Should I let my boyfriend carpool with a female co-worker?
Q. Ok so my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. We moved in together 4months ago, and things have been going pretty good so far. He started a new job about a week ago and while in the process of meeting the coworkers in his ...
A. 1 November 2012: Hi guys! I just wanted to thank you all for your responses and great advises (especially the last anonymous male reader). After talking it through with my boyfriend and thinking about it by myself I realized that I was being a little stupid due to ... (read in full...)
Should I let my boyfriend carpool with a female co-worker?
Q. Ok so my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. We moved in together 4months ago, and things have been going pretty good so far. He started a new job about a week ago and while in the process of meeting the coworkers in his ...
A. 24 October 2012: Thank you girls for the responses. See I trust him, my nd has more female friends than any guy I know, and he has known them longer than he's known me. He goes out with them and I could care less about that, maybe its because I know every single one ... (read in full...)
Do you think it's my fault for them "breaking" their friendship?
Q. Dear all, I'm in need of some outside input! I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 6 years and 4 of them were long distance. I'm not talking city to city long distance, I'm talking halfway around the world long distance. I know...
A. 24 October 2012: Ok so this is what I think. You don't have to feel guilty at all, I find it really interesting that your bf would get mad at you for supposedly hurting the girl's feelings. She was the one going off on you about the fact that long distance relation... (read in full...)
Am I right to be jealous of my wife's new 'guy friend'? It goes so far that she even does his laundry!
Q. So, my wife and I have been married 12 yrs, and have always been admired for our relationship. About 6 months ago she started sharing her office with a single man, who quickly turned into her "guy friend". Since then, she's spent a lot of time ...
A. 29 May 2012: I believe you are justified to feel like you are feeling. Couples should have their own friends and spend time with them every once in a while but when couples have opposite sex friends I think that a more firm line should be drawn. Trust is one ... (read in full...)
Should I keep my eyes on my boyfriend's ex? I trust him, but not her!
Q. Ok this might get a little long but bare with me please its important... So I have been in this great relationship with this great guy for 14months now. He is a 25 years old college graduate and I am a 20 years old Senior in college. We fell...
A. 17 August 2011: I know he loves me but i do agree with you anonymous reader when you say he probably still has feelings for her, i've known that for as long as he told me about her. it scares me but i don;'t want to become all paranoid and crazy and end up running ... (read in full...)
Should I keep my eyes on my boyfriend's ex? I trust him, but not her!
Q. Ok this might get a little long but bare with me please its important... So I have been in this great relationship with this great guy for 14months now. He is a 25 years old college graduate and I am a 20 years old Senior in college. We fell...
A. 16 August 2011: ok so an update on the situation. i found out that he called her like 3 times in 2 consecutive days. I feel awful about checking his phone (he checks my phone and goes through my stuff as if it was his own so i shouldn't feel so guilty that i did ... (read in full...)
My BF hates the fact that people try to make a fuss about his birthday and intends disappearing on that day and turning his phone off!
Q. So i recently learned my bf hates the fact that people try to make a fuss about his bday. I had planned to spend the entire day with him and his family and he shocked me by saying he was gonna disappear on everyone that day because he wants that day ...
A. 14 August 2011: Thanks guys for your responses. I have did ask him why he feels that way and he didn't have a concrete answer, he just said he feels uncomfortable in big crowds (i am like that too but i wouldn't object if that crowd was just my family and maybe one ... (read in full...)
How can I give a blowjob and fit him in?
Q. I am going to give a blowjob for the very first time but I am scared? There is a few things I am worried about; 1. If the average man is 5 or 6 inches how am I supposed to fit that all in my mouth? 2. What If I am not good enough? 3. I want...
A. 11 August 2011: honey you don't have to fit all of him in to make it pleasurable for him, I can tell you this from experience. My bf was my first in everything and I was terrified of going down on him at first but he was just happy with the fast that I was willing ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's friend likes me!
Q. Hi ya! My boyfriend, S, introduced me to some friends of his and one of his guy friends likes me. Not as a friend but as a "I want to date her or something like that." Can anyone help me to what I can do?...
A. 9 August 2011: Just ignore him and say you are with someone else. If you don't want anything to do with him and like your bf a lot that is... Just don't hurt your bf.... (read in full...)
When to celebrate!?
Q. My boyfriend and I are trying to figure out when to celebrate our one year! We met year on october 12th and have basically been together ever since. Although he did not officially ask me to be his girlfriend until valentines day (feb 14th), we were ...
A. 3 August 2011: Well my bf and I started talking and going out on friendly dates in like early June and but he asked me to be his gf the day of his bday on August 14th and we made it all public with family and friends in late September, but we both agreed to have ... (read in full...)
After sex my body is aching so much!
Q. Hi uncles and antys... My b/f and i had unprotected sex last week and now my vigina is eaching so bad... Wat do u think could be? Any advice will be taken into consideration. Much thanx in advance...
A. 3 August 2011: Unprotected sex, itchy vagina = KEY WORDS HERE!! I would go see a doctor immediately hun, it could really be an STD and you don't really want that in your life. Next time make sure you know for sure the person you are with is completely clean, and ... (read in full...)
Scared my Boyfriend's Ex will take him away from me
Q. Ive been going out with my boyfriend for a few months now and I know we both love each other but i have started worrying about our relationship because I found out that he is till good friends with his Ex girlfriend and that he even works at the ...
A. 3 August 2011: "he tells me he loves me every day and I can trust him but I dont know if I can trust her." OMG you and I are in the same situation here, and that quotes explains it all!!! Yes you can trust him, specially if he hasn't done anything to lead you to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a 19 year old pregnant girl on his hands. What next for our relationship?
Q. So, things are bad and I find myself wishing I hadn't started this mess. I am crazy in love. I have been with this man for 9 months now and I spend almost everyday with him. Needless to say, I'm attached. He is also in love with me. Problem is m...
A. 3 August 2011: I completely agree with angelDlite on this one. I would also like to know more about the circumstances on how he got that girl pregnant. You said you guys have been together for 9 months, which leads me to think he got her pregnant while being with ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend told me to never wear my sister's dress again because it made him feel he was kissing her!
Q. So today when i went to see my bf i was wearing this dress, it belongs to my younger sister and she wore it to a dinner we all attended a while ago. So when my bf saw me he asks me about the dress and said it looks like something my sister would ...
A. 31 May 2011: Thank you ladies! I am not the kind of girl who lets her bf determinate every little detail in my life, it just bothered me that he couldn't see me for me when i had that dress on. We acted distant which was ridiculous to me because as you guys ... (read in full...)
I want to see my b/f more but he won't make the effort
Q. How often should a couple spend time together. Ive being with my bf for nearly 8 month and we see each other 2 nights a week. One day in the week and a saturday. We live in the same area. he could walk to mine in 3or4 mins. I want to see him more ...
A. 23 May 2011: My situation with my bf is kind of the same as yours the only difference is that my bf is married to his job and that is the sole reason why we don't see each other as much as we would want to. I sometimes have thought that I am the one who puts all ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's grandmother wants him to date/marry a lighter woman and I feel hurt by this when I cared so much for her health. Now, I don't know what to think...Please help me
Q. So i have been in this great relationship with this guy for almost a year. We get along great. My family likes him and I think his family loves me. he is a great guy and we both love each other very dearly. I can actually imagine a future alongside ...
A. 23 May 2011: Thank you for your advise guys! Most of you are right, I'm dating him not her so I just forgot about the thing. I did bothered me for a few days and still others me to think about it but he has reassured me in a million ways that he loves me no ... (read in full...)
If we're both fifteen...what happens if we want to have a baby?
Q. What iF You're 15 And You And Your Boyfriend Want To Have A Baby?!?...
A. 26 April 2011: Oh Jesus no No NO!!! get that idea out of your head, you are a child yourself!! why would you bring some innocent life into the world to suffer hardship because not you or your bf are ready for such a responsibility. Heck I'm 20 and my bf is 25 and ... (read in full...)
What should I make of this conversation between my boyfriend and his ex?
Q. What should I make of this conversation between my bf and his ex who I feel he still has feelings for. BOYFRIEND - god i fucken add u for 2 minutes and she went off at me fucken sick of it and i am pissed of at u for not showing up u doit to muc...
A. 10 April 2011: I still feel like he was really disrespectful, and whats that about not seeing the girl 'all the time'? He should not see her period, especially if its to talk so badly about you. I'm sorry honey but I think you are in for more suffering if you stay ... (read in full...)
Is it worth a second chance?
Q. Hi. I recently discovered that my boyfriend had a few meetings with his ex a few months ago. On finding out, i broke up with him as soon as i got the chance. I told him how i found out and he eventually admitted to it all. I was more angry than any...
A. 10 April 2011: Give him another chance, if it works then good for both of you if it doesn't then at least you know you tried. It is better this way than later thinking about the 'what ifs' if you decide not to give him another chance.... (read in full...)
Does my girlfriend have genitals herpes?
Q. She told me that she got 3 "cold sores" on her bottom, she said that she got it because of chemical of pool that cause her cold sores appears on her bottom. Its one of STDs group? Its called cold sores or genitals herpes? We're planned to have ...
A. 10 April 2011: Make her take a test and you take one yourself too. A lot of couples do that, my boyfriend made sure he was 100% clean before we had sex for the first time (I was a virgin) but I know he would have wanted me to be tested if that was not the case. ... (read in full...)
He has said I need to get my act together or we have no future!
Q. my boyfriend and i have together for 5 years and we've felt great about eachother. recently he has told me he's buying a house, we don't live together. he has said i need to get my act together or we have no future. i felt insecure and looked at his ...
A. 10 April 2011: why did he say you have to get your act together though? You said you guys feel great about each other so what is the reason he said this to you? And about the woman we women feel really insecure when we see the men we love interact with ot... (read in full...)
How do I make my boyfriend practice better hygiene?
Q. My boyfriend is a real guys guy, and plays a lot of sport. I don't think he showers properly all the time. He barely washes his hair and it smells!!! and he doesn't cleanse his face and you can see the build up of dirt sometimes where it just lo...
A. 10 April 2011: Well honey, I agree this is a tough one because I have a bf that I love dearly and I know they can get a little unmanageable when it comes to stuff like that. I usually make little comes such as 'I love it when you are fresh out of the shower, its ... (read in full...)
What should I make of this conversation between my boyfriend and his ex?
Q. What should I make of this conversation between my bf and his ex who I feel he still has feelings for. BOYFRIEND - god i fucken add u for 2 minutes and she went off at me fucken sick of it and i am pissed of at u for not showing up u doit to muc...
A. 10 April 2011: Oh honey just leave him, I'm sorry that is a bit harsh but this convo clearly shows he doesn't care much about you, no matter what he tells you. I would just break up with him and make sure he knows you're pregnant so he can have half of the ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid of freaking him out if I say those 3 words!
Q. Ok so this is the thing, I have been in a serious relationship with this guy for 5 months already and we both have agreed that not only do we enjoy each others company but that our relationship is in good grounds so far. He is great and makes me ...
A. 10 April 2011: I said I love you and He said it back without a moment of doubt! thanks for your thoughts on the matter guys!... (read in full...)
I'm afraid of freaking him out if I say those 3 words!
Q. Ok so this is the thing, I have been in a serious relationship with this guy for 5 months already and we both have agreed that not only do we enjoy each others company but that our relationship is in good grounds so far. He is great and makes me ...
A. 9 December 2010: Cerberus_Raphael thank you very much, and you are right when you told me to really think how he would react, I do not think we would run run away from me but he might step back for a bit to grasp it. I know he probably is not ready to say it just ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid of freaking him out if I say those 3 words!
Q. Ok so this is the thing, I have been in a serious relationship with this guy for 5 months already and we both have agreed that not only do we enjoy each others company but that our relationship is in good grounds so far. He is great and makes me ...
A. 9 December 2010: Thank you so much for this 11muds11, its good to hear a guy's perspective on this matter. I also believe that most of the times is better to let the guy say it first for the same reasons you have mentioned. I want to try my best to let him say it ... (read in full...)
I'm still a virgin and waiting for the 'right guy'. But does he even exist?
Q. Hey guys how are you doing? I do not really have a serious problem but it is sometimes socially inconvenient. I am an 18year old girl, I am kind of attractive (guys have told me so in various ways), I am a sophomore in college and I am still a ...
A. 8 December 2010: I found the guy! we have been together in a serious relationship for 5 months now, and he is great. Thank you guys for the advise.... (read in full...)
Why hasn't he kissed me yet?
Q. Ok so this is the thing, I have known this guy for a long time now, I would say 4 years maybe. We never knew I existed until now but I have always had a crush on him, but I guess that was because I was too young at the time, I am going to turn 19 ...
A. 8 December 2010: Thank you guys for your advise it was really helpful, I know I might be late but yeah he wanted to take it slow and now we have been together for 5 months, in a serious relationship.... (read in full...)
Why hasn't he kissed me yet?
Q. Ok so this is the thing, I have known this guy for a long time now, I would say 4 years maybe. We never knew I existed until now but I have always had a crush on him, but I guess that was because I was too young at the time, I am going to turn 19 ...
A. 8 July 2010: Oh he is definitely interested. I had to kiss HIM! this is not my first relationship and I think that's why it was a little hard for me to understand that he was just testing the waters; the other guys I've dated have gone straight to the point but ... (read in full...)
Why hasn't he kissed me yet?
Q. Ok so this is the thing, I have known this guy for a long time now, I would say 4 years maybe. We never knew I existed until now but I have always had a crush on him, but I guess that was because I was too young at the time, I am going to turn 19 ...
A. 29 June 2010: bitterblue, Thank you for taking the time to answer this question, I am gonna wait and see what happens. And believe me I have already fallen to his charms, he is just too sweet and lovely!
Ps. Onion rings, I know its a little funny, but he told ... (read in full...)
Shaven or not?
Q. A simple question to ask, for both males and females if you please: Shaven pubic region or unshaven pubic region? I myself find shaven definitely more preferable, and don't say you like both, because you are bound to like one at least sligh...
A. 6 March 2010: Shaven... (read in full...)
I'm still a virgin and waiting for the 'right guy'. But does he even exist?
Q. Hey guys how are you doing? I do not really have a serious problem but it is sometimes socially inconvenient. I am an 18year old girl, I am kind of attractive (guys have told me so in various ways), I am a sophomore in college and I am still a ...
A. 5 March 2010: Thank you guys for your advise I really appreciate it! I am going to wait because that is what I've always felt is the right thing to do but it is still a little hard. Although some of you do believe that not all guys are the same, I am kind of ... (read in full...)
Should I just not tell her...?
Q. Hey, I met this girl and we hit it off and became very close, anyway she confided in me that she had been sexually abused when she was young by her father, things were going reall good but then we broke, some of the relationship problems stem form ...
A. 5 March 2010: I love honesty in a relationship but in this case I do believe that you telling her would make more harm than good. She trusted you with something so important and hurtful and if she finds out you told someone else, even if it was your mom, she WILL ... (read in full...)
I want out, but guilt kills me!
Q. I seriously need help... Ive been with my girlfriend for just over a year now and she is great.. Shes always there for me, she doesnt treat me bad, and we never have sexual problems or even huge arguments.. And yet I don't want her.. I didnt wa...
A. 5 March 2010: I think you should end things with her. You might feel guilty at first but it is way better than cheating on her and hurting her even more. If u do not want a commitment be honest, tell her that she is great but that you do not want to be with ... (read in full...)
My father says he will disown me if I date a black man!
Q. My dad said he'll disown me if I ever bring a black guy home(I'm white and don't live with my mom). I'm attracted to guys of all races, and I find myself being attracted to black guys, more than white guys. Until I knew where my dad stands on the ...
A. 5 March 2010: I do not think you should limit yourself when it comes to love. Besides, you are the one that is going to have a relationship/live together/marry the person you chose to give your heart to no matter what race/ethnicity he belongs to, NOT YOUR DAD. ... (read in full...)
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