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Archived questions from: 14 August, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Ladies: Do You Think ALL Men Are The Same?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

14 August 2011 (M) - Are you ready for some shocking news? ALL MEN ARE DIFFERENT. I know it's possible that you've been cheated on, lied to a lot, or any other reason that caused you to curse out men. I know it's also possible that you've been in relationships with a ...

Is high status a turn on for women?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

14 August 2011 (M) - For those women who care what others think of their BFs, is high status itself (not his confidence) a sexual turn on like boobs are for men? Eg. a TV presenter, CEO, famous musician, etc....

I feel like I've messed up my chances with her... how long do I wait until she can like me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4854 days ago

14 August 2011 (M) - Ok, this story/question is long and convoluted... Here goes. I have two friends, one is my best friend ever, she is the most amazing person I know. The other is a friend who lives a while away from me, and we get on really well. Now the part where I ...

What signals is this girl sending me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

14 August 2011 (M) - I am now seperated from my wife of 15 years and trying to learn how to date and read the signals again. I am in my mid forties. There is a girl i know at the gym (mid thirties) who I get on very well with. We have had kisses and cuddles in the p...

Help!!! Should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

14 August 2011 (F) - I think my best friend likes my guy... you see me and my guy only started seeing each other about a month ago (not really official we're going out, just that we meet each other etc.) and she is constantly asking about him and saying she wants a guy ...

He's left me after 3 years... to go back with the ex!!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

14 August 2011 (F) - The love of my life has left me after 3 years and gone back to his ex and I'm completely devastated. He says its for the kids sakes and he's broken his own heart by leaving me, that I was also the love of his life, his soulmate and that he will nev...

How to Meet The Man Or Woman Of Your Dreams

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

14 August 2011 (M) - If you want to find the man or woman of your dreams, you have to put yourself in the environment where they work or hang out. For example, if you want to meet a lawyer, go down to your local courthouse during lunch hours- and hang out at the ...

My girlfriend is forced to go with someone else!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

14 August 2011 (M) - I have my girlfriend that is in crazy love with me, she just adores me so much and i love her as well, I'm 18 and she's 17. I know it seems that we're just two kids that are in just a phase of life then it'll go away but it's not, it has been 2 ...

Is it possible that we can remain as friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

14 August 2011 (F) - Is there such a thing as being friends with your ex? I just broke up with this guy, i love him in fact I'm in love with him but i've had enough of the relationship. he says he still loves me but i think like me he's also had enough. i do want to ...

How can I un-do how fake I've been and not lose her? I've been presenting myself as a fake and that's not me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

14 August 2011 (M) - I have been in relationship with an American girl who happens to be 5 years younger than me. It's been one since we got off to a start and we both seem to be clicking well. However, I am faking too much in front her. The way I talk , the way I wa...

I sometimes fantasize about kissing girls. Does this mean I am gay or bi?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

14 August 2011 (F) - I've only had two boyfriends and one of them I was sexually attracted to. We had oral sex a couple of times and never went any further than that. But we broke up because I was still in love with my best guy friend, Alex. Alex has had a girlfriend ...

I'm finally meeting in person a girl I met online. She seems nervous and shy. How do I make it easier for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4854 days ago

14 August 2011 (M) - Hi, I met this girl online on a non-dating site. We've been sending each other PM's for a while, I found out that we were from the same city and share a lot of interests. We decided to meet each other on August 18 and here's the thing: she seems...

Guy I like asked me to stop texting him and that he would hang out when is life is more together. What does this mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

14 August 2011 (F) - Hi ive been talking to a guy. We lost contact from high school,but started talking again when we found each other on facebook. we have even hung out a few times. although a few times we did plan but never happened because he was working late. ...

I really don't want to be with somebody who treats me like this but am shocked and numb!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

14 August 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years and I are 35. When we dont agree on things I prefer to agree to differ but he gets verbally abusive and swears and calls me a f*ing idiot. I find that so offensive. None of his family swear. He gets angry when he dr...

Is this how the average relationship works or am I just not ready to be committed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

14 August 2011 (F) - So I have been "with" my boyfriend for a little over four months now. I say "with" because a little over a month ago we had broken up but we are still actively talking/dating, it almost feels like we are still together. (Complicated, I know.) ...

I believed him when he said they were just friends...but now I don't know what to think!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

14 August 2011 (F) - Rite so my boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years, he has an iphone 4 and I was just having a nosey through it because he doesn't care if I look at it or not. However the past while, he has changed his password and hasn't told me it, but I ...

She didn't keep in contact to arrange our date. What should I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3937 days ago

14 August 2011 (M) - Hello, So I met a girl a few weeks ago at Comic Con. We met there in the morning, had lunch together, hung out throughout the day, and even ended up having dinner together with a few of her friends as well. I contacted her a few days later a...

Why does he want a trial marriage if we have already been G/f and B/f for two years already?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

14 August 2011 (F) - I was out to dinner with my boyfriend tonight and I asked him what his reservations are about getting married. He told me that he wanted to live together first because he wanted a trial run to see if we were compatible. I feel after two years he s...

I broke up with him, but does he still have feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

14 August 2011 (F) - Hi there... so... i broke up with my bf almost 3 months ago. He was pretty hurt, and so was i, cause we really loved each other. we were together for 3 and a half year. he was pretty imature (still is), and we argued a lot...i felt i was missing on...

How can I deal with my boyfriend who wants me to cut off or sideline my gay male friends?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

14 August 2011 (F) - My bf is extremely jealous of my gay friends. I am a female, who has always been around gay male friends. All of my best friends had always been gay. My high school friends is gay, my college friend is gay, and now my work buddy is gay. I have ...

It doesn't seem like we're making love

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

14 August 2011 (F) - So, I'm not sure whether this is my problem or my bf's problem, but basically, when we have sex, it always feels like f***ing/sh*gging, not making love. In previous relationships, I've felt a difference between the two, and have felt like ex bfs...

Should I confront her about this scenario or try to work it through as my trust issue? We are together. He is the ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

14 August 2011 (M) - I need some help. I have a issue that I need to get off my chest before lose it, but my emotions are getting in the way of me figuring out a way to confront her effectively. Ok, this past Friday night My girlfriend of over a year, her Gay best...

I do all the housework and I'm not happy about it. How can I broach this conversation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

14 August 2011 (M) - Hey there everyone ive got a question that i can't really answer myself. My girlfriend and i have been together for a few years now and we now share a house together, but it seems like im the one doing everything around the house all the time. Sh...

My girlfriend is so tight I have trouble getting in and staying in.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

14 August 2011 (M) - I need help!!!!! Me and my girlfriend are have become recently sexual, now i'm a good lover, don't get me wrong, but past foreplay i find it pretty hard to get "inside" of her. She tends to get really tight and then i cant get in, now i don't have ...