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Archived questions from: 3 July, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

How do you go about getting councelling?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - How do you go about getting counselling? And do you have to pay?...

I'm just like a magnet for negative things, all I seem to do lately is cry.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

3 July 2008 (?) - i cant cope with life no more! is there anything i can do for my boyfriend apart from be there for him, i know its selfish me thinkin about my feelings when hes going through such a rough time but im really messed up! my boyfriend has recently found ...

I should be happy, but I am trying to sabotage my relationship, somebody help me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6008 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for 9 months now. He is absolutly WONDERFUL!! Hed do anything for me and i love him soo damn much. But i have a situation.. Last Christmas an EX-friend of his told me that hed cheated on me with a particular girl....

I only like receiving oral sex, any suggestions, to help me reciprocate?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6004 days ago

3 July 2008 (M) - Hello. I have some sort of phobia or fear or disgust of giving oral to a women. Now I've been with my girlfriend for a year and she is very relaxed in giving me oral and demands none because she knows how I feel which I really appreciate of he...

Friends with benefits? What are your opinions on this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - I've fancied a guy for ages, but i know he's got a reputation, and he is a bit of a player. I know he likes me but i also know he doesn't do relationships and just wants friends with benefits. What is people's opionion on this?...

Caught in a possible bigamous marital situation, I am desperate for help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6022 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - My question is quite long so here goes. I had a marriage ceremony in the Caribbean in 1988.I did not believe the marriage to be recognized in the UK and so married my current husband in 1993. My current husband wants to divorce me and has proven my ...

Can a man resist temptation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - OK. I asked a question earlier - about struggling with the way my boyfriend talks about women with his friends, I only got one reply and am sure that people must have more to say than that - as it was my first ever question and I have now had a look ...

I really don't know who to be with....Oh, and I'm pregnant with twins!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 yrs. Things keep going well then they will get bad again. I'm pregnant with his twin boys. I'm not happy with him. He tells me what to do, tells me he doesn't find me attractive and puts me down. I've found so...

I can't help but wonder whether he still finds me attractive at all!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6022 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - I have been living with my partner for 2 years. In the beginning I asked him what made him go out with me, he said that my looks attracted him at first, but later he liked me for me. I am a bit insecure, and asked him whether he likes the way I lo...

Honestly I find this woman very difficult to deal with. Does she have some disorders, or possibly, extremely low self-esteem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6022 days ago

3 July 2008 (M) - To cut long story short, I met this girl two years ago through a TV ad and I have recently met her again, shortly after her breakup with her ex. We maintained contact in between, but summarily our relations are a weird one. We can get along gr...

What does it mean when he say's he's confused????

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - ok, now im more confused then ever!!! One minute he can't wait to see me and wants to spend all his time with me...(ya like 5 times a weeks) he gives me roses and a card telling me how much i have made him soooo happy and putting a smile on his face...

My head is telling me one thing but my heart is telling me another. Any advice please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - Feel free to tell me that I was wrong to do this, but I don't know what made me do it. My boyfriend was supposed to be moving into a flat the other day but it fell through (for what reasons I don't know), he said that the landlord had found someone ...

I'd like to save my marrige - but it feels like it's only me trying.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - I'm confused! My husband cheated on me numerous of times (5) I got herpes from him, separated for nine months almost got divorced and dicided to give our kids one more chance to have mom and dad together. And now after being 5 years back together I ...

How do I ask my husband to do stuff for me without sounding too much like a nag?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - Hi everyone. I would just like to know something about my husband that I dont understand. He is really a great guy. Easy going and not too full of nonsense. But what baffles me, is that when I ask him to do something, there is a procrastination. Thou...

I'm passing through a very difficult mode in life... please suggest something!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - Though i've overcome my break-up, i always feel very guilty of myself. For things which i committed during my relationship, may be i was too tempted. But now its like i feel like there's no one who loves me. i don't want a new relationship also, i ...

I am seriously scared that he is going to tip me over the edge, and I have two children to think about..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - Posted this last night but i think i had put it across wrong, so didn't get answers on the main bit of the question i was looking for. Please help me be stronger! I dumped someone in jan, stupidly i got manipulated into lending him a few thousand...

She said I "inspired protectiveness in people". Is it something I'm doing that makes me this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

3 July 2008 (M) - I was sitting with a friend and we were talking about people on our masters course. Just casually she slipped in that I "inspired protectiveness in people, because I was the only single guy on the course". For some reason, this really irked me, it's ...

Why would a guy have sex with a girl and not want her to be his girlfriend?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 6019 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - If a guy doesn't want a girl to be his girlfriend but still wants to have sex with her, does that mean that shes ugly or doesnt have a good personality?...

How do I pick up the pieces after leaving my husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - I just started to first step to getting out of a rough relationship and marriage. For year, I lived with verbal beatings, constant put downs, threats, and lies. For years I was told what I could and couldnt eat... I was getting disgusting to him and ...

He has lied to me from the beginning, I don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - Im 28 years old and my husband is 38. We have been together for 10 years. I met him at 18 and was everything I dreamed of. I got pregnant a year later. Three months into my pregnancy I found out he was living with a woman and had 3 kids. After al...

Does my mother not like talking to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - I think my mom doesn't like to talk to me. When I talk to her most of the time she always scowls at me. Also when I talk to my dad she also scowls at me too. However, my mom doesn't scowl at my sister when she talks to her. How come my mom only does ...

I've had dreams about this boy I like, could they mean anything?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) - There's this boy that I've liked for awhile now. Like, we actually had something so don't think that he's just some random kid that I stalk lol. I haven't seen him in like forever because he doesn't go to my school. But lately, I've been thinking ...