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*irgin18
writes:So today when i went to see my bf i was wearing this dress, it belongs to my younger sister and she wore it to a dinner we all attended a while ago. So when my bf saw me he asks me about the dress and said it looks like something my sister would wear. So i told him it was indeed hers and that he saw it on her on the occasion i just mentioned. After a while, when he is getting ready to drop me off home he tells me not to ever wear that dress again and to me it seemed odd he would say that so when i asked why, he told me because it was weird. I don't get why it was weird though, that when i kissed him it felt like he was kissing my sister or something? idk that's the only reason i could come up as to why it bothered him seeing me wearing that dress... Any one has any suggestion as to why he would say that?
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reader, virgin18 +, writes (31 May 2011):
virgin18 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you ladies! I am not the kind of girl who lets her bf determinate every little detail in my life, it just bothered me that he couldn't see me for me when i had that dress on. We acted distant which was ridiculous to me because as you guys mentioned it is only a dress. later when he dropped me off home and i texted him to ask because I still didn't understand what had happened and why it bothered him that I had my sister's dress on he said that it felt a little weird because my sister and i look really alike (people asks us if we are twins all the time, although we aren't) and every time he looked away and back, he though he was looking at Shirley. He said it was weird because he only has eyes for me and it was difficult to admire me the way he usually does when this time I looked even more like my little sister, because the dress I was wearing is more her style than mine and he was right, I only wore it because I thought it was cute and funky but my style is more classy dressy. But the good thing is that I understood why he felt weird.
Ps. The question was made by the people who run the page, my bf never told me kissing me was like kissing my sister, I was the one who thought that because I was overgeneralizing his feelings.
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (28 May 2011):
 No boyfreind (or husband) should be telling the woman of his life what to wear or NOT wear.
PERIOD.
Wear what ever you want honey! If he comments, let him know
"They are just CLOTHES. You are dating the person UNDERNEATH."
Best Wishes.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (24 May 2011):
 He doesn't like the dress and thinks he can dictate what you are to wear?
Set him straight. He doesn't have a say in what you wear, and if you like the dress you will wear the dress. If it gives him perverted ideas that only reflects on his own perverted mind.
Seriously, siblings, and even parents and their children, share clothes if they are the same size. I borrow clothes from my mother, she's borrowed from me. My best friend and her mother practically share their entire wardrobe, even shoes, coats, everything but underwear. She doesn't look like her mother because of that!!! And her step-father certainly doesn't tell the mother it feels like he's kissing the step-daughter just because they often wear the same clothes.
He needs to get over himself.
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