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Archived questions from: December, 2017 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

How do you leave someone when they are the father of your child?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2521 days ago

31 December 2017 (F) - Hi, I’m eight weeks pregnant with what would be my first child. But before I knew, I had been thinking on and off that I wanted freedom, I started questioning being compatible with my boyfriend and resenting him. Sex life was declining and I had no ...

Do I stay and hope that all these things will happen with my partner or do I leave and find them with someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2547 days ago

31 December 2017 (F) - Hi Dear Cupid. As I leave 2017 and start 2018, I'm wondering if I should stay in my relationship of three years or walk away...because within these three years he doesn't seem interested in saving.... I'm 24, he's 23...We are renting togethe...

I ended things at Christmas and gave each other's presents back, but she is furious about it!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2544 days ago

31 December 2017 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for 5 years, but we don't live together. I've been hesitant of her moving in, because in the past she has professed the belief that a man should sacrifice himself financially for a woman. Because of this, we ...

I feel my girlfriend is cheating on me... With her ex husband's new wife!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2542 days ago

29 December 2017 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend, we'll call her "S", for about 11 months. She has a 4 year old son, I have no children. She's divorced, and it was rough. He was an abusive, meth-head a-hole. I've never been married, but I've been cheated on ...

I don’t regret the decision I made to split ways but is there anything I can say to make things right between us as friends?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2548 days ago

29 December 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I officially parted ways about 6 months ago after 4 years together on and off. I made a judgement call during his visit to see me in Boston from New York this past summer. As much as I loved and cared for him, there were some ...

I really love this guy so much. How to make him realize all will be fine?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2548 days ago

29 December 2017 (F) - I am 22 {Indian}and financially stable. I met this guy through Facebook . We were young and it was first love for both of us. It was intense and serious relationship . We had own ups and down in these 6 years .His parents were helpful during this ...

How do I change his mind? How do I move forward?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2548 days ago

28 December 2017 (F) - I am 22 female living in India. I am in relationship with this guy A for almost 6 years. We both are working and financial stable . My bf cheated on me couple of years back and I was devastated .Then after few months we patched up and things were ...

How do you kill all hope after a breakup?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2545 days ago

27 December 2017 (F) - My ex and I were together over a year,. And broke up 2 weeks ago. We spent 8 months face to face, and nearly a year apart. He told me the distance was a big factor, but that he also felt 'unsure' about our compatability and wanted to think. I told ...

How do I tell my mum that we're back together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2542 days ago

27 December 2017 (F) - I've been through a bit of a messy break-up in the last 6 months. Naturally I turned to my mum for advice/someone to cry to. I've told her a lot of the problems me and my bf had been having, and how he'd been treating me. As far as she's concerned, ...

Having a hard time getting over my ex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2552 days ago

25 December 2017 (M) - I’m all alone this X-Mas season, thinking about my ex a lot. She’s my first love and since we broke up my life has been a mess. I’m in uni right now but it’ll take me awhile to graduate. My best semester was when we were dating. Now I feel so ...

We are both married but we love each other

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2552 days ago

24 December 2017 (F) - Help me. I'm in love with a man who is not my husband. I'm very confused and even though I love my husband and he is a good man I can't stop thinking of someone else. We talk a lot and we have met up personally. We are work colleagues. I think he ...

Wil he realise what he had?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2554 days ago

24 December 2017 (F) - Well I’m 24 and his 26. he's had relationships before but not very decent people I’m trying to belittle his ex's or I don’t see my self higher up its just a fact that he brought up many times and I know for my self. The type of girls he dated were ...

Why me? Why now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2544 days ago

24 December 2017 (F) - I probably sound pathetic but sometimes things get to me and usually I have no-one to talk to because no1 understands. This week I told my boyfriend I would see him this weekend we both agreed (it fits in with us both). I called him. He answered. I ...

Should I end it with my bed buddy or fight for him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2519 days ago

20 December 2017 (F) - This is kind of a long story... I've had this weird on-again, off-again thing with this guy for two years. I wouldn't call him a friend; just a bed buddy. We'd meet up once or twice every month or two just to hook up and then we wouldn't talk un...

Did this Married Man forget his former mistress already?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2557 days ago

19 December 2017 (F) - I dated a Married Man (MM) for a year and a half. We both worked at my dad’s office. He got caught by his wife 3 times but never left me. The 3rd time he got caught things got pretty bad. He started going to counseling and distanced himself from me. ...

21 year old currently lost in the world, any help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2557 days ago

18 December 2017 (F) - Hello all, Lately, I have grown incredibly depressed. It seems like last year, I had everything I could of wanted at the time. I had a boyfriend, I lived in a nice house, I had a great and fun job, I had a good relationship with my co-...

I feel lost in life, how do I find my path and carry on with my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2557 days ago

18 December 2017 (M) - Please note I'm not feeling suicidal and have no plans to go down that route, I am simply feeling lost and confused. Ever since my first and only girlfriend broke up with me not 11 months ago I've been effectively listing through life without a p...

Signs he is a compulsive liar? what the heck is that attitude after breakup?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2558 days ago

17 December 2017 (F) - Hey everyone, So I broke up with my bf about 1 month and a half ago. I am 22, he is 25. We had been together for 1 year and a half. We met as international students (in Australia, I was exchange student and he was studying engineering ther...

I love him and want to be his but I don't want to get hurt

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2562 days ago

15 December 2017 (F) - So I started dating this guy I never though I’d be with and fell in love with him and he fell in love with me. We had the best relationship. Well he joined the military a year after dating and I decided I was going to support him, that my love for ...

In a long term relationship, partner isn't paying attention to me, I'm cheating on him with someone who's also in a relationship but isn't "long term boyfriend material". So confused! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2558 days ago

14 December 2017 (F) - Hi there, so I’ve been with my partner for 7 years, living together for 2. I’ve been completely loyal until now, but have been feeling unhappy and a little taken for granted for a while now. My boyfriend has a good heart and is loyal, but he is also ...

Still hurt over the break-up

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2565 days ago

12 December 2017 (F) - I have 2 kids and one on the way. My bf and I have been together for 2 yrs, but were together 2 yrs prior, when we had our first child. Things didn't work then because I had self-esteem issues. After we broke up, he moved on to another relationship ...

This is the second abusive relationship I've been in. Am I picking the wrong type of men?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2560 days ago

10 December 2017 (F) - Last night my boyfriend punched me in the mouth. I've left him. He asked me not to leave. But I said I have to be alone right now. It came about after an argument over a male friend of mine. My boyfriend said that my face lit up when my friend a...

Just lost a parent and he’s gone away. Should I break up with him for this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2560 days ago

10 December 2017 (F) - Hi All, Just looking for some advice at what is already a confusing and low time. I’ve just lost a very close family member, a parent and I feel like my partner hasn’t been as supportive as he could. I’m not taking it well at all. We were very clo...

I still don't know if he's prepared to be in the sort of relationship I want to be in.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2560 days ago

10 December 2017 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years have spent the last 4/5 months very much on off. We initially broke up 4 months ago because we started back at uni and he was spending none of his time with me, with all his free time dedicated to going out with his friends, ...

I'm unhappily married but in love with a man who's engaged but hesitant to leave his fiance

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2565 days ago

7 December 2017 (F) - Please could I ask for some advice on my situation... I have been married for 3 years but for the last year the marriage has been very difficult and we both feel that we have grown too far apart to fix things, although haven’t yet said we will div...

He doesn't turn me on but I don't want to hurt him by dumping him harshly!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2570 days ago

4 December 2017 (F) - One of my closest male friend asked me out 3 years back. He swept me off my feet with his romantic gestures and when he asked me to be his girlfriend i said yes to him.Some 6 months into the relationship I realised that I am do not have any passion ...

My ex's actions make me feel like I was never worth fighting for

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2553 days ago

4 December 2017 (F) - Hi guys, So this is an ongoing problem with my ex bf that has left me feeling confused, angry, resentful, but mostly hurt, and I need advice on how to deal with the situation. So earlier this year, I posted on this website about whether or no...

Do I stay with boyfriend or leave and hope something will happen with this other man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2570 days ago

3 December 2017 (F) - Hi everyone Looking for some advice. Im 32 years old and when I was 18 I met a lad (lets call him A) through a group of friends. I had just recently entered a relationship and A also had a girlfriend who he had been with a few years. There was...

I broke it off. Was I right? How do I move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2570 days ago

3 December 2017 (M) - I was with her for 1 year. Everything was going great until 3-4 months in we started having problems. We both made mistakes and we’ve been on and off many times. We somehow managed to move past all of that and we fell in love. It’s then when we got ...

He wants me to trust him but he doesn't behave as someone that I can trust!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2570 days ago

2 December 2017 (F) - Hello. Thank you for taking the time to read my post. I've been seeing my current boyfriend off and on for about eight months now. During that time we have had several breakups. Once over him being too flirty with another girl as I stood by as a ...

Boyfriend is really depressed what should I do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2571 days ago

1 December 2017 (F) - My boyfriend is really depressed, we have been going out for 2 month and hes saying he feels on a scale of 1 - 10 ( 10 feeling really good ) that hes about a 2 . He has been seeing the doctor and a mental health worker but i dont feel hes getting ...