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Archived questions from: April, 2015 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Would it be cruel to leave him. Or could it do him some good? I'm terrified of what'll happen if he continues like this.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3515 days ago

30 April 2015 (F) - I'm between a rock and a hard place and I really need some advice. My boyfriend has always smoked weed. At first it was just once or twice a month when he would hang out with a particular friend. I didn't like it but he never did it in front of m...

We had a casual thing between us about 4 years ago. Why would she ignore me now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3521 days ago

30 April 2015 (M) - Ok, so me and this girl used to have a casual thing going about 4 years ago. We were both single then. Since then i've married someone else. We've stayed in touch and met up a few times. On a couple of occasions we have slept together which s...

What can I do legally to get her to stop with all the crap shes doing so we can live our lives?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3521 days ago

30 April 2015 (F) - Good day all... Here is the time for all you that give great advice to read my situation and give me advice on what I should do about it. I have been with my fiancé for almost 3 years now. Within a couple months of our relationship he ...

Why does every girl just want to be friends? I don't get past date three. And now this girl'stopped texting me !

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3523 days ago

30 April 2015 (M) - so this girl was a regular customer at my store, and we had so much in common. (How many girls love giant monster and horror movies lol) and we started hanging out, nothing serious at all. We would watch cartoons together over Skype and text all the ...

Would my ex FWB consider a relationship with me now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3523 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - I'm pretty good friends with my ex fwb. We were fwb for about 18 months but we've been just friends for the last year. I had a boyfriend which is the reason the benefits ended, but we stayed in touch. This friend has always been really helpful t...

How do I cope with this breakup?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3524 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - My boyfriend of 3 years finished with me and is now in a relationship with another woman just 2 weeks later. I am in pieces. I cant eat I cant sleep I cant even go to work. We had a row and split but I thought we would work things out. But this time ...

I want to say something to him and at least find out if theres any reason why he thought it was ok to make a plan and then disappear.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3524 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - I met a guy online several weeks ago and we went out a few times and had a great time. Recently we had plans to go out on Tuesday but then he cancelled last minute, apologized and said it was because he was asked to pick up an extra shift at work ...

Everyone found out we were talking and meeting up and doing things, how do I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3524 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - Well me and my ex broke up after 11 months and recently we started talking agein and we was meeting up and doing things but we wanted to keep it between me and him and now everyone has found out and he wont talk to me how do I get him back ...

A close friend told me that my boyfriend isn't a good guy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3523 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - A close friend of mine recently told me that my bf isn't a good guy!he said he s very mean and took his friendship for granted and took advantage of his friendship. he is telling me not to have a relationship with him as he might cheat on me or take ...

How can I calm my anxiety at the thought of losing him? Plus I need a guide on dating an introvert, please?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3523 days ago

29 April 2015 (?) - I think i need a guide for dating an introvert... I am a very social, loving and very caring person. When in a relationship i always put the other person first, and always like to keep in contact, and do lots of thinga with them. Yet my boyfr...

He's been selective, about what he says, when he's communicates with me. Should I just end my relationship with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3524 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. We met on a dating website and chatted online for about 4 months before meeting. We then, or so I thought, had a good relationship seeing each other every weekend, chatting during the week. In ot...

Who should I choose? My ex, who called my reaction too jealous? Or this new guy I've just met?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3522 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - My older, once divorced boyfriend of two years recently told me that he wanted some space. He stated that I showed red flags of violent jealousy, during an encounter with his female friend at a local sports bar one Friday evening. He asked her ...

Moved away from girlfriend and the sister I have feelings for, did I do the right thing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3524 days ago

28 April 2015 (M) - I started dating my (now ex) girlfriend 4 years ago. She then moved in with her sister last year, which meant I spent alot of time with her and her sister. For 3.5 years I thought I was happy, well content maybe. Then slowly, my girlfriend, over a ...

I'm not sure if he loves me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

28 April 2015 (F) - I don't trust my bf Everything seemed to be perfect in the beginning but one night has changed him ! I told him 2 weeks ago that you are careless! I meant that he should take care of his job and health because he goes out every night and...

I agreed he can come back only if he promised to make a doctors appointment for some help, am I making the right decision?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

28 April 2015 (F) - My boyfriend of 7 months has finally admitted he has a drinking problem and needs help. He's changed a little since he met me he use to drink everyday but now it's weekend benders. At first it wasn't a problem as we were just having fun but as time ...

She told me she needs to be alone for a while. Did I come on too strong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

28 April 2015 (M) - Hi folks looking for some advice. I started seeing this girl "R" in feburary after meeting online- we went for a meal and clicked right away- we talked for over 7 hours and when it was time to go we shared a kiss which was truley amazing. A fe...

Is this verbal abuse? Are we just not right for each other?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3524 days ago

28 April 2015 (F) - I am on the fence about the man I have been in a relationship with for 2 years. I don’t know whether I am wanting to get out of the relationship too soon or if am avoiding the warning signs of what could be verbal abuse. Background Sto...

He's told others that I'm ''easy''. But was what I did wrong to him, by blocking him and ostracizing him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

28 April 2015 (F) - Where do I even start? It all began when I started dating this guy for almost a year and then he dumped me. He started dating his ex girlfriend and I knew right there what a complete jerk he was. But, when he and his "new ex girlfriend thing" b...

He's ''not sure about our relationship''?? Is this a temporary natural phase in a relationship? Or is it likely to be permanent?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - I've been in a wonderful relationship for over two and a half years now, and I thought everything was alright until last year. My partner said he wasn't sure about this relationship, so I gave him some space, and he eventually decided that he want...

Should I walk away? Should I send the note?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3523 days ago

27 April 2015 (M) - After 4.5 years of friendship, J and I began a relationship over Xmas which has largely been conducted online, because of her employment. I'm 32 and am plenty experienced, but this is the first time I feel I could be falling in love. Just recen...

Did I overreact? I felt like he totally blew me off so I basically told him to lose my number.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3524 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - I have been dating this man for approximately 3 weeks now after getting out of a 3 year relationship. On the second date, we ended up having sex. It was spectacular, I hadn't felt so sexually connected and charged by a person in years. It was early ...

I want to distance myself, but he does make a good friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3526 days ago

26 April 2015 (F) - Last month, I ended a two year relationship with a guy who wasn't bad, but it just wasn't going to work out. It was a long distance relationship, and we were having issues seeing each other regularly. Both in our mid 20's, but I'm in school since I ...

I got sick and missed the calls, now he wont talk.......

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3526 days ago

26 April 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together two months and we talk everyday. We work similar jobs and sometimes, overnight so we try to keep each other up. Friday I told him I had plans to go out but I ended up getting sick and fell into deep sleep, I ...

How can I determine if he still loves me? Or confirm it's over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3523 days ago

25 April 2015 (M) - My boyfriend is not talking to me any more ! we started this relationship 2 months ago, we loved each other ! i am sure about my feelings and i was sure about his feelings , but since last week everything has changed ! i don't know why, for no r...

How mean is too mean? Who should pay for what in our relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3523 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - Who pays for what in our two year relationship? Ok here is my dilemma and one that has really upset me to the point I am considering walking away because it has affected my respects for him. I am sure there will be many comments as I have googl...

It's been a week and I am just want to stop crying. What's my next move to get over this breakup and all the hurt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3527 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - Hi, I have recently got out a 3+ year affair with a married man I work with. We met when we both started at this company. We were both new to this city and with his family still based in his hometown, started hanging out a lot. He was the init...

I feel stuck. Is it reasonable that I feel so hurt at his lack of priority for me in his life?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3527 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - I have just ended a relationship with my boyfriend due to his lack of time for me. He says he will come over and talk but says he is busy and has a lot on with work. He is self employed but spends a lot of time procrastinating and chatting to custo...

Three months. What can I do to forget him? why did he cheat?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3528 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - How do I let go? Its been three months.. I still miss him. I mean he left, he cheated, and we go to the same college and live like across the road I can see when I am walking to school or leaving my apt if he's there. I get a sense of happine...

Discovered that my soon to be ex got drunk while he was supposed to be caring for our child. He'll deny it. How do I confront him with what I've discovered?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3527 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - I have been separated from my husband for quite awhile now. Anyhow to make a long story short I have 4 kids, one of which is with him. Last week I was on vacation with my parents. He had our child and I had a friend babysit my other kids at my h...

Forgive and love him like before? Or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3529 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - I was dating a guy and I got completely involved in him. We started dating in 2011. It was a long distance relationship. In the beginning I thought it would not work but I have no idea how hard I fall for him as the time passed by. We used to talk ...

I feel so heartbroken, even though I broke up with him.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3529 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - So I've has a whirl wind 7 months. From the minute I met him he swept me off my feet and made me feel like the most special girl In the world! So what was the problem? His ex of 8 years who he has a daughter with, who left him and is now en...

Can she up sticks and go taking the children with her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3529 days ago

23 April 2015 (F) - My daughter in law is leaving my son and has made it clear that she is taking the children with her. Can she up sticks and go taking the children with her?...

I don't want to look and sound desperate, but I just can't get him out of my mind. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3527 days ago

23 April 2015 (F) - It's been almost 2 years after my ex broke up with me. I moved overseas to start a new life and tried to stay away from everything about him. I am moving on slowly and was hoping to fall in love again abroad. I am so ready to be in another ...

He's suffered depression and it feels like he's pushing me away. Should I leave so I can be happy again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3530 days ago

23 April 2015 (F) - I am in a sort of happy relationship now. We have had a bad up and down recently. He neglected me while i was pregnant and then whilst our baby was very young. This went on for over a year and at some point i stopped loving him. But i stayed. We...

Why would a mistress leave her married boyfriend?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3528 days ago

22 April 2015 (F) - What is the #1 reason WHY a mistress will leave a married man she has been seeing for a long time? ...

My boyfriend thinks he can't trust me and that I love someone else. I don't! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3515 days ago

22 April 2015 (F) - OK, I apologize but this is probably going to be very long. My boyfriend and I were together for just under 2 years. We fell fast and hard for each other. After dating for five months, he moved in with me. Everything was great. We were so in ...

He constantly is accusing me of cheating and he says rude things to me but claims he can't help it. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

22 April 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a month now. This is the 2nd time we are in a relationship. The 1st time was 2 months prior. We were together for almost 3 months and he said he had feelings for his ex and so I broke it off with him ...

Could my lack of sexual interest in him be a problem for our relationship further down the line if I got back with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3531 days ago

22 April 2015 (F) - Okay so my ex boyfriend and I broke up a little over a year ago. It was a mutual decision as we'd been together 5 years and were not getting along too well. At first, we cut all contact but we live in the same town so it was obvious we would...

He is focussed on the negative to justify his position.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3529 days ago

22 April 2015 (F) - Should I stay in touch with my ex-boyfriend of 16 years who says wants to be my friend and still help me out? I wanted to stay in the relationship and work on it. I told him how prior to a month and a half before he dumped me that I had been ...

My boyfriend is moving away to a different uni? Very upset and don't know what will happen?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3528 days ago

21 April 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, My boyfriend of 8 months at uni recently got diagnosed with epilepsy. When he had these fits I was with him every step of the way in hospital holding his hand and being there for him. His mum came along to take him home and while...

Moving on from the one you love! How can I stay strong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3532 days ago

21 April 2015 (F) - I'm 23 years and my ex broke up with me 2mths ago. Last week I pretty much cried and begged for him to come back. I lost all self dignity. he kicked me out and told me he'd never speak to me again. The next day, he texts me. saying that he'd ...

My boyfriend's business takes up all his time, now he's moving out too!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3530 days ago

21 April 2015 (F) - Dear Yin and Yang, I have been with my partner for 3 years. The first two were very happy - I was at uni and he only worked weekends (he was a dancer), so we had a good amount of time together and even though I worked a lot, we had enough energ...

I've been ill since he left!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3531 days ago

21 April 2015 (F) - My ex boyfriend left me 2 weeks ago after 7 months together. Its a complicated story. We were first together for a year and a half over 2 years ago. He was in the army at the time and was constantly cheating on me. He was always still so loving but ...

How can I encourage my Bf to tell me what's wrong rather than just turning away from me when he's upset? Or time to take a break?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3529 days ago

21 April 2015 (F) - I have boyfriend trouble... He's a good guy, and I love him, but there are these moments when everything goes wrong and it's been happening more often lately. He'll get upset with me because of something I said or did, and get angry and turns away ...

He cheated. We broke up. What steps do we take to get back together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3532 days ago

21 April 2015 (F) - What steps should my (ex) boyfriend and I take to get back together? Last year I was in a great relationship, we had plans for the future, we had an amazing sex life and we adored each other. Or so I thought. My fella cheated was accused of cheat...

What are some tips or advice for helping with depression?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3533 days ago

20 April 2015 (F) - Hi all. For the past few months I believe I've been dealing with depression. I had a break up with a serious boyfriend who I was with for over 3 years and self esteem issues regarding that, there's been job and money issues going on with me as well ...

Should I explain myself to an old flame, or simply move on with my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3532 days ago

19 April 2015 (M) - During my days at university, I had a bit of a fling with a girl I stayed with in my halls. Our relationship became quite passionate, but it was short lived, as I was graduating, moving back home and didn't want to commit to a relationship with ...

Should I reach out to him and request one final discussion, for closure, following out break-up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3534 days ago

19 April 2015 (F) - I recently ended a relationship that lasted 3.5 years and was very chaotic (lots or arguing and communication issues) That happened about 2 months ago. Since then I've been on an emotional roller coaster, sometimes feeling great and thinking I'm ...

Missing my ex. Not feeling same connection in new relationship. Can I or should I try to gain my friend back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3534 days ago

19 April 2015 (F) - Hey I've had bad breakup almost 5 to 6 months ago. I barely survived the first month of the breakup as my health got really bad and I was spending my nights in the hospital. We didn't get in touch and there was no asking about each other or anyth...

I feel bad for cheating on my ex girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3535 days ago

18 April 2015 (M) - So my girlfriend and i broke up for her reasons.But some months before that i did the stupidest thing by sexting another girl. I immediately regretted my mistake and the guilt immediately started eating me alive. I woke up in cold sweats and chest ...