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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I went to an afternoon bar to catch up with a friend. I helped myself to some water as the queues were too long at the bar. Then this waiter came over quickly and filled a bottle of water and came over to my table and said "I have got you some water so you don't have to get any again". He kept smiling at me and then was hovering around. I went to the toilet and my friend said he came over and looked like he was looking for me. The second time I came back from the toilet I caught him looking at me and smiling, he seemed shy. I am a shy person and usually avoid eye contact but I smiled and he smiled back. My friend asked if I wanted to speak to him but I didn't feel confident and left the venue. I don't know if he was interested or just being friendly? Now I'm wondering if I should have spoke to him before I left?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (30 September 2016):
 It really is impossible to tell. As a waiter he needs to be friendly, so that is what he could have been doing, it is his job.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (30 September 2016):
 Impossible to tell.
When you work the bar (shy or not) part of your job is to interact with people, remember their drinks, small talk, be friendly. They want repeat business.
So I really....... wouldn't read too much into this little interaction.
IF you are interested, go back sit at the bar and chat in between him serving others. IF he is interested I'm pretty sure he will make it more obvious.
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reader, N91  +, writes (30 September 2016):
 He could of been interested and he also could of just been being friendly. I don't think anyone will be able to gauge that from the info.
Go back in and strike up some conversation and see where it takes you.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2016): Your situation sounds very much like mine. Only difference is the location. Yes I do think he likes you judging by his actions. I love studying body language and the things people do when they fancy someone .
I suggest you back again and try and find a way to link with him. E.g. Facebook, number! Go got it!
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