My ex has totally messed up my head, should I see a doctor?
Q. Hey people, This is going to be the last time i post something on this because i think my head is going? My ex totally messed me about, lied to me, messed me totally about. one week she wanted me, the next didnt then when it all came to a end she ...
A. 3 August 2010: hi, iv noticed youve posted alot about your ex on here, and im sympathetic towards you. i would like to help, if you could inbox me and then il see what i can do.
I think this ex of yours is making you depressed by the sounds of it, and your not ... (read in full...)
Football for 10 hours a day!!, or is he avoiding me?
Q. i'm 16 an my boyfriend is nearly 18 and in the last few weeks we just kinda growing apart. we live far away so dont see each other that much but we used text all day everyday but over the last week or two he has been spending more time alone like. ...
A. 30 July 2010: no problem hun, hope you can get over him quickly then and your handling the break up ok. if u find urself strugglin, inbox me :) x... (read in full...)
Football for 10 hours a day!!, or is he avoiding me?
Q. i'm 16 an my boyfriend is nearly 18 and in the last few weeks we just kinda growing apart. we live far away so dont see each other that much but we used text all day everyday but over the last week or two he has been spending more time alone like. ...
A. 29 July 2010: hmmm tricky one this isnt it!
I have always said that men need time and space alone or with their mates, as much as women do!
but this guy, 10 hours footy! LOL!
Maybe he just wanted to be on his own for the day, nothing wrong with that, i thin... (read in full...)
I just want to spend more time with her and share more laughs and affection but she's not interested
Q. I met a girl through friends and we clicked immediately. Hung out in a group setting a couple of times and then had a date alone together. The date went well, we enjoyed each other's company, we had sex and she spent the night. I will say that ...
A. 29 July 2010: ok, so you hit it off in the beginning, then she went cold.
this happnes all the time.
There could be a number of factors as to why shes backed off a bit,
her daughter needs her more at the moment, she could of met someone else, she might think ... (read in full...)
Can anyone please give me advice on azoospermia?
Q. Can anyone please give me any advice on azoospermia, which is when there is no sperm in the ejaculate. I know someone, 24yrs married, who has this but needs advice on any possible cure? Please, please help!!...
A. 12 November 2009: from what iv herd about that, when theres no sperm in the ejaculation, its not painful, or harmful in any way, it just means that this friend of yours cant have children. i dont think theres any cure, its not like a doctor can inject sperm into the ... (read in full...)
Why do people come into our lives to make things difficult?
Q. Why do people come into our lives to make things difficult? Is there any way to remove oneself from society so much so that nothing or no one can interfere in our affairs? I feel like people in general hate seeing other people happy, and try t...
A. 26 September 2009: hi there, i think your thinking too much about what others think and say! Firstly do not remove yourself, however you meant that to sound, it didnt sound good! Why give in to people with nothing better to do than interfere? Id pity them, for not ... (read in full...)
Sudden change in partner, and I want to feel comfortable
Q. Hi, I'm feeling a little confused and it's stressing me out. Over the course of the summer, I dated a girl who lived locally to me. The relationship was a little turbulent. There were a number of things we disagreed on, but we persisted, knowi...
A. 20 September 2009: sounds like, you new girl is there for you, your sommer love/ex isnt. if your ex wanted you, shed be there, but she isnt, get it?
... (read in full...)
Met a girl online 3 weeks ago, we have met up, but I don't know if she is playing me
Q. I met this girl online 3 weeks ago. She is 20 and I am 28. We talked a lot on msn nearly every night, and even though she lives 3 hours away, as we both seemed to like each other a lot, we decided to meet up on one saturday. So I went to visit her, ...
A. 20 September 2009: ok hun, just trust me on this one, rushing things and being too full on will make her back off.
Good things come to those who wait. patience is the key.... (read in full...)
Met a girl online 3 weeks ago, we have met up, but I don't know if she is playing me
Q. I met this girl online 3 weeks ago. She is 20 and I am 28. We talked a lot on msn nearly every night, and even though she lives 3 hours away, as we both seemed to like each other a lot, we decided to meet up on one saturday. So I went to visit her, ...
A. 19 September 2009: i think she probably isnt playing games, but wants to take things slow. try just going at her pace, no pressure.
And if shes stressed, then shes not gunna want to be running off here there and everywhere. give it some time, she should come roun... (read in full...)
I'm jealous of his female friends
Q. There was a guy I was kind of seeing he is a good friend of my ex and as you can imagine things were awkward so I backed away from the situation so I wouldn't get hurt even though I am hurt. Anyway this guy still likes me at least I think he does ...
A. 16 September 2009: yeh i think its strange when a guy hangs out with only girls, it either makes him feel like some sort of female attracted god, or just really in touch with his feminine side.
either way, its not good grounds to build a relationship on, A.) beca... (read in full...)
How is having sex with me not leading me on???
Q. So my ex and I have started talking again and theres still feelings there on both parts, we talked about taking things slow and seeing what happens. The first night we met up we spent the night together and the same a few days later. She then ...
A. 15 September 2009: you could ask again, does she wanna b with you or not, or your only gunna offer friendship.
And if she picks friendship, then say no sex involved, all or nothing. she cant have her cake n eat it.
... (read in full...)
Sometimes I feel she see's right through me...
Q. I just wish she loved me. We've been together for 7 years and have 2 children. I love her, in love with her, she isn't. It's reaching obsession point now and I'm craving affection and her love. I want to marry her but she won't marry me. I adore her ...
A. 15 September 2009: hmmm, more information please, how do you mean she sees right through??? come on now, what have you done for her to "see right through"? then maybe we can take the advice from there........... (read in full...)
Her past with men I know is ruining us!
Q. I work in a small company, with a ration of only eight other men including myself. I met my girlfriend at a work related function, as she herself use to work there until only a few months before I started. I sensed a curious vibe from my male col...
A. 14 September 2009: everyone has a past, everyone has made mistakes.
she probably doesnt want to tell you who these men are, because shes embarassed and ashamed of what she did back then.
i think if you let her past get in the way, your not ready for this relation... (read in full...)
Ever met someone so perfect that you're ashamed of your baser feelings/instinct?
Q. Have you ever met someone who is so beautiful, so pure, intelligent, fun-loving and wittingly sweet that it makes you feel ashamed of your baser cravings and the animalistic urge to make her your own? I didn't know people like her existed ...
A. 26 August 2009: i think that you should romance this girl!!!! :D ! she sounds lovely, and if you know she doesnt sleep around, then shes gunna be the all or nothing, romantic type! buy her some flowers (not secret admirer, let her know there from you!) really try... (read in full...)
My friend never mentions his g/f to me
Q. My good friend, who I work with, recently separated from his wife and I later found out that he started dating this other woman. When he told me about this other woman (I had to ask him if he was dating) he also told me that before and after hi...
A. 26 August 2009: yeh i agree with quiet-echo, its still early on his relationship with this girl, and he probably doesnt wanna talk about it because theyre still gettin 2 know eachother, and hes just enjoying that, without having to tell anyone what hes getting up ... (read in full...)
How do I go about asking her parents if I can take her out?
Q. There's this girl who I really like and she really likes me, I'm 17 and she's 14. I don't think there's anything wrong with that, but I'm afraid what her parents might say if I took her out. What do I do about her parents??...
A. 3 August 2009: its tricky, you see, because you dont know whether her parents are protective or laid back, i'd ask her first if she'd go on a date, if she says yes, then maybe you both could approach her parents together. if you're both there in front of them, ... (read in full...)
Why do I overthink everything when I'm in a close relationship?
Q. Why do I overthink everything when I'm in a close relationship? When I meet a woman I don't really think of anything other than the moment. I'm relaxed, I can be myself, there's really no problems. So why is it as soon as we get close, or ra...
A. 3 August 2009: you really are thinking too much into things. i bet your upsetting alot of potential girlfriends by behaving like this. yes, ok, some girls are over emotional, this il grant you. so if your thinking inside the box, if you do a, b or c, they may ... (read in full...)
I think my doctor took my virginity! Should I press charges?
Q. i think mydoctor took my virginity!i was a virgin and i went to the doctor for a pap spear and a swab exam.when I told the doctor to be gentle because i was a virgin his whole facial expression changed.he was going to fast.he didn't care if i was ...
A. 15 November 2008: Your worring so much about this about hun, i dread to think how you'd be if you ever decided to have a baby!!!!!
god, iv got a 5 month old girl, and all the internals, and poking and prodding you have to go through! i mean i had the sweep, righ... (read in full...)
I think my doctor took my virginity! Should I press charges?
Q. i think mydoctor took my virginity!i was a virgin and i went to the doctor for a pap spear and a swab exam.when I told the doctor to be gentle because i was a virgin his whole facial expression changed.he was going to fast.he didn't care if i was ...
A. 12 November 2008: Just to note:: i totally agree with what everyone has said and explained, but to note, if it was a male doctor that did this examination, people should bear in mind that when it comes to giving young girls/women these internals, a female nurse ... (read in full...)
I think my doctor took my virginity! Should I press charges?
Q. i think mydoctor took my virginity!i was a virgin and i went to the doctor for a pap spear and a swab exam.when I told the doctor to be gentle because i was a virgin his whole facial expression changed.he was going to fast.he didn't care if i was ...
A. 12 November 2008: iv had smears before, and internal examinations, and alot of examiners do use two fingers, erm,,,,,if your worried that hes taken advantage of you in any way, i'd book an appointment to see a nurse, or other proffesional, talk to them, tell them ... (read in full...)
What differences should I feel if I am pregnant?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been having unprotected sex once or more a day for almost 4 months, trying to have a baby together. I'm 3 days past the day I got my last period, I'm usually late, but this time I don't feel any cramps, like I usually do ...
A. 10 November 2008: iv recently had a little girl, so maybe i can help.
I didnt notice at all i was pregnant until i had to for a routine urine test and at that time i was 3 weeks gone.
at about 4 weeks i did start to notice.
this is how it all panned out for me, ... (read in full...)
Two are in love?
Q. ok, so if you are here to call me a bitch or anything rude, you can just piss right off, i am not in the mood to be reading shit like that, i am in seek of some opinions or something... Lukasz [other guy] I kissed him and went to his place and we...
A. 10 November 2008: Dont worry i wont critisize you, there are so many people in your position hun, these things happen.
ok if you honestly think your feelings with chris are fading and think somethings growing with lukasz, then follow your heart. if i were you, i woul... (read in full...)
We have a newborn at home and all he does is party!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years living together for 1 year and we just had a baby about three months ago. When we our son was born it was a very difficult delivery I was in the hospital for about to 2 weeks. When I finally came ...
A. 5 November 2008: you need to tell him he has responsibilities now. i have a baby myself and i know how hard it is to look after on your own, he needs to pull his finger out and help you. im not sayin he shouldnt enjoy his life, every ones entitled to have a little ... (read in full...)
She lied! It turns out she's pregnant. I don't know what to do?
Q. why l was lied to about a pregnancy, we split up after a 2 1/2 year relationship with my partner, shes told me to leave her house and not come back, after accusing me of cheating on her, which is not true l have my whole family which back me up,the ...
A. 5 February 2008: Or maybe you wernt the father??????? just a suggestion because she obviously didnt feel the need for you to know.... (read in full...)
Two accidents with two different guys, will I have to wait for the baby to be born before I know who the father is?
Q. I last saw my period on December 25 2007. On January 2nd, I slept with an old flame and the condom actually broke in our case. A couple of days later, I got back with my boyfriend and we slept together unprotected. I was due for my period on January ...
A. 5 February 2008: its very important you find out who the father is due to blood testing reasons if anything happned to your child blood related, theyd go to either you or father and if the one you choose isnt actually the father you'll create a huge mess within your ... (read in full...)
Can you discover paternity without a DNA test?
Q. I'm pregnant with two baby daddy. I slept with these guy in the same month. How can I find out which one is the daddy without DNA test....
A. 5 February 2008: U need a DNA test hun. One question you need to ask yourself is- What would you do if in some years time, your child needed a blood test to match the fathers for any medical reason and the tests didnt match? Get it sorted now, not some years down... (read in full...)
My marriage is breaking up, but I love her too much to leave! What can I do?
Q. Hi, I hope you can help, i recently got married only 7 months ago and two days ago we had an arguement over mobile phone texts which isnt alot a know but it has been a build up over a year or so of things and she has now walked out on our marriage ...
A. 3 February 2008: Ask her if she still loves you. She did marry you so there must be something there, even though you both argue, so do every married couple. A marriage without arguments ( to clear the air ) is considered unhealthy, you should tell her this before ... (read in full...)
I am pregnant and in love with a man who is engaged.
Q. Hi. well i am still in love with the this guy who has a girlfriend who lives in south africa. he told me he couldnt answer my questions till he had seen her! well he went in october while he was away i tried to move on with my life i even started ...
A. 29 January 2008: Wow, its almost like im reading my own story! lol. I'm going through almost the same situation! how odd! Well, I told the guy when I was pregnant and he didnt want to know because he was going to propose to the missus. He said it would be best fo... (read in full...)
He says it's tobacco, but is he really smoking weed?
Q. My boyfriend smokes using a shottie bottle because he doesn't want his fingers to turn yellow from rolling cigarettes. The problem is, this method means he gets the whole hit of nicotine at once so when he doesn't smoke he goes absolutely insane. ...
A. 29 January 2008: Im almost certain i think youll find hes smoking weed!
Cocain can be smoked through a bottle aswell, but i doubt hes using that.
I used to smoke weed myself a few years ago.
It would be called smoking a bong, smoking out of a bottle.
I h... (read in full...)
How do you please a man?
Q. I want to know some good tips on pleasing your man sexually? what will keep him coming back for more like a man would with his mistress. I am ready to end my 5 year relationship and experience other men. I have a vision to give him?(when I meet him) ...
A. 29 January 2008: experiment, try something youve might not have done before.
Whether it be wathing porn together, using toys or making love in a daring place youd never dream of doing, yet have thought about. Youve been together 5 years, there must of been some... (read in full...)
He has a "long distance" girl on the side. Should I leave him?
Q. I have been with my current bf for 1 and a half years. He had a long distance relationship and told me he ended it. But, I found out they still keep in touch and he updates her on what is going on in his life. He denies that they still communicate. ...
A. 29 January 2008: Leave, right away! Hes playing you both for a mug!
his bit on the side wouldnt be contact if she didnt have any incentive to go on. sounds like hes saying one thing to you and another to her. You can do much better than this, dont put up with it.... (read in full...)
How do you find the balance between loving too much, or not enough?
Q. How does one find the balance? I recently heard a theory that if you show women you love them too much, all you do is chase them away. But at the same time, if you don't show then you love them, they will feel unwanted. What the f--k is tha...
A. 29 January 2008: Well, i think youll find that this "balance" isnt supposed to take effect all at once straight away.
As a woman who knows about the "balance" and likes it to be abided by, i will fill you in on what it means.
In the begining of a relation... (read in full...)
How do you know if you're gay?
Q. Okay, so I don't know if I'm gay, straight, or bi. My first pornographic experience was near 5th grade, and I sorta got hooked since. I've been looking at boys from time to time, and I even thought some of the boys in my school were cute as I grew ...
A. 29 January 2008: well, iv always said, if you never try youll never know!
its obviouse your curious about sexual relations with men or you wouldnt take pleasure in watchin gay porn.
Id say go for it, no one need know about, try it out and if you dont like it then ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with my 15 year old girlfriend, how can I speed things up?
Q. i'm 14 and i want to have sex with my 15 year old girlfriend. ive been with her for 3 months now, and i really like her alot for such a short space of time. you guys probably think im too young to know what love is but i do, i was with this other ...
A. 29 January 2008: Shes made up her mind, and in a very mature, smart way. She will not have sex til shes 16. Not only is this very smart, but its a legal decision. In the uk it's illegal to sleep with a girl under the age of 16. Bear this in mind. You might want it ... (read in full...)
I like him as a teacher; his staring bothers me. What should I do?
Q. Hi I have a problem to discuss need some advices. There is a teacher at my school he stares at me a lot, and everyday I enter the classroom he always makes an eye contact with me. I heard that he even got married a few months ago. I like him as t...
A. 29 January 2008: If it's just eye contact, that might not be a reason because he fancies you, in my opinion, eye contact shows a sign of professionalism and respect. And as a teacher. he probably uses eye contact as way of remaining a professional teacher. I think ... (read in full...)
We fell in love 5 months ago, now he wants to end it, why?
Q. hi i met a wonderful man 5 months ago and the way we met we both believed it was fate. we clicked straight awy and fell in love he was always making me feel spcial telling me how much he loved me that i was the best ting to ever happen to him. we ...
A. 29 January 2008: Well, in the understanding that you're certain he actually did love you, then left you, there has to be some sort of hidden reason why, and you obviously want to know without sounding too desperate or clingy. I suggest you call him, don't cry, sni... (read in full...)
We fell in love 5 months ago, now he wants to end it, why?
Q. hi i met a wonderful man 5 months ago and the way we met we both believed it was fate. we clicked straight awy and fell in love he was always making me feel spcial telling me how much he loved me that i was the best ting to ever happen to him. we ...
A. 28 January 2008: youve not been together that long, 5 months is a short time. And its like that song "you cant hurry love".
It isnt the best way to go about a relationship. And he clearly has a reason not to be with you or youd still be together.
Hunny learn fr... (read in full...)
My wife had a boob job, after I said no. I am leaving her!
Q. My wife went and had a boob job and I find it absolutely disgusting. Once she had small, pretty breasts and I loved them just the way they were. she kept asking me if she should get them "done" and I told her no, not only no but, H--L NO!!!!! I ...
A. 28 January 2008: ok firstly, im wondering whether you love the woman you AGREED to marry! AND DID MARRY! I sounds like youve made up your mind, but if your going to leave her for such a small and in my opinion petty reason, i think its safe to say your shallow, ... (read in full...)
Why won't she just tell me???
Q. Recently my ex called me and told me she was pregnant by me. I was shocked, even though we did have sex months before then. I proceeded to do the right thing as I still loved her and wanted us to be a family. I started making preperations to buy ...
A. 22 January 2008: well, firstly i commend you. Its a shame because you actually want to be a dad and have a family, she really should have more respect for you, not just as her parnter but as a father to be. You need to put your foot down here and tell her that by ... (read in full...)
Masturbation - is it common?
Q. ive always wondered, is it okay to masturbate? is it common or not? everyone goes round saying 'you're a wanker' etc. is this because everyone does it or am i a one off?...
A. 9 October 2007: Everyone either does it or has done it!
Some women (and men) even buy toys to help them along!
Im sure your aware that most women will own a vibrator or clitoral stimulator, so what do you think they have one for,,,,,,,ill give you a hint, its not ... (read in full...)
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