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Archived questions from: 11 July, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

What can I do to not be such a party pooper?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

11 July 2008 (M) - This may be a stupid thing to ask, since most of the questions are about relationships, but this does have to do with my relationships with other people. For the past few years, I've been living in London (recently moved to UK). The whole partyi...

Am I giving this widower enough space?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

11 July 2008 (F) - Like another problem I read earlier mine is similar. I recently met a man who was only widowed two years ago. He flies off the handle quite quickly and seems to take offense easily when none is meant. Its understandable when he saw his wife sli...

My best friend won't get help over losing a baby. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

11 July 2008 (F) - please help nothing is working!! I posted here yesterday about my friend who lost a baby his time last year - her boyfriend of 3 years moved back home to tunisia about 1 month a go she only told me about losing the baby yesterday! I rea...

He seems to have no sense with money or doing essential paperwork. Should I give up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

11 July 2008 (F) - I've been with my current boyfriend for a year and a bit now. I think just over 16 months, in fact. Through the last school year, I stayed for my last year in high school, while he went to Ottawa. I have no doubt that he stayed faithful, o...

What does a man mean when he says he doesn't want a relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5970 days ago

11 July 2008 (F) - When a man says he doesnt want a relationship what is he actually saying - as such. Does it mean he just wants a one night stand or he wants to see me along with anyone else he chooses to or what??? Or does it mean he doesnt want a sexual ...

We are on a team together, she treats me terribly, I don't know why, any suggestions, as to why she behaves this way towards me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

11 July 2008 (F) - Thanks in advance to any help anyone can give me here as I am at the end of my rope. There is a woman on my volunteer'team' who is giving my quite the run for my money. She can be pleasant but can turn on a dime and she is more apt to do it in ...

I promised my girlfriend a great gift, for her birthday, but I have no idea what to get her, please help me with suggestions?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

11 July 2008 (M) - Its my girlfriends birthday coming up and we have been together what will be 2years in November. Stupidly I said to her that I will get her something really good for her birthday, now as it's getting closer she is starting to get excited by what I ...

Had great chemistry with him, but he was a cheater, will I find someones else who I connect with, as I did with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5980 days ago

11 July 2008 (F) - I dated this guy for a year. we clicked and i thought he was the one.although he consistently cheated i was sure i was the one. anyway i recently ended it coz i couldnt take it anymore.we had so much chemistry though i cant help thinking ill never ...

I have multiple girls in my life, and I am confused, please help me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

11 July 2008 (M) - once a maid told me that i should have 5 girlfriends and i should pick which one i want to marry.. 1 is my first love . ex girlfriend . a lot of drama . she got wit my one of my bestfriends after i hooked up wit her friend. ive hit her before w...

Why does he want time to be alone? And why so suddenly? Should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

11 July 2008 (F) - Okay this is a long story. I have a very wonderful man in my life and in August it will be a year. We're technically engaged but I don't know about that just yet. He's always been somewhat of a loner but we hang out 5 out of 7 days a week. It used ...

How do I get a job?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

11 July 2008 (M) - Hey.. I've recently lost all the energy to do anything with my life. However, I got back from a trip visiting some friends for a week one week ago, and that was good. So now I'm just trying to work out my next step. I need to get a job and b...

What shape of mouth is most pleasing to European men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

11 July 2008 (F) - Do most Europe man likes a woman with a big mouth or a cherry mouth ? In my opionion ,most men in China likes a girl with a cherry mouth ,because it accord with the aesthetics in China. And I know that a world-famous model called LuYan ...

Does my flat nose make me unacceptable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

11 July 2008 (F) - 1.How do you think of a woman who has a flat nose ? 2.Will the man loves a woman with a flat nose? 3.Is it that women who has a flat nose can't be good temperament and succesful? 4.Is a straight nose so important to a woman's beauty? ...

Can there be love BEFORE sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

11 July 2008 (F) - Whilst sex is an important part of life can a man fall in love with you before he has had sex or vice versa. I think ive fallen in "love" with a man but we havent had sex-is it possible I havent known him long but I do have these feelings B...

Is anybody NOT cheating?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5978 days ago

11 July 2008 (F) - Does anyone know TRUTHFULLY of any couples who have never cheated on their partners of say over 5 years in a relationship. I despair all my friends are saying their partners are cheating not jsut the men women too. Is anyone faithful these days ...

Should my husband take an overseas job offer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

11 July 2008 (F) - Calling all Australians please... My husband (2nd) has lost his job in recent months and has not been able to get another one. He is very qualified, but due to current situation in country, unable to get employment, even though many posts unfil...

How do I stop my husband eating himself to death? Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3263 days ago

11 July 2008 (F) - Help please! My husband of 6 years has recently been diagnosed with high cholestrol. And I mean very high. He had chest pains one night and turned out he was getting angina pain. And he is at high risk of a heart attack. He is only 41y old. It was s...

Is she or has she cheated on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

11 July 2008 (M) - Long story!! Me and my gf have been together for 3 years now, and always been happy together till last summer. firstly, a while back, last summer, her pops was v. ill and needed looking after. She concentrated her efforts on him (too right) i...

How do I get back into work with a 10-month old baby?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

11 July 2008 (F) - hi. im having a career dilemma. ive got a 10 month old boy and i really want to start working. but the thing is i want to work from home and have my own hours. im really interested in writing, but dont know how to start, you know maybe be an agony ...

She said she had been "forcing her feelings" to try to make it work. Is this possible?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

11 July 2008 (M) - I was wondering, is it possible for someone to fake feelings because they want to be with someone. I was seeing a girl for about three weeks and she seemed very into me...lots of texts saying how much she liked me, etc. She stayed over at mine on ...

Is my relationship currently on track for destruction? Should I continue along with it in case not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5981 days ago

11 July 2008 (M) - I have been with my partner for the past 2.5 years. Of late, I find myself feeling very frustrated and confused by the idea of what it will be like to be in our relationship for the future. Frustration with one another and arguments with e...

Is it normal that I'm only attracted to older men?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

11 July 2008 (F) - I'm a 14 year old girl and I'm only attracted to older men... like 35-65. I have never been attracted to anyone my age. Is this normal? If not what's wrong with me? ...

How do I tell my sister I don't like her husband-to-be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5982 days ago

11 July 2008 (F) - My older half sister is getting married for the second time in just a few weeks. Me and my younger sister are not very happy about it. We were very much attached to our original brother-in-law. (who we have had zero contact with for the last two ...

I think there is something going on with my friend, how can I help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5982 days ago

11 July 2008 (F) - Hoping someone can help here. I have a very good friend who I am worried about. She went through a divorce last year. Her mom is in a nursing home and she insists that her mom will not last the year but her mom seems fine. More troubling is the fact ...

How can I overcome my nerves?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

11 July 2008 (M) - im going on a date with my girlfriend this saturday and i really need help! im thinkng of kissing her . jus like a small kiss to show her that i love her but i am practically famous for my nerves and i need advice on what to do! someone plase ...

This is ridiculous! Should I cut my losses and just go?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

11 July 2008 (F) - I'm 34 he's 30. Two years together just the other day. haven't moved in no sign of marriage. Do i cut my losses and just go. Have tried to walk away before this but he won't hear of it yet won't change it either by doing things like move in or get ...

Did I miss my chance to be with a wonderful woman?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5981 days ago

11 July 2008 (M) - i am divorced. recently had a woman visiting me who is married to someone i know. they are going thru some tough times in their marriage, she also told me that they had not slept in like 7 months. It got hot and heavy and she literally threw herself ...

He's nince but he makes me feel reeeeallly bad, I hate myself when he doesn't pick up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5982 days ago

11 July 2008 (F) - Hey everybody, :)... or should it be :( First i have to say the person who thought of doing this site for people for free is like an angel, thank you. Well it's a number of questions, i'll through them all together. I'm someone who so muc...

Am I reading more into this FWB relationship? I'm seeing some signs...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5982 days ago

11 July 2008 (F) - I am in involved with a FWB, but when we are having sex he makes constant eye contact with me or starring at me and cuddles (I’m generally not the cuddle type), also whn we have spent the night together, sleeps holding on to me like I was going to ...