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writes:My good friend, who I work with, recently separated from his wife and I later found out that he started dating this other woman. When he told me about this other woman (I had to ask him if he was dating) he also told me that before and after his separation he often thought about a more then friend relationship with me but decided against it because we are good friends and we work together. I told him I wasn’t sure how I felt about him… but I think I did have feelings for him. At this point it didn’t matter since he is dating someone else and I wasn’t sure how I felt about him. He has been dating this woman for 3 months and I found out through the grapevine that he is buying a house with her. We are supposed to be good friends and he never told me. I am so hurt that he didn’t tell me. Actually, he never ever mentions her to me. I don’t even know her name! I had told him twice that I was ok with everything. But he still refuses to share any information about her. I know he cares about me because he is always so nice and sweet to me. But why won’t he talk about his girlfriend to me?
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reader, xxmissxx +, writes (26 August 2009):
 yeh i agree with quiet-echo, its still early on his relationship with this girl, and he probably doesnt wanna talk about it because theyre still gettin 2 know eachother, and hes just enjoying that, without having to tell anyone what hes getting up to yet. if your good enough friends, and hes absolutly sure about his new gf, then he will tell you one day, but to be fair hun, regardless of being friends or not, im sure he might think that if he told you evrything at the moment you might get jelous, im not sayin you would, but he could think that, because youve had feelings for eachother. leave him be girl, let him enjoy himself quietly
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