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Archived questions from: 24 July, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

My FWB has a hard time having an orgasm, any good suggestions that would help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5601 days ago

24 July 2009 (M) - Hey everyone, just so you know I 15 and I'm bi. I have a really good friend who is also bi a d yes he is a friend with benifits. We like to get together and wank and suck each other off but he always takes so long to cum. Sometimes I can't make him ...

I really like this girl on tv, could someone help me draft a letter to her, without offending or scaring her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5603 days ago

24 July 2009 (M) - ok there is a girl who i like who is on tv and she is the same age as me. she is a presenter on a sport news channel. i have heard that she hasn't got a boyfriend. i want to write a romantic letter to her but i don't know what to write could anyone ...

Any suggestions to help with my problem, I'd like to have a boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - i know what wrong with me now i suffer Involuntary celibacy all my life.its no wondering i have being rejected all the time no matter how nice dress or did n,t it did n,t make difference, because i suffer Involuntary celibacy like i said i was born ...

Do you think I am wrong with my actions, regarding this child?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - I ave jus encountered the most arrogant orrible parents ever i wntd 2 bang them,on way hme in cab an driver c a little girl undr 2yr an tells me.we stop an i go 2 her nobody around so i ask her can she show me mummy,we walk 2 a house round corner ...

Strange goings on with his Face book, and he hasn't returned my messages, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - okay so 2 days ago, my crush sent me a message and a “poke” on facebook so i sent him back a message and he still hasn’t replied…but i went on his page just now and it said that he commented on someone’s video in his recent activity and then i went ...

Would there be a chance of my being pregnant from this experience?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - I'm wondering if I could be pregnant? We had sex with a condom, he pulled out with the condom on, took the condom off outside of me, and came on my inner thigh. I wiped it off immediately, but i'm not sure if some sperm could have traveled inside.....

We have a child, my ex provides a liitle support, but wants to stay in and control my life, how do I get rid of him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5603 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - I am 25 ,,me and my ex-boyfriend have 1 child,,we were together 5 years,, it was a relationship where he had a drink problem which i stood by him through while he was in rehab and all of it! He was abusive and everything and i dont know why i still ...

Bride wars: Brides plan events for same day - help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - My best friend Bridget is getting married this fall, and I am her Matron of Honor. We have been best friends for over ten years, she was my Maid of Honor, and in short- we are like sisters. Not to make this all too confusing, but it is important ...

I reported my teacher for 4 years of sexual touching and abuse, why did my deputy head shun me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - I don't know if anyone will be able to help me with this, but i hope so. I had a teacher (Who is head of department and on the governing board for the school) who was extensively innappropriate with me over a period of 4 years. He used to touch me...

Do I start an affair with my student or keep it stricly professional?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - Hi aunty, I have been following your forums for a while..I am 25 yr old female-single teacher,I teach Computers for 12th grade boys school in USA..I often were tight dresses and mini skirts to school, i have a decent figure as I am fitness freak!!! ...

Feeling quite sad and confused

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

24 July 2009 (M) - Hi there. Lately i don't know what's going on in my head, i've lost a huge sense of direction in my life and i'm feeling down a lot more than usual. I've not long turned 21 years old, and i see everyone else around me moving on in different ways a...

Depressive breakdown and don't know what to do.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - i suffer from depression, a hell of a lot more than i realised i found out today, i was on a hugxe downer after a row with my boyfriend, we spent the whole of the night partyin with friends and when i asked him for some alone timean hour or so, he ...

Boyfriend ignores me, what should I do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - I really don't know what to do anymore..my boyfriend is always ignoring me but he gets mad at me when i talk to other guys. hes always so rude to me. i dont get him. he acts like he doesnt care, but sometimes he can be really sweet. i broke up with ...

Thinking about boyfriend's bestfriend while masterbating.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - Is it really ok if I masturbate while thinking about my boyfriends best friend?? I kinda feel bad about it....

Am I expecting to much and being selfish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - I need to know if I'm in the wrong...tonight my b/f and I were out on a "Date" night. We've only started doing this about 2 months ago - we've been together for a while now. My b/f and I have been having some serious issues that we have been trying ...

What can I do to get my best friend back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - i have a friend, he is 17 and is mentally addicted to weed(so he says) and i want him to stop. he used to talk to me every single day and everything was perfect. we were like bestfriends and i told him everything. i tell him to stop but he doesnt. ...

His needing a break, feels like a breakup

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 14 months needs a break. His sister has been in the hospital and needing constant attention for 4 months after a surgery that went very wrong, and his father just passed away. He has a very demanding job and isn't in the best of ...

How can I get my optimism back and go about getting what I want?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - Normally I try and always have a positive attitude towards things, and for a long time I kept up my positive way of attacking this problem, but lately I've completely lost my optimism, I'm almost heading towards bitterness and I don't want that at ...

I need to find my purpose. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - I know i am going to sound delusional, but ever since i was little i have felt like i've got something special, like i was destined to succeed. And I really feel frustrated as i don't know what this is yet! I attained straight A's at school, ...

I'm damaged goods... should I just settle for him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - Ok so I hope you can take time and read this, as I dont know know who else to reach to. I am a woman in my mid twenties, I have a small child that I raise at home alone. I was married to the father of my child for four years. The relation...