very quick move in together. He moved me in on his birthday of all things and said I was the best birthday gift ever. Well since then Ive had to wade through ...

Did I make a mistake when I decided to let him go? Broke up last night

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3194 days ago

31 March 2016 (F) - i really don't know how to express myself still i will try. Its been 2 years since i am dating my boyfriend. Both of us are in our late twenties and this is the 2nd relationship for both of us. We started dating in 2014 before that we were ...

Deal breaker? Should I end my relationship with my fiance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3194 days ago

31 March 2016 (F) - I'm really heart broken and disappointed. I am in a LDR realtionship for 3 years and my fiancé is going to come where I live and get marry this summer. It has been an extremely difficult pat to get here. We both are divorced his wife moved to an...

Unfinished business? Should I leave my current GF for an ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

30 March 2016 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have been going out with my current girlfriend for roughly 5 months now, and everything was going fine, until my ex recently came back on the scene. I had a strong connection with my ex and we were each others best friends. I do n...

Was my boyfriend insensitive to praise this new employee to the extent he did? Or am I being too sensitive?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

30 March 2016 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend a few years now and we love each other but a comment he made this morning really upset me... He was interviewing this woman for a job and he texted me afterwards saying she was excellent and that he would be hiring h...

I have a LDR but have reconnected with an ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3194 days ago

30 March 2016 (M) - I have been with my current partner for 4 months now, and everything is fine. It's long distance (100 miles). But I drive to see her once a week. However, my ex has recently come back in to my life. My ex and I both moved cross country for ...

How long its acceptable to wait, between texting episodes with my LDR? Should I wait for him to text first?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3194 days ago

30 March 2016 (F) - Im currently seeing a guy who i go to university with, we're not in an official relationship but have agreed not to see anyone else. We're both at home at the moment as its the holidays but we live a long way from each other so haven't seen eac...

After we had sex I assumed he would not be back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3194 days ago

30 March 2016 (F) - I met a guy on a dating site. We met up and ended up sleeping together. This was my first time involving myself in something like this. I watched him during the date and he is mature, understanding and well-balanced. I had a feeling that we would ...

Is it wise to confront him with all that I have found out about him in contact with his ex? We have been together for 12 years

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3195 days ago

30 March 2016 (F) - I have been with this man for 12 years I just recently found out that he has been paying for his ex bills though their kids are grown Found out Thur text on his phone with texting and calling each on it the daily found text where they are send...

Do I have a right to feel uncomfortable? Everyone has a past, but my boyfriend keeps dropping bombshells

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3195 days ago

29 March 2016 (F) - I have had a wonderful few months with my boyfriend but he just keeps dropping bombshells. The first was about a one night stand he had in his unhappy marriage two years ago which he regretted. Then he told me he uses alcohol as an emotiona...

He's asked for a second chance and I said no. Should I let him back? He's so jealous.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3194 days ago

29 March 2016 (F) - I was in a relationship with this guy and at the beggining everything was great.it was my first relationship so i was really excited so was he. he was really in love with me and after a month he first told me he loved me. BUT he was jealous all ...

My new boyfriend wants me to shave EVERYWHERE!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

29 March 2016 (F) - helo. My new boyfriend is 8 years older than me, we met on a dating site (i didn't mean to join the site i was only there for fun so we met). He is muscular, very smart, very clean, handy, hygienic but what i find odd is he doesn't like hair. He ...

My boyfriend is a dad, and the child's mother hates me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

28 March 2016 (F) - Hey everyone thank you in advance for helping me I am having an issue here and need advice desperately. For the last 5 months I have been dating a great man who has a 4 year old son with his ex fiancé, a woman who he still remains close wi...

I so want to date but never get asked!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3195 days ago

28 March 2016 (F) - I feel embarassed just typing this, but well... I am 22 year old, college student, I am outgoing, I have a lot of friends and I am quite popular with them. I am tomboyish as in "loving sports, fights and cars" but you wouldn't tell from the w...

Should I propose to him? He has said in the past that he wouldn't mind.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

28 March 2016 (F) - My BF of 3 yrs and I are travelling to California and Vegas in October and have decided to elope while there.. secretly! Anyway I know he's been looking been looking at engagement rings bur I also know he does not have the money for one ( he sta...

How can I be myself around others, without putting myself in danger?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

28 March 2016 (M) - I've pretty much been a loner since I was a child. I usually I aim to beat to my own drum but I do crave friendship and a romantic relationship. What sucks is that I can't pin-point what exactly the problem is. I think people might be intimid...

Should my stepbrother and I date in secret? Our parents have told us that we can't.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

28 March 2016 (F) - me and my step brother like eachother but my step mom and my dad have set us tow down and said we cant date but i want to know if we should date secertly or not ...

He's at least 10 years older than me. Should I go with it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3195 days ago

28 March 2016 (F) - hi I started going to the gym and began to have a crush on a guy. I'm thinking he knows I like him because he introduced himself to me and said to ask him if I need help with the machines. The only thing is that he's probably at least 10 years older ...

I don't love him, but should I let him go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

28 March 2016 (F) - I've been dating someone my own age for about six months now. For me, this is brand new. I never date for very long, so the fact I've made it this far is astonishing. This person, we'll call him Blue Eyes, I met him through my mother. She met him, ...

My stretch marks seem to be a huge problem for the men that I date

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3197 days ago

28 March 2016 (F) - I came out of a 3 year relationship almost 2 years ago and for the past year I have been dating again. It's kind of personal to talk about but I am someone with very sensitive skin, and my breasts grew very fast when I was young and because of t...

Is this a wild romance or am I fooling myself? Should I go meet this man or take a pass? Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3197 days ago

27 March 2016 (F) - Hi everyone I know at my age I probably have experienced or seen almost everything regarding the relationship between man and woman, but I'm stumped to the point of distraction. So, maybe a bit of discussion and your help? I am in my forties, divo...

Are there men who want to build relationships and not just have casual sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3195 days ago

27 March 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid It's a rhetorical question may be, but is there men who wants to build a relationship not just have casual sex. I have been dating for sometime and lost trust in male population as it is, everywhere I see people just want to have a c...

This new guy is generally nice but very strange at times

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3195 days ago

27 March 2016 (F) - help!! This new guy that i am seeing is generally a nice sweet guy, but he is weird in a way that he denies when i ask him not to do anything or change, basically everything. For example, he has a habit early in a morning create a horrend...

I cant deal with my boyfriends irresponsibility

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3198 days ago

27 March 2016 (F) - hi, i need an advice regarding a bad situation between my bf and i. we are together for 2 years. in february he was in a car accident and needed some financial help to cover the expenses. i didnt have any cash at that moment but my $1000.00 credit ...

We are always fighting and he says I push him away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

26 March 2016 (F) - I've been dating this guy for about 6years now we met @school l love him so much and I don't want to lose him but the problem we always fight,he tells me am pushing him away and I don't know what to do...l Dnt want to lose him he means a lot to ...

He seems flaky. Is he not that interested or just bad at keeping plans?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3195 days ago

26 March 2016 (F) - I met this guy through a mutual friend 2 weeks ago.The first time we arranged to meet up, he flaked on our plans. Basically, we arranged to meet up after 6 pm when he gets off work.I texted him earlier that day and said "hey" but he didn't respond. ...

Should I marry him, considering that I have major trust issues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3199 days ago

26 March 2016 (F) - Ive been with my fiance for 6 years and last year he proposed to me. Our relationship has its ups and downs. Ive known his positive and negative traits more than anyone he knows. Probably more than his family do. He is quite loving and caring ...

What should I consider? I have finally found love, but I am scared my parents will disapprove

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3198 days ago

26 March 2016 (F) - I didn't mean to fall in love with him I just did. I am 22 and he is 24 I have had one serious relationship which was abusive and lasted 5 years. I finally ended that relationship and have spent just under a year being single, trying to fix my...

How much does dating actually cost?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3197 days ago

26 March 2016 (M) - So, I was telling my roommate about my plans to build a new computer and media center for the living room, and he told me I should get a girlfriend (instead of appreciating my contributions to the house). While he might or might not be right, I ...

Dumped by a cowardly text!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3198 days ago

26 March 2016 (F) - Hi I am hoping for some guidance with something that has happened to me this week. My boyfriend of a year dumped me by text. It was literally a line saying lets call it a day, following a couple of harsh texts between us. Ironically, I act...

I lost 42 pounds and gained confidence. Why are people now so mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3199 days ago

26 March 2016 (F) - Hi guys. I'm struggling at the moment as I'm quite a sensitive person and I've always wanted to be liked by everyone. This means that sometimes I give people more effort or time than they would give me and I take comments people make quite perso...

Should I marry him knowing what I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

Now that I've started dating again I find myself having dreams about my ex! Does this mean I'm not over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3199 days ago

25 March 2016 (F) - My ex-boyfriend and I dated for one year and broke up three months ago. He was an amazing partner and a wonderful person. He was always attentive towards me and I treasured him. We were in love, however later realized that our opposite personalities ...

I feel like the rebound...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

25 March 2016 (F) - Ok so I've been chatting online to a guy for the past 3 months casually enough but then we decided to have our first date, that's about 6 weeks ago now and we're now on date 14. I'm a very shy and insecure person so this is a massive step for me. H...

My exes are trying to get back with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

24 March 2016 (M) - Can any body tell me what's going on ,in th,making ple past three weeks,four ex girlfriends, have been wanting to see me,one l am seeing again, we were together four years ago, two from two years ago, or so, an now one from thirty five years ago, ...

Questions to ask before getting married!

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24 March 2016 (F) - I just read a great article in the New York Times online. "13 Questions to Ask Before Getting Married” It was written by Eleanor Stanford and posted March 24, 2016. http://www.nytimes.com...

I'm cheating with a guy with a girlfriend and I'm really confused!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3201 days ago

24 March 2016 (F) - I was going out with a boy for a few months last year then he broke up with me and got a new girlfriend. They've now been together about 4 months but in the past 2 months we've been seeing eachother without her knowing. On one hand I don't feel ...

Should I be concerned? My fiance takes her phone everywhere and I think she's hiding something

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3201 days ago

24 March 2016 (M) - So I have been with my girlfriend for 10 years and engaged for a couple years now. Recently things have changed her personality she's bitchy and nasty then other times it's how things used to be. She still says I love you and kisses me good bye. The ...

I want to date him, but told him I want to be friends!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

24 March 2016 (F) - Hi I've been single for over 4 years now had quite a few dates over that time but nothing came of them and then I stopped dating for over a year then I started talking to someone online and he asked me out, at first I said yes but because my ...

Why am I good enough to spend all her time with and have amazing sex, but not good enough to date

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3198 days ago

24 March 2016 (M) - This is going to sound a bit backwards since it's usually the other way around. However, I have a fwb and she kinda confuses me sometimes. We have been sleeping together for around 6 months. And the sex is mind-blowing. Two people could not have b...

Am I too uptight with saving intimacy until later? Does this turn men off and was it a mistake to visit his home?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3201 days ago

23 March 2016 (F) - I posted last week and would appreciate further advice. I went on 7 dates with a great guy and we communicated daily. The last date, I went to his place and we made out but I was clear in not wanting to go further just yet. At the end of the evening ...

I fell for my friend and now I feel like a fool

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3202 days ago

23 March 2016 (F) - Hi! I've always had a thing for this friend of mine but we both didn't act upon it. A couple of years later we got back in touch and decided we will go on a date whenever we are in the same city. It was supposed to be 'casual' because he isn't lo...

I called my boyfriend's parents house several times and he reported me to the police

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3202 days ago

23 March 2016 (F) - I did something wrong today. Last night I got into a huge fight with my boyfriend because he never has time for me and always makes me feel second to everything. I was still mad and we argued again today. Not only did he not admit he was wrong, h...

Boyfriend hasn't been paying the agreed amount and now I am in debt!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3201 days ago

22 March 2016 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for three years. I am in love with him completely and he is in love with me. We moved in together after a year and a half. We have no issues living together and love being able to spend that much time together. our ...

I'm worried my parents might think he is too old for me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3202 days ago

22 March 2016 (F) - I have been having sex with a lecturer at my university for just over 4 months now. Now I will say, he doesn't have anything to do with my university grade. He has never taught me. However, he will sometimes help out with lab work and field tr...

How can I make this work? I want to get back with her. My family think I'm crazy to try.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3202 days ago

22 March 2016 (M) - My ex girlfriend and I had a pretty intense relationship. We met when she was pregnant with her son, we became friends first but started dating shortly after her son was born. I hadn't had much contact with my family for a few years but once we ...

What can I do? I have a crush on a person but I am in a relationship with another.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3203 days ago

22 March 2016 (F) - Dear readers, Thanks for taking your time to read this. I've been in a loving relationship with my boyfriend for more than six years. We met each other in Highschool and were each others' firsts in almost everything. I am 22, my boyfriend is t...

Is it right to stay in a relationship when your partner indicates that someone before you was his ''perfect match''??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3203 days ago

22 March 2016 (F) - I would really like some opinions about my situation and I'm not sure if I'm being an idiot staying with my boyfriend or if I should leave him. I've been with him for three years and from the second date he started talking about a female friend qu...

Should I trust and feel reassured by my Boyfriend's remarks considering he cheated on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3203 days ago

22 March 2016 (F) - My ex boyfriend cheated on me and it has affected subsequent relationships. When I said to my current boyfriend that I always want to be his only one, he said to rest well knowing I am the only one he thinks about. Would this be reassuring ...