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I need breathing space!

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Question - (4 November 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 November 2011)
A female Nigeria age 36-40, *oko writes:

How do i tell my bf to give me a breathing spaz without hurting his feelings

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2011):

Hello, and firstly how long have you been together? Men/boys are a funny species and some can be quite cool with space then there are others who relish being with somone.

You could try with next time he says about goin out or doing something together say maybe tomorrow. You need to start small because if you race in and say "look your crampin my style back off" chances are you will hurt his feelins. As time goes on you could lengthen your time apart and make plans with your other female friends so he'll know he cant join in on that, hopefully this way he'll start doin other things too and then when your together things will be great :o)

Hope this helps.

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