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writes:I just got out of a 2 year relationship to a guy that I was actually engaged to. I was very unhappy with the relationship and he was more concerned about his happiness than mine. I couldn't take it anymore so I left. I'm in a new relationship and the guy is really sweet and amazing, he treats me really well, but when we had sex it was very awkward. I'm not used to that at all, and it turns me off from the idea of doing it again. Was it awkward because I just got out of such a long relationship? Or do we really just not have that kind of connection?? I dont know what to do.
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reader, daniellexxxx  +, writes (22 November 2011):
 Hi.. think you should of left it a couple of months to get over your ex... sounds to me like your on the rebound trying to get over him by useing someone else. think you should be on your own until you know what you really want..good luck x
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reader, hannah76 +, writes (22 November 2011):
 Hello, I think you need to get to know him better. You are just out of a long term relationship and all of a sudden a new guy, personality, body, etc is around you. It really will be different and strange. I think give things time and get to know him a little bit more.
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reader, adamantine  +, writes (22 November 2011):
 Is there a reason you jumped into the new relationship so quickly, and also had sex so quickly with this new guy? Of course it probably won't feel right if you're trying to forget about your ex or trying to push out bad memories. If there's no connection, sex generally isn't going to be that great. Maybe you should hold off on sex until you know this guy better and are sure that you want a relationship with him.
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