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*irgin18
writes:Ok so this is the thing, I have known this guy for a long time now, I would say 4 years maybe. We never knew I existed until now but I have always had a crush on him, but I guess that was because I was too young at the time, I am going to turn 19 soon and he is 23. He is really nice and acts like an adorable kid and he is always smiling. So he has recently been paying a lot of attention to me for the past 2 weeks I would say. He texts me all the time, he asks me what I am doing who I'm doing it with and if I'm having fun. he is always on top of me and there isn't a day we haven't talked for the past 3 weeks. We have gone out together 4 times already in the past week and even thought he has hinted some stuff on the phone this was the first time he actually did something to make me believe 100% he really likes me more than a friend. We were having a long walk and he suddenly holds my hand, we stayed that way for hours talking and holding hands until we decided to play a poking game, that turned the hit up a little. When we finally got to his car so that he could take me home he was still a little playful, but then when we got home he was just there, I kissed him in the cheek like I always do when i see him but that was it. I want to know if he is just taking things slow or what is going on through his head. I wont kiss him first because I feel like he would run away from me but I do want him to kiss me, any ideas of what's happening here? I would really appreciate a little help!Useful Info:He has said I am beautiful, he is the one who calls me when he wants to hang out, he seems to really enjoy being with me, he tells me when he arrived to work and when he gets out of work, he seems to want to know what I like and what I don't like, whenever I end the conversation because I need sleep he seems sad about it, Oh he also told me he had a couple of drinks with his friends and ate onion rings before he picked me up so could that have some kind of factor in him not kissing me after holding my hand and hugging me? I do not know what to think really.
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reader, virgin18 +, writes (8 December 2010):
virgin18 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you guys for your advise it was really helpful, I know I might be late but yeah he wanted to take it slow and now we have been together for 5 months, in a serious relationship.
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reader, virgin18 +, writes (8 July 2010):
virgin18 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOh he is definitely interested. I had to kiss HIM! this is not my first relationship and I think that's why it was a little hard for me to understand that he was just testing the waters; the other guys I've dated have gone straight to the point but I'm glad to tell you that things are going pretty well right now. He is very romantic and I just found out that he was actually worried about me being 5 years younger than him but I'm making sure he doesn't think like that anymore, I've been told I'm very mature for my age so I guess that helps a little too. But thank for taking the time to answer this question! wish me luck! ;)
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reader, bitterblue  +, writes (29 June 2010):
 We know he is interested because he spends quite some time with you. Confidence he doesn't lack for sure, charming people usually know their charm and how to use it, I hope he has best intentions, while you can only do as you say, "wait and see", although if it's your first relationship it will probably be hard to not go in too deep and head first. Good luck sweety!
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reader, virgin18 +, writes (29 June 2010):
virgin18 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbitterblue, Thank you for taking the time to answer this question, I am gonna wait and see what happens. And believe me I have already fallen to his charms, he is just too sweet and lovely!
Ps. Onion rings, I know its a little funny, but he told me this when we were talking casually about what he did before picking me up. He is really funny, we are going out together again on Thursday night so lets see what happens!
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reader, bitterblue +, writes (29 June 2010):
Yes, a possibility is that he wants to take it slow and easy. Maybe he wants to build you up properly so that you are sure to fall to his charms! Ate onion rings, ha!
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