He says I don't turn him on sexually. Porn is his preference. Do I stay for the sake of our children or leave?
Q. Hey everyone. Am depressed need your advice. I am mother of twins they are only 3 years. My husband of 4 years has told me we should split up in several occassions. I have found him on dating sites twice and everytime he diactivate the a...
A. 15 May 2013: I grew up with parents that didn't love each other. Trust me - don't do that to your children.... (read in full...)
I am concerned my boyfriend has never been sexually attracted to me
Q. My boyfriend have been together for over a year. He was very shy in the beginning, and I was quite confident, so I was the one who initiated dating, but he was very interested and told me how much he liked me. We lost our virginity togeth...
A. 28 March 2013: Find yourself a real man that likes real women. ... (read in full...)
Porn Addicts - how to spot one in 13 ways
Q. Here are a few ways you can spot a porn addict. I've had it happen to myself. 1. They pick on your appearance, they try to change your appearance. "Can you not wear your hair like that tomorrow?" "Why don't you wear fake tan?" 2. They think r...
A. 25 February 2013: They sound utterly dreadful!... (read in full...)
Why don't men realise they are being disrespectful when they use porn in a relationship?
Q. Why don't men realise they are being disrespectful when they use porn in a relationship? My ex just says I think it matters more how I treat you when we're together, I don't understand what he means because the way I see he's still in a relationship ...
A. 17 February 2013: I absolutely agree with you, it is totally disrespectful and most men, when caught out, know know well that their actions are disrespectful. People analyse this subject to bits, usually because the topic has cropped up in their own relation... (read in full...)
Porn discretion for men, how to prevent porn ever becoming an issue in your relationship.
Q. (Disclaimer: This article is not about lying to your partner. If you using porn in a relationship is a deal-breaker for her and has become a problem then this is not an article for you to break the conditions of your relationship by using these tips ...
A. 15 December 2012: The biggest problem for me with porn is that I no longer feel that giving my body to someone is something special. Western society is so over sexualised. Even music videos border on the pornographic. I remember reading a story about a western woman ... (read in full...)
What goes through a man's mind when he watches porn?
Q. Can some actually explain to us women what happens when watching porn? Does it make the man feel like he is having sex with the woman on the screen? Apparently I am told they are not watching it to pretend they are the man in the video. I am ...
A. 15 December 2012: I have to agree with person12345 on this one. If I had found out about my partners porn use earlier I probably wouldn't be with him now.... (read in full...)
Why is my husband into this kind of disgusting porn?
Q. My husband and I have been married for 15 years. I have always been aware that he watched porn (before marriage). The first time I found a video I threw it away, and I didn't say anything to him about it and neither did he. Needless to say he got ...
A. 12 December 2012: I totally agree with the last poster. Video's of rape, whether real or not, are absolutely disgusting, and to get off on it is just sick.... (read in full...)
My Ex took my daughter to meet his new "friend" and they stayed the night at hers!
Q. Hello. I desperately need to get this off my chest and see what other people thought. my ex has our 4 yr old daughter every other weekend, and yesterday was one of them. Today i found out he took her to London to meet his new "friend" and they stay...
A. 3 December 2012: I actually agree with the OP. I would be very worried if my daughter was in a house overnight with someone that I knew nothing about. On top of that I would be worried that my daughter felt uncomfortable or even scared in a strange house with ... (read in full...)
I have a fear of existing. What can I do?
Q. I know this isn't exactly to do with relationships, or perhaps it is but it's more about my relationship with life and the world. I could really do with some help. My problem started about 2 years ago, at least to the extent that I am suffering t...
A. 29 November 2012: Thank you so much for the link Karlos, it has proven very helpful. I even found a topic where all the anxiety sufferers had a good laugh at one another's fears and phobias, which made it all feel less threatening xx... (read in full...)
Help me to be reasonable and rational about this matter please? My Bf wants me to use Birth Control Pills but I think it's risky.
Q. I have been seeing this guy almost for a year. We are thinking about starting to have a future together soon. We are no longer use condoms every time after we became exclusive and came clean to each other about STD history and all. We sometime...
A. 25 November 2012: I won't take the contraceptive pill for three reasons: 1) I don't want my moods and hormones messed with 2) I don't like the fact it increases your chance of breast cancer, no matter how small 3) I have heard from many women they they suffer... (read in full...)
Should my girlfriend and I just laugh off the weird noises during sex?
Q. Since our 1st time a couple of months ago me and my girlfriend are now enjoying regular intercourse.We've started moving our bodies more to increase the pleasure.What's started to happen though is my girlfriend has begun to release a pooping sound ...
A. 25 November 2012: It's normal, just ignore it. ... (read in full...)
Is this an orgasm or not?
Q. I get to the part where I feel like I have to pee but can't go past that is it still an orgasm or no cause I don't get past that part?...
A. 23 November 2012: If your feeling the need to pee then you're probably not relaxed enough and unlikely to orgasm if your not relaxed and enjoying yourself.... (read in full...)
My small boobs are spoiling my relationship !
Q. Hi everyone. I am in a very confused situation and I need help. Please take time to read and any help would be appreciated. My bf and I are in a relationship for the last 4 years. We both love each other madly and deeply. We want to get married. ...
A. 22 November 2012: I am truly shocked and disgusted by this piece of shit you call your boyfriend. How dare he say these things. Leave him and don't look back, your cannot seriously be thinking of staying in this relationship. I would never stay with a man who said my ... (read in full...)
I panic when husband and I have sex and we have to stop. I haven't been abused, why am I like this?
Q. I've been married for a few months now, and I love him to death. The only problem is, I'm terrified of having sex. Like, i enjoy it when we start, but after a few moments i just start to panic. I get shaky and start crying and we have to stop. Why ...
A. 22 November 2012: If the previous poster is right and you are suffering from an anxiety disorder, then focusing on overcoming symptoms won't solve the problem, anxiety will latch onto anything and everything it can to keep itself alive, you overcome one symptom and ... (read in full...)
My husband is terrible with money and blames me! I've tried talking to him but it doesn't work, what can I do next?
Q. My husband makes bad decisions when it comes to money. He will buy any thing from any body. We have a business in the city but he insisted on moving 1 1/2 hour away from work. We spent months driving to houses and land. Some of the were 2 hrs a...
A. 20 November 2012: All this screaming he does, he sounds like he's a five year old child! I felt mad reading this, he's a petulant bully. I really don't know what to suggest as it doesn't sound like he listens to anything you have to say anyway? Perhaps you could wait ... (read in full...)
Am I really the bad guy here??
Q. I have two relatives that got pregnant on purpose knowing they had no way to support these babies.. Then to top that off they got pregnant again. They both have two kids living off the Gov for their housing and every other benefit they can get ...
A. 18 November 2012: Where are the babies fathers?... (read in full...)
I flirt with my wife's slutty friends. Could this be a reason for her going cold on me?
Q. My wife has friends who are slutty and easy but when we go out I tend to flirt with them and carry on like i'm interested, but really I only like the thought and sometimes the occasional petting. I dont want my wife to freak if I'm ever caught in a...
A. 17 November 2012: A woman's libido goes down when her man shows interest in other women or watches porn. Your actions are disrespectful and referring to women as sluts is disgusting, and ironic seeing as you sound pretty easy yourself.... (read in full...)
I've only ever had sex with prostitutes. Should I continue or try having a relationship? And should I keep my past secret?
Q. Hello, I have been using prostitutes for about 4 years. I lost my virginity to a prostitute and ever since I only had sex with "working girls". The reason I do this is that it is so much simpler than picking-up women and far more straight...
A. 16 November 2012: I would keep it a secret. I wouldn't want to have sex with a bloke who's been with a load of prostitutes... (read in full...)
I don't understand the big deal about men watching porn.
Q. this is a genuine honest question that i can't seem to understand. I've seen many questions on here about girls who are unhappy that their boyfriends watch porn. Thing is, I don't ask my boyfriend if he does because I assume he does for his own ...
A. 15 November 2012: It's pretty simple, a man will tell you it's a basic instinct to want to impregnate every attractive female he sees, therefore he watches porn, gets turned on, and knocks one out. Brain rewards his 'seed spreading' with a hit of feel good chem... (read in full...)
She's not interested in "shrooming" with me...
Q. I really love her, we've been together for 9 months as of the other day. I ask that anyone who reads this, do so with an open mind and not cast judgement or speak against "drugs", assert that I have a problem or anything likewise. Things were really ...
A. 13 November 2012: Different people do not have the same reaction to drugs, what may be a fantastic experience for you could turn into one of sheer horror for her, and could even traumatise her, I know because it happened to me, and it happened to me whilst smoking ... (read in full...)
Help!!!! My confidence and self esteem are at an all time low...
Q. My self esteem and confidence was shattered by my ex boyfriend, he would always call me fat and make nasty comments about the way i looked and my weight. In the bedroom he would constantly tell me how crap i was at some things and how sometimes i ...
A. 12 November 2012: Hey, sorry to hear you are feeling so low. I do actually know how you are feeling but won't get into that here. Do you have any clue as to why your mum left? Because whatever the reason I am pretty sure it wasn't because of you. Was she having ... (read in full...)
My husband is mentally tormenting me. What should I do?
Q. I have been married for 10 years and we have 2 beautiful young children. Over the years my husband has had somewhat of a split personality. On the one hand, he is senstive, caring, loving and loyal. On the other hand, he seems like a completely ...
A. 11 November 2012: Your man sounds very manipulative. If he was truly sorry for his actions he would get help, it's as simple as that. If I were you I'd toughen up and tell him to shape up or ship out. ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about this?
Q. My boyfriends brother just passed away at age 49. My boyfriend has been spending a lot of time with the wife. sometimes as late as 1-2 in morning. Should I be worried?...
A. 9 November 2012: I am sorry to hear about your partners loss. I have to admit if I were you I would be worried. Two people who have lost someone very close to them are sharing this time together where they are both mourning and probably need the comfort of someone ... (read in full...)
My husband can't stay hard unless I'm talking dirty to him.
Q. My husband can't stay hard unless I'm talking dirty to him. I'm tired of it. Sometimes if i stop talking he goes soft and just stop its over. He wants me to make it dirtier and i can't. Can you suggest something to help us?...
A. 9 November 2012: I have to admit I also suspected he may be watching too much porn. ... (read in full...)
My husband can't stay hard unless I'm talking dirty to him.
Q. My husband can't stay hard unless I'm talking dirty to him. I'm tired of it. Sometimes if i stop talking he goes soft and just stop its over. He wants me to make it dirtier and i can't. Can you suggest something to help us?...
A. 8 November 2012: Yes as the previous poster said, this is his problem and he needs to go to the doctors and address his ED. You shouldn't be doing anything during sex that makes you uncomfortable and I wouldn't be comfortable with that either. In fact it sounds like ... (read in full...)
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