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writes:alright, 3 part question here. There is this girl in my class at college who is really cute and i want to get to know her/ask her out, but a few things first. 1) im not really a super outgoing kind of person and tend to be kind of shy, how can i get past this and talk to her? and from what i observed in class (i could be wrong) was that she seems shy too. 2) im afraid that she is out of my league, because she is gorgeous and im not the hottest guy on campus. And 3) there is a bit of a height difference (she is taller), its not a huge difference id say maybe an inch or so. So in closing how can i get past these and talk to her and maybe eventually ask her out?Any help is appreciated, Thanks!!
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reader, Daniel the love doctor  +, writes (16 September 2011):
 Well first I think you should build up more confidence. Think back to prior experiences (if possible) where you've succeeded in asking a girl out. AND START THINKING POSITIVE. Try to work past your shyness by just going in with the thought that you just want to flirt, talk, and/or meet someone new.
I also think some tips I gave in the comments section to this article may be able to help you out as well: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-approach-a-girl-for-a.html
Wishing you the best! :^)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2011): My boyfriend is shy and I am also slightly taller than him (about as much as you and that girl) So have no fear! These things can work out. Mind you, in my case I asked him out but he was very happy I did.
Give it some time. Talk to this girl. Smile at her. Make her laughter. The height difference is no big deal. The important part is to make an impression, make her laugh. Who knows? She might just ask you out first.
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