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writes:Why do guys just stop contacting a girl? If everything was going good. I used talk to a guy a lot on the phone, we never actually had a date, but our last conversation was when he rang me, and everything was good. He is single so am I. Then I phoned him about a week later and he never returned my call, this was almost five weeks ago considering we would ring each other every week. In fact when he rang me he was very happy and interested, I don't know if I should call him again. What do you think? and what could be up with him? Reply to this Question
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (16 September 2011):
Hi there. Why is it that you only talk on the phone, is it an LDR?
If it is Long Distance, well then maybe he can't see the point, when you aren't able to see each other.
How did you meet in the first place?
I would say, definitely DON'T call him again now. Leave any further contact, up to him.
If you were to call him, it would come across as needy and desperate. And it might actually annoy him.
So unfortunately, unless you know anyone else who knows him and what's happening in his life now (to find out anything), all you can really do is wait it out and see if in time, he does call you back.
Five weeks is a fair bit of time, I admit. Perhaps he is sick, or has gone away on holidays, or away on business. Who really knows? Only time will tell, what's going to happen.
If it gets to be 2 or 3 months and no contact by him, well then it might be time to forget about him completely.
And in the meantime, don't just sit by the phone at home, hoping he will call. Instead, go about your own life and see your friends and have fun and be happy.
Life is too short.
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reader, Daniel the love doctor  +, writes (16 September 2011):
 Well just because you both are single, doesn't necessarily mean that the feelings that you may have for him are mutual. You two haven't been on a date, let alone made a commitment to see each other, and there's nothing more than phone conversations going on between the two of you. So at the most, he may just see you as a good friend...or phone buddy. If your interest is there, you may have to take some initiative. Set up a day to hang out. Go out to lunch or something, and express your interest in him- and find out if he's interested in dating. If so...then great! If not, then at least you know where he stands- and you could keep your options open to meeting other guys...some that may possibly reciprocate the interest. Wishing you the best! :^)
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