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Archived questions from: 20 July, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Internet chat room problems...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4568 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - If your partner has had the habit of going into internet chatrooms for say 3 years. Always denying it knowing that you know, telephone numbers found, conversations seen what said want a naughty pic, asked if they liked. Texting guys and giving phone ...

I don't want to seem psycho by texting too much, but I really like her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - So i saw this girl at my job i haven't seen in about four years. We had a thing in high school and i really liked her. And vice versa. We talked awhile and i ended getting her number. We text each other and she told me she still liked me. How she ...

I read his emails and I think he will cheat! Why do men cheat?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - hi my boyfriend cheated on me during the first year we were together, i stayed around and convinced myself that we all make mistakes, but, i also found out his password to his email account, and since then i have occasionally had a look about and ...

When an ex is jealous does that mean he wants you back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5607 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - when my ex saw me with a new boyfriend he became jeaous. After some weeks he texted measking if I have a boyfriend now. Does it mean that he still likes me?When an ex is jealous does it mean that he still likes me and want me back? ...

What is he thinking? Why does he still talk to me but makes no plans with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5607 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I am not here to ask if cheating on my spouse is wrong because I know it is...so that said, I am confused about the way the "other man" is feeling. We have known each other for almost a year. I felt the attraction between us almost from the start, ...

My nasty neighbour is making my life miserable!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - ok guys heres my problem . i have had a troubled life and having some mental health disoders does not help (ADHD ect) . its just lucky i have a lovely family who i can talk to . My problem is a nasty neighbour . it all began many years ...

Is it true for some people that you don't remember your dreams upon waking?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Is it true for some people that you don't remember your dreams upon waking? I wake up and remember quite a bit of what I have dreamt that night, and I thought that was quite normal, but many family members tell me that they never dream (or simp...

I want to renew my wedding vows to my husband, but he disagrees! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - My husband and I have been married a little over three years. About 8 months ago, we hit a really bad patch and seperated for about 6 months. Now we are together and working things out and things have been going really well. There is a point of...

What does being someones pigeon mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Would like to know what this phrase means. What does being someone's "pigeon" mean?...

Is it true that men will have sex with any female who is willing?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Is it true that men can have sex with any female. If female is willing and approaching them , they never say no. Even if they love their partner, but for sex they everready for any female. Male readers plz answer this question...

How do I do what's right by my friend? He's just had a baby and wants to leave his fiancee for me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - well im 17 , and my friend who is 22 has been in a relationship for around 4 years , his fiancee has just had a baby but he didnt seem to happy , he was scared of being a daddy eventhough he loves his daughter to bits , he asked me advice on being ...

I am very confused by his weird behavior, do you think I am being used? I

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I met a guy at a party and thought he was very interested in me. He made out with me and tried to go farther, but I stopped him as I thought it was inappropriate. I went over to his place the next day to watch a movie, but while we were watching it, ...

I am 14 and attracted to my friend's 58 year old aunt, how do I let her know of y sexual feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - hi I'm a 14 year old virgin male. I have feelings for my friend's aunt(they live with their aunt). I go across the street to their house and play with them often. their aunt is 58 and has a nice body. I asked my friends if they cared if I had sex ...

Kissed a co-worker, how do keep this fro being awkward?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - i went out with my coworkers one night for drinks...our group has been hanging out alot lately...the other night we were all out drinking..and me and one coworker were talking all night...and being flirty..we kissed..and basically kissed all ...

How do you make a long distance relationship work, unable to go to see her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - How do you make a long distance relationship work if we cant see each other for a long time... we are both 16 and she lives 11 hours from me so i have no way i can see her. but we really like each other. There's no way i could see her till i was at ...

After one week,, I have developed feelings for her, should I tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5606 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - I think i have developed feelings for this girl after only one week. we met at the park and started talking. We are into the exact same things we have both had the same problems in our life so we understand each other. So should i inform her on my ...

How do I let him know I am interested in him more than a little?

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20 July 2009 (F) - I went out with a friend to dinner and a local play (a romantic comedy) his friend was in. It wasn't billed as a date per se. We've only really hung out twice before and just as friends. But we ended up being together about six hours in all; it was ...

I am a tomboy and I have not had a boyfriend ever, I do wear make-up, do boys care if you are a tomboy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - ummmm ok this is a weird question but like im a big tomboy most of my friends are guys and i luv tossing the football and wrestling and stuff like that but i still wear makeup and crap......do guys like that or care about that cuz i havnt hade an ...

The sex is great, but he has other issues, ADHD, for one, how do I keep his interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5608 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I have met this guy who is 38.. (I am 36). He has been engaged several times--most recently, a few months ago. He says that he's 'a pleaser; and that he has 'ADHD.' (Yes, I know...red flags all around. We met a couple of weeks ago and ...