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writes:I am going to give a blowjob for the very first time but I am scared?There is a few things I am worried about;1. If the average man is 5 or 6 inches how am I supposed to fit that all in my mouth? 2. What If I am not good enough?3. I want to be his best, but I am frightened I wont be because I have never done this.The guy I am seeing, me and him always talk and flirt, we have chatted about being intimate and going down on each other for the first times. I have never even touched a penis let alone given a blowjob, and he says he is not so much long as wide, which I am worried about, I haven't got a big mouth or something lol! I don't think I could even fit a normal penis of 5, 6 inches all the way in...how am I supposed to please him if I can't fit him all in my mouth? Not meaning to sound rude! Just need to know what I should do, how I can do this to make it amazing for him because he has had a lot of girls before and I haven't had a boyfriend before and this is the first big thing for me, the intimacy, and I am scared I wont be good enough, and that he wont want me if I don't do this right :( I need help, I am really worried about the not being able to have him fit, and I don't know what to do??????
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (11 August 2011):
 Dont put pressure on urself doll. Ease into it. Focus on giving him small sensations vs an all in approach. Suck his head and stroke and lick his balla. Total mind blower for guys lol.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2011): It will be fine. I was terrified when I gave my first blowjob. Just let him know that this is your first time and take it slow. Not every woman can take a whole penis in their mouth so what ever is left over work it with your hand. If you start to panic just push him away and regain your confidence before you go agian. Blowjobs aren't just sucking its also kissing and licking. Oh, and Remember above all else D.O.N.T. bite!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2011): You certainly don't need to fit it "all" into your mouth. The sensitive nerves are all bundled into the first inch or, at most, two. Taking anything more than that is for show, like deep-throating in porn -- verging on the fetish and hardly obligatory. Don't take any more in than you're comfortable with, and keep one hand along the shaft to control how much goes in in case he gets out of control and thrusts.
The fact that you're willing to try it at all makes you "good enough" -- it's a wonderful, incredible gift you're giving, and any decent guy will be very, very grateful.
Keep your teeth out of the way. You may learn in time that toward the end he likes pain, but that's for much later. At first your lips and your tongue will be all that are necessary.
Decide beforehand whether you're prepared to let him finish in your mouth. A gentleman will warn you. Ignoring the warning is an immensely special gift.
Bless you for wanting to give him such a great experience!
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reader, virgin18  +, writes (11 August 2011):
 honey you don't have to fit all of him in to make it pleasurable for him, I can tell you this from experience. My bf was my first in everything and I was terrified of going down on him at first but he was just happy with the fast that I was willing to do it without it bothering me. Just start of slow and ask him how you're doing at first, what he likes, listen to his reactions when you're doing that and that will give you through it. Good Luck!! :)
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reader, Kyle007 +, writes (11 August 2011):
PS: If you ever watch porn, where some guy has like a 12 inch penis, you will see that the woman stick it in to her mouth as far as she can and then uses her hand to massage the rest of it. Just a thought.
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reader, Kyle007 +, writes (11 August 2011):
Just let him show you what he wants. Even if you only put it partway in, there is some pleasure for him in that. Don't worry about being his "most amazing blowjob". Be his most amazing girlfriend. (I hope that is where this is leading, otherwise he is just using you)
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