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writes:I did something wrong today. Last night I got into a huge fight with my boyfriend because he never has time for me and always makes me feel second to everything. I was still mad and we argued again today. Not only did he not admit he was wrong, he ignored me when he knows I hate it when people ignore me. He thinks that after he ignores me and we talk again I will forget and everything will be fine.I was really pissed he ignored me today and called his house number. I called about 4-5 times and his parents picked up and I hung up without saying anything. This got his attention and got him pissed. He called the police and reported me. Then he called me, with the police on the phone and recording what I was saying, he asked me if i was the one calling his house trying to get me to admit it on record for the police.I know what I did was wrong and I will apologize to his parents the next time I see them. But for him to have done what he did is messed up! He could have turned off the phone, took it offline, told his parents to yell at me, did anything but he chose to call the police on me and even went as far as to call me with them on the line to try to get a statement to incriminate me!To me that is crossing the line! Now that it's done with he dismisses what he did and wants me to apologize TO HIM. I think he is the one that owes me an apology and I may not even forgive him! Reply to this Question
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reader, Caring Aunty A  +, writes (23 March 2016):
 Sure enough you were ignored, pissed off and he wasn't going to apologise for his ignorant behaviour. He's immature! However for him to call the Police in this boyfriend girlfriend dummy spit was a complete overreaction and a serious waste of Police resources!
Girlfriend it just goes to show you, you’re in a deadbeat relationship with this guy. Think about it. Look how he resolves arguments when they occur between you, does he make you feel you’re number one? No! Had you behaved in a seriously threatening manner; sure call the Police. Yet here he was piss weak and tried to set you up!
As for making apologies and forgiving someone I’d agree to that… I’m happy to apologise for my wrongdoings if and when they have been pointed out to me and when I have recognised I acted unwisely, regardless of who’s at fault, that's being wise and mature at any age.
If you think that he owes you an apology; don’t hold your breath, or be as pigheaded as he is. You both need to apologise for your actions and rethink your relationship!
Cheers CCA
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (23 March 2016):
 I agree with the other aunties, what you done was immature and very childish. What he done was also very childish, the police have more important things to be doing. I think you should both end this relationship and wait until you are both mature enough to enter in to another one.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (23 March 2016):
 Calling the house and hanging up was immature and wrong.
He did not need to call the police but he did. clearly he's telling you that your behavior is unacceptable.
Send his parents a lovely card and some flowers and apologize that way.
and end it with the boyfriend. you two just like to push each others buttons and play silly games that involve authorities and waste time.
both of you need to grow up.
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reader, Ivyblue +, writes (23 March 2016):
 I wouldn't bother with either. You giving or you getting. Walk away and look forward to finding a more suitable mate
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (23 March 2016):
 So break up with him?!
Why on Earth would you call his parents number and then hang up? Are you 7 years old?
If he isn't giving you enough attention and tine, you END it, you do NOT harass his parents. It's childish!
And there is no excuse for you behavior that makes what you did OK.
And... no excuse for HIS.
I think the police has better things to do then sort out a couple of brats little tiff.
BREAK UP and grow up.
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