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female
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30-35,
*pendy
writes:ive been talking to this guy i met on plenty of fish.. on his profile it says hes looking for dating..he calls me alot even though hes on holiday.. he have good conversations and make eachother laugh..but he says hdoesn'tnt want a relationship and doest like getting into one. i asked if hes ever cheated he said hdoesn'tnt like getting into relationship and he was tempted when he was in one but hdidn'tnt.now i really like this guy we get on but i donwannana get hurt..hes really good looking..advice please??mature answers only.. am serious.oh and he hasnt said he likes me yet.. thnx..xi just turn 20 and hes 21 next year.thnx..xx
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reader, person12345  +, writes (1 January 2010):
 He told you straight up he doesn't want a relationship and that when he was in one he was "tempted" to cheat. He's telling you he doesn't want a relationship and then he went further to say if he somehow does get into a relationship, he'll probably break your heart. You need to move on, despite the fact that you think you get on well. Sorry.
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (1 January 2010):
 He doesn't want a relationship. The only thing you two can be is friends.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (31 December 2009):
He is telling you he's not interested. Sorry. Now you need to be brave and move on.
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reader, empty-1 +, writes (31 December 2009):
Honey, this guy has done you a big favor - he told you up front that you shouldn't get too hooked!If he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you, then he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you. Just because he is "looking for dating" and the two of you get along famously doesn't mean you're the right girl for him!I would suggest you have a fairly candid conversation, in which you let him know you are feeling attached and confused, and show him why. Tell him what signals you have been getting that confuse you, and why you are beginning to feel attached.
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