A
female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: Ok, so here's the deal.When me and my boyfriend hug, he gets a boner.I find it hilarious, but I never acknowledge it properly.More often than not, I'll just rest my hip against it and move slightly.Just wondering if there's anything else I can do (other than the obvious sticking my hand down his pants) to acknowledge I'm happy it's there?I have a pretty flirty personality, and I'd just like some suggestions :33Thank you!
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reader, KittieS +, writes (16 September 2011):
Hi there,
Well he is obviously attracted to you!
It's lovely he does, even being an older lady when my boyfriend sometimes hugs/greets me he gets one - I don't find it hilarious but I do giggle to myself and think - yep he's mine!
If your not ready to take it to the next level your not! So when your ready your know, your still young take it slow and enjoy your time experiencing new things!!!
But please be safe, buy condoms please - your still young and condoms are always the way forward in early days x
You be safe but have lots of fun x
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male
reader, Thelaird1 +, writes (16 September 2011):
I think you just need to let things happen naturally. He is obviously very attracted to you and you are obviously happy with it.
Just have fun and stay safe
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female
reader, CindyCares +, writes (16 September 2011):
Hilarious,why ? I'd say it's totally normal - particularly if he's your age !
I'll leave more explicit , technical suggestions to younger Aunts, I just would like to remind you leaving the official " aknowledgements " for when you are in private, in public you risk embarassing him, and the people around you.
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reader, unknown2u +, writes (16 September 2011):
Ignoring it is "acknowledging it properly". A lady accepts the compliment (which his boner is, in spades) demurely. In public she pretends it hasn't happened, and doesn't embarrass him.
If things are private, and if your relationship has moved to that level, then a handjob is always appropriate.
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