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Archived questions from: 31 December, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

One day he's really attentive, the next day he ignores me! What's up with this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5434 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - I have absolutely no idea what to think about this guy. This guy is the co-owner of a bistro that is next to my work, a place that I eat at when I work (I started because there's nowhere else to eat over a 30min. break in the area!) I'm 18 and I ...

Insecure about my Vagina's appearance! Help!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - okay big time help needed! i have really really really low self esteem when it comes to men. Not about meeting them, but 'otherwise'. Whenever i am getting intimate i never allow a man to go near my bottom half because i have a vagina that has ...

How do I find a good strong man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - How can I find a good, emotionally strong man for a shoulder to cry on, hold me, listen, etc? I'm 5oish woman in southern California, USA....

Speedo watcher

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - I am in love with a guy at the gym who wears speedos! I can't take my eyes off him when he gets in or out of the pool. He is tall and thin but looks incredible in those skimpy speedos. When he gets out of the pool, I have asked him some question...

I just found out that he has a girlfriend, I'm distraught, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - Ive been talking to this guy from ireland on msn for about 7 months and im really in love with him. He told me he really wants to come see me and that hes saving up to see me. I never btw pushed him to come visit me it was all him and his idea. I ...

I'm 16, and my 20 year old boyfriend has 3 kids, am I in over my head?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - I am sixteen and seventeen in under a month. I am with a guy who i've been with now over a month he is 20. And even though it's only been a month i am really falling for him, he is amazing when i'm with him he makes me feel happy. The only problem ...

I don't know what to say anymore after texting all the time!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5445 days ago

31 December 2009 (M) - hello, well wen ever i text mt girlfriend in the morning and i really enjoy it but wen we get later in the day , say about 6ish, things kinda slow down and im tired of texting her. every day since Christmas ive been texting her, dont get me wrong...

He wants to be with me 24/7

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - I need some help my boyfriend follows me every were evan if I go in the kitchen or to my bedroom iv evan spoke to him about it and he's says he's wants to be by my side 24 7 but I need my own space and can't evan have that I think he's obsessed and ...

I love her but her behaviour and mood swings are making me question it all, please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

31 December 2009 (M) - I need some really good advice. Please... My fiance and I have been engaged for about 6 months. We met one year ago. I realize most people will think that was way too soon to get engaged. It was a little fast but i don't regret it. I love her d...

Problematic choices and I don't know which one to pick!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - Hi, i'm looking for some guidance. The scenario involves 2 guys; lets call them Nick and Andy. I've known Nick for over a year, me and him have got very similar personalities and get on like a house on fire! Although, we have drifted apart ...

Her parents are keeping her from me but I love her, please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 December 2009 (M) - my girlfriend's parents are against the whole idea of having a relationship. Recently, they saw my relationship status on facebook with her and caught us. Her cell phone has been taken away, and she has been locked up in her own house. Things have ...

What deos it me when a guy says he doesn't want a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - ive been talking to this guy i met on plenty of fish.. on his profile it says hes looking for dating.. he calls me alot even though hes on holiday.. he have good conversations and make eachother laugh.. but he says hdoesn'tnt want a relations...

Attracted to another guy, but I love my boyfriend, help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - I need help. I have a boyfriend who i have been dating for 11 months. i love him so much and i really don't want to lose him but a few days ago i went to my friends birthday party and there was this boy there who i have met a few times and have ...

My boyfriend appeard to throw up after I told him about my past! Why??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - ok so last night i was on the phone with my boyfriend and we were talking about something, and he asked for a pic of me in a new shirt i had told him about wearing it and a thong only, i told him maybe then asked for one of him in boxers and asked ...

I recently found out that my boyfriend is married with kids...and dating other women!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - well i have a big prob i don't know what to do. I have been dating this guy for nearly year and a half now, About 8 months in the relationship i found out he is married and had kids. I was so upset. I asked him about it which he denies at first an...

I lost interest in a lady fast

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

31 December 2009 (M) - Please i dont know what to do or say to make a girl say 'YES' instantly for a relationship.I usually lost interest when she decide to play hard to get....

He is sweet to me but his friends call me bad names

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - Helo I'm Chloe. I'm 13. I've got a boyfriend. Me and him have been fine. Getting along perfectly. We have been together for nearly 7 weeks. Not a single argument. But his friends are always calling me spotty and ugly. I do have a major spot pr...

She's controlling me with sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

31 December 2009 (M) - So I am dating this girl and we have been have sex for a awhile but one day she randomly decided that she wouldn't have sex anymore because she's in a bad mood indefinitely. I feel its a power play on her part and so I told her to enjoy her time and ...

I don't love her, like she loves me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

31 December 2009 (M) - Hey I need some advice, i've been going out with this girl for almost 9 months now and she is in love with me, at one point I thought I loved her too, which I do but i'm not in love with her. We get in fights pretty often over little things, but ...

The player who fell in love

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5445 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - okay so there is this guy and he told everyone of my friends that he liked me/loved me/would never get over me. he didnt know that i really liked him too but he knew i was attracted to him (we wanted to hook up) but since he told my friends, he ...

Am I jealous?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

31 December 2009 (M) - hey, im 14 and in a relationship with the most beautiful girl ever. and wen ever we talk about my best friend i would get jealous. so in the past she ask me if he was going out with someone for a friend and he was so i said yeah. well the point...

Don't know what to get for 2 year anniversary

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

31 December 2009 (M) - I am in the longest relationship I've ever been in and this is a busy time for us. There's christmas, we both have birthdays in January and then there's valentine's day. In the midst of all that is our anniversary (of the day we met). For our 1...

How can I be less predictable?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

31 December 2009 (M) - Hi, i've been seeing someone for 3 months and recently, we've been more honest with eachother; like noting flaws that the other has. She told me I can be predictable, i've been told this before, and I want to work on it because i'm determined to ...

Loving 2 guys at once but cant choose what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - There are 2 guys I like Corbin and Kyle. I have known both for 3 years and I love them both. Corbin tells me flat out that he loves me and what not but I'm not sure if he wants me for me or for my body. Kyle told me he likes me but when I'm around ...

Can't stop thinking about wanting a boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - Well i really need help well i am 14 nearly 15 and lately i have been getting this feel that i want a boyfriend and i know that there will be plenty of time for that when i am older but i dont know how to stop this feeling because i cant stop thin...