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Archived questions from: 31 July, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I'm new to the UK and trying to figure out sexual behaviour here. Any statistics/experiences/advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I was just wondering: In the United Kingdom, what is the average sexual behaviour of people? Are the majority of people ok with no strings attached sex, or do most prefer waiting for a relationship? And is it a foreign concept to wait until you ...

Hot? Or cool? What sort of relationship is this really?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5961 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - Kinda long..sorry..I met this really cute guy at a night club. We danced last few songs. Got his number. A few days later I go to his place. We kiss and hug (didn't hit 3rd base), but after we talked and laughed for a few hours. I then saw him again ...

I'm trying to organise something in my community to bring people together. Any ideas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - ok so i'm trying to organize something in my community to bring people together but ideas that will interest people are prooving quite hard to find, in general people act kind of apathetic and closeminded but there is so much more to them when you ...

He doesn't know what he wants, I keep being dumped and picked up again.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - My boyfriend have been on and off for years. After 5 years i asked him are you sure you really want me?Because lately id been feeling like im more than a nuisance in his life. He spends time going places and doing things with his mates sayin im not ...

Could it be because he can't betray his dead wife's memory?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - Other people said we looked good together on the dance floor, and we have so much in common its uncanny. we are roughly the same age and just by coincidence he lives in a small town a long way away, but I have a flat that I rent out just virtually ...

How can I deal with this? My stepmom won't let me have extended visits with my mom anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - Last night I was watching TV and when I had to go to bed I saw my favorite show was on, so I decided to watch it, when it was done I went upstairs to find my stepmom watching me. Because she knew I didn't go to bed, I got in trouble, and now she ...

When I like someone, my old shyness problem awakens again. Why can't I be myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - Well i thought i had dealt with this problem, and i have for the most part, but when i like someone my old shyness problem awakens again. And because of this anyone i like - i cant act normal and like myself around because of how i lock up. But this...

I felt he must have thought something of me, or am I being silly here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I cant make this guy out. I met him on holiday we didnt have sex although he was trying his best every day!!! He got angry becasue I didnt, but then when he returned back he emailed me and asked to meet up, and we did, a few days later (he doesnt ...

He was so nice to me, and then he said I'm not giving him the space he needs. I feel lost.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5961 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - I have a question. I was supported by a good friend during a very painful breakup. He and I became a little more than friends as we talked multiple times a day. He decided after we talked to come out to Arizona to meet me for a four day weekend. ...

Would it be wrong to place an ad in a paper asking for someone to get me pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - My husband can not get me pregnant do to a surgery that he had many years ago. My question for this community is this. Would it be wrong to place an ad in a paper asking for someone to get me pregnant?...

It was only our third date and he asked me what I wanted to name our kids. Then when I said I thought we would have cute babies together, he freaked out.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I just started seeing this really attractive man and on the 3rd date, he asked me what I would like to name my kids. I thought this was a strange question. But I played along with it because I'm really attracted to him. Since then, he has asked me ...

My boyfriend wants a tattoo with a bike and some lady on it! I feel a bit uneasy about it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I'm feeling a bit indifferent about my boyfriend getting his new tattoo. He wants a tattoo with a bike and then some lady on it. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 1/2 years, not planning to seperate, anytime soon at least. I would ...

My boobs aren't growing!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - ever since i was 15 i have had 32a boobs bin a size 6 and 5'8 j havent grown in any way my boobs are so small i feel like getting a boob job because it has brang me down now for past couple of years. i try my hardest to put on weight nothing works ...

On a date, who should pick up the bill?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - What is the proper etiquette when going out on a date on who should pay? I always expect the man to pay for at least the first few dates. Then I may put some money towards dinner once in a while. Is this ok? ...

Why do I keep thinking about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I met this young man he saw interest in me and wanted to know me more.I really liked him as well. Well we went out a few times we were really getting to know one another and growing fond of one another.He shared with me that he had friends one day ...

I think I'm in love with him, but I don't want to ruin our special friendship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - i've been friends with this guy for like a realy long time,he's sweet, sensitive, and everything good, but the problem is im in love with him but he only loves me as a sister. and i cant seem to get him off my mind, i tried to convince myself t...

Can opposites attract?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5961 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - Hi helpful aunties, I just need some opinions here. Can opposites attract? I'm a pretty easy going guy and don't really have a "hectic" social life. Now, I've met a girl who is very much the polar opposite and who is a big party girl a...

I want to re-kindle things with my ex, but she isn't interested. On top of this, another ex is wanting me back and I can't say no. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5962 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - what does this mean? ok me and my ex girlfriend (2 years ago) ended badly but we went through everything together like a misscarriage , holiday . and this year i got back in contact with her shes still fit as hell. i got with a girl wh...

Why is everyone I love leaving me? My mum's so upset, it's making me worse!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - Hya, my name is Jodie, i was just wondering if you could help me. You see i don't know what to do, as i've just recently come out of a relationship that i wanted to be in my whole life, and i'm tryin my hardest to get over him. But now i have my mum ...

Should I stay in my relationship if I'm not really happy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and a half. We haven't been intimate yet. I know it's because he is paranoid about pregnancy. I went on birth control; the mirena, so I can't get pregnant in 5 years. I live with my mom and siblings and ...