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writes:I need some help my boyfriend follows me every were evan if I go in the kitchen or to my bedroom iv evan spoke to him about it and he's says he's wants to be by my side 24 7 but I need my own space and can't evan have that I think he's obsessed and we keep arguing about silly little things what am I gonna do I love him so much were engaged and everythink please give me some advice
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reader, ms.rafaeli  +, writes (9 January 2010):
 Been there, done that. He's a control freak, sweetie.. this time he wants to be around you 24/7, next time he could isolate you from your social life. that's what happened to me. My ex would even check all my emails and phone calls and messages. I had to tell him every conversations i have with my friends. The trigger in my case was because he didnt have enough trust in me. He's insecure. i dont know if that's the same thing that cause him doing this to you but you need to talk to him and tell him that you need space. If he doesn't change, you might wanna ask yourself, can you tolerate his behaviour?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2010): This guy is emotionally controlling and could go nuts on you- you need to take a stand NOW, and not let this go on. What he is doing is 100% unhealthy and he may not be in full control of his.... what? Mind? I guess so- he's clearly not exhibiting healthy normal behavior.
He needs to stop this or you need to dump him.
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (1 January 2010):
 Being together 24/7 is just not healthy. You need to tell him again how important this is to you, and if he doesn't change, you need to rethink this engagement. It's only going to get worse from here on if you don't do something.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (31 December 2009):
Really slow down and talk to him. This could turn into a seriously dangerous controlling obsession if you don't talk to him about it now. You need to explain that you need your space, and you need to be firm.
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