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Archived questions from: 20 August, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

My girlfriend's ex is around all the time with their son. Its too much!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4848 days ago

20 August 2011 (M) - I met this girl "megan" 2 yrs ago through work, she was dating a jerk to say the least. she was madly in love with him and couldnt see how big of an ass he was. A few months after meeting her she got pregnant, he cheated on her several times through ...

I didn't ask for her number and now I miss her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

20 August 2011 (M) - Met up with my buddy to discuss a trip. Brought some booze, he brought some too = Too much booze. Typical situation. Well here's the kicker; he brought his colleague along this time. I don't know if it was intentional but he isolated himself...

He likes to french kiss! I don't!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4848 days ago

20 August 2011 (F) - What do I do when my boyfriend likes to tongue but I actually hate it with a passion, what should I do?...

I enjoy being single, why is everyone asking when I'll get in a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

20 August 2011 (F) - Im happily single dont get me wrong ive been having fun with a few guys (with protection and the pill obviously) but everyone keeps asking me if im with anyone and when im going to get into a relationship. Im only 20! Im enjoying being a single ...

Is this what dating is supposed to be about? I'm unhappy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

20 August 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, This is my first relationship. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 months now, except she technically isn't allowed to date due to her fathers strict rule. Because of her father, we haven't been able to see each other often...

Why don't girls look at me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4848 days ago

20 August 2011 (M) - I have a question, mainly for girls. Why don't girls look at me? If I'm with someone, likely they will look at the other person more than me. For example, today I was sitting at a table opposite a friend at work. This girl who I vaguely knew s...

After a month he just stopped responding. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4848 days ago

20 August 2011 (F) - For about a month i,ve been texting and meeting up with a friend of a friends brother. Everything was going great until he stood me up and never replied to my texts. He wouldn't even text or call me to let me know he wasn't coming. I haven't texted ...

Just makes some sense out of this.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4848 days ago

20 August 2011 (F) - Have you ever wanted to just shake someone and scream in their ear, "I f***ing love you. Get over yourself already?!" After heartbreak, I met a guy in November of 2009 online. I wasn't even particularly looking to start something new, but there w...

He talks to me every day but won't ask me out. Should I stop contact?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4848 days ago

20 August 2011 (F) - Hi, I have been in constant contact via text and phone with this guy I met through work. We are always texting or phoning each other and occasionally have a coffee or lunch. We are very flirty with each other and it is def more than. friends, if I ...

How long does it take the know someone and take things slow?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

20 August 2011 (F) - ok i barly met this guy on Thurday (8-18-11) after school. i thought he was really cute and so i asked him for his Facebook and number. he gave it to me and i started to talk to him every since thursday. and the more we got to know each other the ...

Long Distance has affected our relationship. Is a temporary separation the way to go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

20 August 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for over 2 years now. Last year I went to college and she stayed back home in high school which was very tough, but we managed to get through it. Right now we are both getting ready to go to college, but we have...

He wants me to allow a violent friend to rent the room in my house. How do I say no to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

20 August 2011 (F) - I am 50 with him 12 yrs. i do not work and we rent out a room . he is always gone he says to make extra money so why do i put up with people in my home . i dont have anything with him i feel so very bad. yes i do look for work. he says he loves me i...

I'm thinking deeply and she seems to be living on the surface

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4848 days ago

20 August 2011 (M) - I am a 30 year old man, and so a human being also. As a human, I have evolved over millions of years through a need to survive. This survival not surprisingly has required a strong need to procreate, and hence I am biological geared to be attracted ...

Our relationship is in the doldrums because of all the Porn he has watched. What would improve things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4848 days ago

20 August 2011 (F) - I'm confused by my feelings. My boyfriend told me he watches a lot of porn, then changed his mind and said he used to watch a lot. Then he said that he's pretty much seen everything and is desensitised to it all now. He joked that he'd have to see ...

Falling in love was great but now it hurts like hell. I am 50 she is 18. Will she come back to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

20 August 2011 (M) - i am a 50 and male,and i have been working with this young woman who is 18. She is the owners daughter so I first was aware of her when she was 11. About 8 months ago,we fell in love,believe it or not, both our first love... i have never dated be...

FB bane of my life. Do I trust him? Or just break up over his lies?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

20 August 2011 (F) - ive been with this guy for 7 months and all we really seem to do is argue :/ .. he always adding girls on Facebook and i get really paranoid as to whether he talks to them. So one day me and my friend made a female on Facebook( i know that's w...

We are mis-matched sexually. How can I resolve this and still keep him in my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

20 August 2011 (F) - I'm 22 years old and I am in a relationship where ironically the sterotypical roles are reversed. My boyfriend (25) and I have been dating for a little over two months. Funny how it happend...I was in a 4 year relationship in one place then mov...

My girl friend is on a path that will destroy our relationship. Should I continue to see her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

20 August 2011 (M) - I have been in love with a girl over the past 2 years. she wants to make acting her career, but despite being in love with me she has made up her mind to sleep with other influential men to groom her career. Please suggest what i should do, shou...

Is your life over once you have a child? I am so scared

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

20 August 2011 (F) - I just found out I am pregnant, the baby wasn't planned but I did have unprotected sex stupidly. I am engaged and in a commited relationship so it's not like I will be alone. My fiance so excited about it. > Im so scared to think thats it now...

Thoughts on engagement rings?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

20 August 2011 (F) - A friend of mine recently got engaged, and then broke the engagement off last weekend. Her now ex-fiance stated "that was a total waste of $4500" (meaning the amount that he spent on the engagement ring.) I personally agree that $4500 is too much to ...

Should I go out with him? I really want to to, but I am scared

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

20 August 2011 (F) - Okay, so im realllllyyy into this guy. He is my age and seems like a really great guy and all that stuff. but he smokes, does weed, alcohol and isnt a virgin..Yeah i know its all bad stuf, but ive done everythin but sex, ima virgin. I really likie ...

How do I get over my B/F one night stand in the short time we were not together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

20 August 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 6 months and I broke up for a week. He had sex with someone else while we were broken up. I broke up with him and wouldn't talk to him and when I finally talked to him after that week I realized I wanted to be with him so we got back ...

Should I be concerned that my 26 year old BF now says he is "too young" for marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

20 August 2011 (F) - What can a man do when he is in a committed relationship that he cannot do once he gets engaged? I ask because my boyfriend of several years (who I live with) told me last week that he was too young for a marriage committment at 26 when we were tal...

Is my problem more about my own jealousy than anything else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

20 August 2011 (M) - I really like this girl. And she's a good friend of mine. The problem is she is best friends with another guy. They are way too abnormally close. This concerns me. I have a feeling something will happen between them. She always chooses him to ...

I need to hear the truth. Should I persist with him or am I being too hasty?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

20 August 2011 (F) - I'm 19 and I'm in a long distance relationship. I haven't had much experience before this relationship. My previous relationship (my first bf) lasted 2 months and was long distance as well. My current LDR has been going on for 2 years. He lives one ...

Girlfriend says I'm rude on the phone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

20 August 2011 (M) - Sooo my girlfriend gets pissed at me when i yawn or stretch when im on the phone with her. She says im getting annoyed and bored with her when i am not at all!!! And another thing is she will say baby? And ill say what? And shes like u dont need to ...

Create A Checklist For Your First Date

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

20 August 2011 (M) - So you landed the date that you wanted with the person that captured your interest. How should you plan it to make sure things go well? Make sure you set up a simple checklist. Here's what you can include: #1. Choice of Clothes and Accessorie...