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writes:On another note, my guy friend and me have been talking for almost a month now. During this almost month we've kissed, held hands, and hugged. When we started talking, it was a day after my break up with my 2 year long boyfriend and my friend told me it was hard because I just got out of a break up. I told him I agreed and from there we've been warming up to each other. I've already made closure with my break up and my ex and I are no longer connected with each other. I believe that I am ready to be in another relationship, but I don't know if he is. Is he just using me or does he actually like me? I really do like him. My heart flutters when I'm with him and it never did when I was with my ex. I'm scared that he doesn't share the same feelings for me. What should I do? I want to ask him if we're going anywhere but I don't know how. He tells me he does once a week when the subject comes up but I don't know. Can anyone tell me how to ask him?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (22 November 2011):
 you will need to ask him what his intentions are...
but be aware no one is going to say "i want to boink you and then dump you in the dirt".... so if you are not sure of what he wants... tread lightly and go slowly...
why does this subject come up once a week...
what you need to do is is go slowly.. don't have sex with him till you are sure... spend time with him, get to know him... wait till those butterflies in your belly pass a bit before progressing to the next stage...
there is no rush...
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reader, cry +, writes (22 November 2011):
 how to ask him...be blunt, be truthful, say exactley what you want to know. just like you wrote here.thats the only way ..and i bet hell say ,,i have the same feeling for you too i just didnt know how to say them or tell you...guys are funny ..
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