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Archived questions from: 26 August, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I need to choose between a guy who's intense and one who's easy going but without the strong connection

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - I'm 5 months out of a 6 year engagement and I moved to a new city to spend some time with myself and meet new men. I met one and have been dating him "B" for 3 months now, but he's been very intense, wanting to be exclusive and committed, can be ...

I don't deserve to be ignored and picked up when HE feels like it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - I am one confused girl. Well I'm not confused... Maybe I am. I don't know. I just need some advice. For 5 months I have been seeing a guy i met through work. I'm 23, he's 36. Bit of a difference there.. But that's nothing. I always date older men. ...

The married man who I am seeing, accuses me of cheating on him!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - I am absolutly livid and hope somebody can either 1) Persuade me I'm wrong or, 2) Prove me right! I have been seeing a man who is married for a while now and I have stayed faithfull since day one. He also tells me he doesn't sleep with his w...

I don't know what I'm doing wrong, I'm single at 22 and it feels awful!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4842 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - I really can't cope with being a single girl at the age of 22.I've only has one serious relationship and he cheated.since then i just don't get a lot of male attention and if i do it from totally unsuitable guys. I did meet a nice guy a few weeks ...

Why will he not kiss me? The whole classroom is bugging him to kiss me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - okay so, my boyfrined and I have know each other for like 3 monthes and we've been going out for like 2 weeks but there's just one little problem: he won't kiss me! Well it's not totally his fault like the whole classroom knows and they all bug us a...

I want to propose to her soon. So what do I do about my fear that she is seeing someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4842 days ago

26 August 2011 (M) - Mod Note: The Aunts and Uncles may need a following please on what are the signs you are seeing indicating that she might be seeing someone else. I've been dating my girlfriend for over 2 years. We had a little rough patch a a few months ago. I h...

I cant get myself to break up with my nightmare of a BF!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - What should I do with my life? I feel I have a boyfriend who doesn't deserve me. He has cheated on me with many women but I still gave him a chance, but he continues to treat me very badly and I just cannot pucker up the courage to break up. What...

Should I give up on him? He hurt me in the past. Now he refuses to do what he promised as a condition of coming back to me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4842 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - My ex and i have have been trying to work things out since April. he came back begging for another chance. we have been broken up now for almost a year, but since we started working things out it has been going great. we have been able to get past...

Is this a reason to breakup again? Is a rebound relationship after breaking up really cheating once the former relationship resumes after a break?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - I lately found out that my boyfriend of 4 years has been cheating on me for a whole year with many other girls. When the truth came out, he asked me not to leave him and pleaded for 3 months to take him back and bought me many gifts to win my love ...

I am dating an older woman,what issues could come up due to the age gap?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 August 2011 (M) - I'm 25 and my girlfriend is 37. Why is it that I get criticism over the age gap from people who I see? I was in a local pizza takeaway joint when the guy behind the counter said "here's the pizza for you and your mum!" I've also had criticism...

Can a man grow a backbone? Or should I move on? He believes others over me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - So I had met this guy a few times, and thought he was cute, so I asked my girlfriend about him and she said he was great, that they were just friends and so she gave him my number. So we get together, and right away, I could tell we are really hitt...

Am I being selfish? Or does my BF need to be understanding?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - I have recently gotten my A level results and was supposed to go to uni and move in with my boyfriend of 3 years. Unfortunately I didn't get the results I needed and subsequently lost my place at university. I spoke to lots of people and they all ...

How can I deal with this emotionally dead girl who I seem to want more from?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 August 2011 (M) - A few weeks ago, I discovered routines and methods of being able to approach girls who would be rated say a 9 out of 10 so to speak and who reject any male that gives them attention. Anyway, I approached one girl etc and got through her usua...

I am dating an insecure guy-How do I help him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - Hi guys, so iv been dating a guy for about 3 weeks and i like him a lot. hes funny and being really sweet so far. However, he is less attractive than me. and im not saying this because i am full of myself. he is not normally the kind of guy I g...

How do I end a 7 year old relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - Hiya. I am 26 and I have been in a relationship for 7 years now. It isn't a healthy relationship, and for the past couple of years I have been waking up at night, from dreaming about meeting somebody new and falling in love. At the weekend I me...

Isn't grinding disrespectful? Or is it just dancing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3748 days ago

26 August 2011 (M) - Ok, so I have been dating my girlfriend for about a 2 months now. Im 24 shes 21. I like her alot. Thats why its hard for me to just bail. Been through a couple of em to find this one. Well anyway here's the problem. Ok so we started to talking ...

This long distance is killing me. What shall I do?? My friends say stay with him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - hi... ive been in two serious relationships in this past year with two different guys... i was with a guy who i had a crush on for 4 yrs for 6 months and it was long distance because i moved to here three yrs ago. well me and him had a lot of trus...

Is there any hope for improvement? He is not as interested in satisfying me as I am for him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - i can't understand why me and my boyfriend have such problems when it comes to sex? Yesterday we had sex but none of us got off. So we said oh well lets just try tomorrow. So tomorrow comes and I put a sexy little dress on in the hope that he will...

He's hugged me. But how do I start having a conversation with him? And about what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - Ok so im Very shy and quite but i reeeeeeallllllyyyy like this guy and i'm wearing his football jersey tomorrow and we talk ALL the time, but we barely talk at school. we can't ever hangout because i have work and he has football practice so when...

My boy friend is getting testy. Should I aim to do well in this job and miss the holiday we have booked?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4842 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - Am I a terrible person for doing this? He's making me feel like an absolute bi*ch. I work two jobs, and live with my boyfriend. One job is a day job to pay rent and bills and the second job is a non-paying internship to help further my ca...

Is it the mystery and excitement that attracts me to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, Before I start I'll just give you some brief info about me. I'm 18, turning 19 in two months. I've never had a boyfriend. I've never been serious with a guy. I had, had only one kiss with one guy which was over two years ago. ...

I want to prove this can work. But can it? Even if we were raised differently?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4843 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 6 years. Within this long period of time we have not progressed. I was brought up in a family where we were pushed to further our education and strive for the best. I've always came from a stab...

Any advice on how to change myself or come across suitable for kind of man that I need...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - I am quite an outgoing and sociable girl and I come across as having a strong and perhaps at times a rather domineering personality. This is mainly due to a lack of self esteem and so I over compensate with appearing to be very confident. Howeve...

Is it even worth taking holidays with my BF when he will not allow me enough relaxation time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - Every holiday I take with my boyfriend barely feels like a holiday for me. He always insists we get up very early and go do activities despite the fact that whilst on holiday I may like the occasional lie in or a relaxing day. I usually go alon...

As a relationship, how can I make this work? Is she just humoring me or being genuine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

26 August 2011 (M) - me and my ex just started seeing each other not even a week ago when my therapist called her to see if she would come in for a session. She called me and we met up. Then hooked up and it was great. We still fought almost the whole time (just...

He truly doesn't turn me on sexually anymore. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years and it feels like I've lost my interest in him sexually. We went hard and heavy the first 2 years but it went downhill from there. We have been going through problems which I think has some...

Why is he pursuing me so relentlessly, despite my attitude? He has a partner already

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - I am currently involved with a long distance relationship/friendship that's puzzling. This person claims they are "in a relationship", yet has been pursuing me relentlessly. I have received flowers, money, clothing, letters, cards and other gift...