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writes:I met this guy at University through mutual friends. We texted constantly for a few days and things were going really well, when suddenly one day he just stopped replying and when I saw him though we spoke he seemed distant. I don't understand what I've done wrong. My friend told me that he was seeing someone and that this was going on around the time we were texting. I still really like him but don't understand why he would do this? Should I give up?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (22 November 2011):
 you can like him all you want but I would not date him if he texts one girl while seeing another and is not truthful about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2011): Maybe he enjoyed the excitement of your flurry of texts, but backed off when it looked liked becoming something real. And that's because he has a girlfriend. People go in for these flirty text sessions thinking them harmless. I would think no more about him or the texts. No harm done.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2011): Men are like curious cats, the less they know, the more they prowl around. Let it go, move along, sing a song, cry in your cereal. But under no circumstances reach out to him.
If you don't allow him to feel his own feelings, which can take most men an incredibly long time, he will never feel them. Call it down time, he has to get down into his feelings you can't push him there, he'll freak and flee.
Let it go, you'll feel better in the morning.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2011): It depends on what you want from the guy. If he's seen with more than one woman it's no big deal. He's probably considering his many options. If you've already concluded like Honeypie that you want to be his special woman then be honest with yourself & to him. STOP TEXTING. Go get what you believe is rightfully yours. Claim his heart. It could be that his sms silence may be the result of him spending time with another woman in the flesh. That's a more concrete aquaintence don't you think?. You've got to act fast if you want him so bad. Otherwise he will be taken away. ACT NOW! It's a jungle out there.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (22 November 2011):
 I would. If he is seeing more then one girl at a time, he's not worth the effort.
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