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Archived questions from: 16 July, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I can't afford to send my daughter to collee, how can I get help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - I need some help to figure out university situation in Canada. How can you get around this law, that your child is not an adult, and you are obligated paying for their university? We wanted if he could get student loan, but refused, because...

I went away on busines for 2 month and came back to find out my Girlfrend was engaged to another man!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

16 July 2009 (M) - Hi, I am really going through a disturbing situation now days. Six months back I went out of country for 2 months business training. When I came back found my girlfriend behavior a little mischievous it was like she is hiding something from me. ...

For the Ladies: What do you mean when you say, "Hey, you're cute!"

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

16 July 2009 (M) - Dear Ladies and Girls, Would you please enlighten me, and many other men no doubt, as to what you ACTUALLY mean when you say to a guy the following:- "Hey you're cute". Thanks. ...

Is she a prostitute?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

16 July 2009 (M) - Hello.Im writing about one girl that i know.She is very beautyfull-tall with straight black hair and green eyes and she is strange i think that she is shy a little.One night she said to me that two friends of hers will come to take her home with a ...

Could I be in love with my best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - So i've known this guy (let's call him Sam) for about 3 years now and he's my best friend, i'm closer to him than anyone else. We're like brother and sister. Unfortunately, he's going out with someone who i'm good friends with (let's call her ...

Anyone out there on anti-depressants?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - So my therapists thinks I should be on anti depressants pills because of my x boyfriend? Is there anyone out there that is on them and can tell me about me? I usually do not result to medication but at this time and period of my life Id be willing ...

I just want to sleep all day and none of my friends like me....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - I feel crap all the time. My friends don't like me, I'm lonely, bored and pretty miserable. I don't do anything all day, except text this girl I met on a Pro-Ana website and isit Pro-Ana sites. And I feel like a fraud becuase I'm not even thin. ...

Plus size woman finding it hard to feel comfortable with my new man!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5612 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - Hello everyone! I am a plus size women and i am finding it very hard to find a man that loves me the way i am and wants me for more than sex. Anyhow i have met a guy and he likes me alot and now im very insecure of my body in front of him. Please ...

We are only dating and never have serious moments together, but I know I should tell him about my mother passing away

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months. He's attractive, very funny, and he has made me happy. I love being around him and the other night when he was very drunk he asked me why I liked him and that he wanted to start treating me like a ...

Why do men go around staring at other women when their girlfriends/wives are with them?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

16 July 2009 (?) - Why do guys have to be so ignorant! im sure there are guys out there who wont stare at other women but most do and it makes their wives/gfs really degraded! then they sit and complain when we tell them that it hurts us! thats a bunch of BS. wom...

Should I go or stay here and seek another degree?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5612 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - I'll tell you a little about my situation as it comes into my mind. I'm 34 years of age. I have a master's degree in "I/O psychology" but it has not done anything for me. I've been years without employment and having to tolerate my dysfunctional ...

Wife feels ignored, cause of my business

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

16 July 2009 (M) - My wife has been really piss at me for not paying enough attention to her due to my job, I've insanely with business trips, meetings etc so I haven't been blowing off her a lot lately. I missed her birthday and our anniversary (they're quite close ...

I am no longer attracted to my husband because he's not asian

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - Within the past few months I have developed a preference towards Asian men only. It started when I began listening to Korean boy bands and watching Korean dramas. I have always been interested in asian cultures and I have always been attracted to ...

Gay guy wondering about a date with a girl

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

16 July 2009 (M) - Well I am a 23 year gay guy. I have never been with a women. I still suffer with self acceptence, im working on it. But I have wanted to try it with a girl, but never really pursue it. This afternoon my boss was talking with me (no one knows im gay ...

Getting married and don't know a THING about planning it! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5612 days ago

16 July 2009 (M) - im getting married in a year and i dont know anything about weddings. so i was wondering if anyone knows of any good websites to help me out or any good advise to share. and please dont try to tell me that planning the wedding is the womens job. it ...

I said I didn't want kids; she said no problem; now she says she's pregnant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

16 July 2009 (M) - i'm a 52 y/o and i met this young lady who is 31. we hit it off from the start. i told her that i've been married for quite some time and divorced ten yrs, have three grown childrens and whatnot and that i'm not interested in having anymore. she ...