Why did my wife get upset when I saw a topless sunbather on a beach?
Q. This may be a funny question to ask but my wife got so mad on a trip we took to Mexico when we saw a woman laying out topless. Why is that? I am not the guy who makes comments about other women or takes long stares at them; I have always been very ...
A. 23 February 2011: Did you ask her directly why she was mad about it? Only she knows the real reason. It could be that she was feeling hurt or insecure or angry for any number of reasons. Maybe she thought your eyes lingered a little too long? Maybe she did not ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to sleep in my bed?
Q. This is the problem. My boyfriend and I already decided to get married. He just informed me he would like to sleep in my bed but it isn't a must cause he has slept alone for so long. Should I be concerned?...
A. 23 February 2011: Did you ask him why he would offer to sleep alone and tell him it bothers you?... (read in full...)
How should I read all of this complimenting?
Q. OK so I am 16 years old (and please excuse the english of mine, it's not best) i can't say i'm strikingly beautiful, but i'm not too ugly either so, my best friend is an amazing guy. he is smart, kind, sweet, athletical, and he's really hot! (app...
A. 23 February 2011: Only one way to know...ask him!... (read in full...)
He sort of cheats with dirty talk with girls fhrough emails, what should I do??
Q. Hi All, I've been with my boyfriend for about 9months now. In this time i have caught him chatting up girls via email (randoms and old friends). We got through this and all was fine and i thought he had changed but recently he left his email ac...
A. 23 February 2011: He may be doing more than emailing them. Are you okay with him being sneaky or sexual with anyone other than you? Of course you are not. Ask him to stop all of that crap and when he does not, leave him. P.S. He may lie and tell you he will ... (read in full...)
I am 15, 5'4", and weigh around 114 lbs., would this be normal?
Q. Is it normal to be 15, 5' 4" and weigh 113-114.5 lbs? I was reading some articles, and most girls my age and height, weighed 120-130lbs. Am I underweight? I don't even look that skinny! I have a small stomach and med-thick thighs. My aunt even tol...
A. 23 February 2011: You should see a doctor if YOU are concerned or not feeling well or think you have any issues or worries at all. Also, when was your last physical? See a doctor every year at least and talk to your parents or trusted adults about your concerns.... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a man gives you a drawer?
Q. I have a man I'm seeing long distance. We started this relationship in early November We are two hours apart... we email and talk on the phone a few times a week... I go to visit him since he cannot be around my dogs. I have been up to see h...
A. 23 February 2011: He does not want you to move in with him or he would say it directly. Men are simple and easy to understand. A drawer is a drawer and no hidden meaning!... (read in full...)
Do I just tell him I want to wait for my birthday to have sex??
Q. Hey guys, me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year now. I am 15 almost 16 and he is already 16, he suggested us having sex, I was quite weary as to do it or not, this is because i weigh quite a lot and have very large breasts that ...
A. 23 February 2011: Wait until your 18th birthday please! Also, before considering even having sex, please get on birth control, talk to your parents or trusted adult and visit a family clinic. You must insist he wear condoms everytime or you will end up pregnant ... (read in full...)
If he makes a move on me, how do I stay faithful to my boyfriend?
Q. a year ago, me and this boy i liked kissed, but we didnt go out, and stopped talking after a while. now i have a really lovely boyfriend, but this boy has come back into my life again. he's got a reputation as a bit of a tool, and he's really ...
A. 23 February 2011: Don't get drunk with him or flirt with him or hang out with him or talk to him or be within 10 feet of him. Obviously you want him to make a move on you and you are enjoying thinking of it and don't want to take my advice. So, do what you want to ... (read in full...)
I have feelings for my ex's best friend
Q. I was dating a girl and lets say her name is....Brittney. anyways we never talked. well after having a falling out we decided to end things but me and her best friend keep staring at each other in class and we do talk ,but I dont want to mess up ...
A. 23 February 2011: Be honest about your feelings...you can't live to please everyone.... (read in full...)
I fell for my girlfriend's best friend!
Q. Hello readers, I am glad to be able to find support here.. Because I have asked numerous questions about numerous issues and have gotten strong and wonderful response which has led to me being able to grow so much stronger in my relationship. ...
A. 23 February 2011: Break up with your girlfriend FIRST before telling the best friend you want her. Do not cheat on your girlfriend. If you do it will end badly for all of you. By the way, don't expect the girlfriend to give you and her ex-best friend her blessing ... (read in full...)
What do I say to her to get her interested in going out with me?
Q. on satuday night one of my female friends had a birthday party and before i only knew 2 people who were going because they were my friends. i had a great night and met some really nice people girls and guys. but there was one girl who i t...
A. 23 February 2011: You just ask her out. She is either interested or not. It takes about five seconds for a girl to know whether or not she is attracted to you. Be yourself and ask already.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to sleep in my bed?
Q. This is the problem. My boyfriend and I already decided to get married. He just informed me he would like to sleep in my bed but it isn't a must cause he has slept alone for so long. Should I be concerned?...
A. 23 February 2011: If you are both adults and getting married then what is the problem? If you want to wait though, then he will have to wait. Don't ever give in if you don't want to.... (read in full...)
Sex has never happened for me and I'm worried I will end up an old maid!
Q. Looking for some advice; I'm a 23 year old female, and I've never had sex. It's not a question or beliefs, or prudishness- it's just not something that ever happened. In highschool and university I hung out mainly with other girls, and I never ...
A. 23 February 2011: You are still very very young. Besides most sex in your twenties is totally lame. And all sex you are not really ready for or with the wrong people is a nightmare. So basically you are the only one that can know for sure when and where and with ... (read in full...)
Is there a problem here or am I over-reacting in the situation??
Q. I feel confused and very very jealous and the sad part is I never consider me the jealous type. This feeling of insecurity happened a few months ago when a couple of picutres were tagged on my facebook by a friend that they thought were a little ...
A. 23 February 2011: Sounds a little fishy to me also, keep investigating and listen to your inner voice.... (read in full...)
Should I give up the love of my life for his happiness?
Q. So I'll start off with a quick background story, my boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and a half, I love him more than anything, he got me through a really rough patch in my life (the death of a friend and illness in my family), ...
A. 23 February 2011: Never ever give up the love of your life for anyone or anything...for darn sake it's your life.... (read in full...)
Is there such a thing as a bad kisser?
Q. is there such thing as bad kissers? i have never kissed anyone and im really scared and nervous. i have been seeing this and he always trie to kiss me but i refuse. im scared im a bad kisser, i dont want to tell him i've never kissed anyone. any ...
A. 23 February 2011: Yes there are horrible kissers. You are not one of them. See the other person not as a judge of your kissing, but a lucky recipient of your kissing and practice the heck on them. ... (read in full...)
Why can't my bf give me an orgasm?
Q. Hey aunts and uncles, I've been with my bf for almost a year now. He has not been able to make me have an orgasm. He expressed it to me that he feels so sad that he can't do that. I've made him cum quite often, but sometimes he used his hand to...
A. 23 February 2011: Your shyness is part of the problem. Sex is not about being inhibited. If either one of you are not confident and open, than it's going to make it difficult to achieve orgasm. If you can't be totally at ease with sex, it is one of two things: ... (read in full...)
How the hell are people able to break up and not get devastated??
Q. OK so it has been a week since this girl I was in a relationship and I stopped speaking. I initiated it because she was lying and hurting me and we talked about it for weeks before and I know it was the best thing. BUT...it is killing me!!! It...
A. 23 February 2011: Some people are shallow or never cared as much. It's the reality of how people are different. Accept reality. It's okay that people are different. You get to be you and that is really all that matters.... (read in full...)
We both admitted the spark is gone what do we do now?
Q. Iv been with my boyfriend for a about a year now, but the last few monts have been very tough as weve had a few break ups, then got back together! He has a 3 year old child whom he see twice a week as his ex is a bit of a handful. Just before new ...
A. 23 February 2011: Sparks always die out. They give way to either cold nothingness or a large roaring deep fire of depth. Are you good friends and have love and respect for each other? Is it just superficial? Don't try to make sparks happen, just do what you want ... (read in full...)
Guys help me out, why does my boyfriend still check out women?
Q. My boyfriend is a huge flirt and he works in bars as a sound guy for bands, so he's around lots of women. He also admits he would rather talk to women, it's more fun... Not sure he would actually cheat on me, but not crazy about this or comfortable ...
A. 23 February 2011: He does it because he wants to and enjoys it. Now, since we all know you cannot change another person, you need to figure out if his other good qualities are worth it. You can request that he tone it down in your presence and not be rude to you, ... (read in full...)
Any good moving on advice?
Q. So, my LDR boyfriend of 3 years left me around 3 weeks ago. We had a fight and he never came back. I thought everything was okay with us, I've went over chat logs to try and find out where things went wrong and he seemed really happy, even the ...
A. 23 February 2011: Spend some time with yourself...and don't look back for answers. Give yourself lots of love.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't want to meet my parents because of our age gap?
Q. Hi there. I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 months officially but it's difficult for me to see him all the time as I'm 6 years younger than him and he hasn't met my parents yet. Because of the age difference I lie to them as to where I'm ...
A. 23 February 2011: If you have to lie then you are ashamed. Why are you ashamed? Love should never be a lie or cause shame, so this is not love. What is it?... (read in full...)
My bf said one day I will realize I am too good for him. What does he mean by that?
Q. Hey everyone, I've got a few relationship questions, and I'd be grateful if you answer at least one of them! We've been together for 9 months. He is my first real boyfriend. We're pretty comfortable around each other and can talk about almost eve...
A. 23 February 2011: He is dumping you.... (read in full...)
Have not heard from my ex in 2 months and out of the blue I get a message!
Q. ok I have not hear from my ex in over two months and all of a sudden he sends me a message because him and the girl he is with are having problems and he tell me things we so much easier when he was with me that he misses me thinks of me at ...
A. 23 February 2011: Ignore him. He is using you like a kleenex to blow his nose and tell him how great he is. ... (read in full...)
In what time frame does a guy know if he wants a relationship or to keep it casual?
Q. Ok. I am wondering about my situation. I have been casually dating this guy for about a two months. We talk on the phone..not everyday, but 3 to 4 times a week. I mentioned about a month ago, my birthday was coming up and on my birthday he called ...
A. 23 February 2011: Never be the one to mention or push for being exclusive. The minute you get what you want after asking or hinting for it, you will wonder if he would have ever done it on his own or if you just talked him into it. The answer comes to you when you ... (read in full...)
Wife still dependent on my boyfriend!
Q. I have been dating my partner for 2 years, he is still married and has two children. One child accepts our relationship the other child doesn't. We have lived together for 18 months but he has recently moved into his own place. This is for his ...
A. 23 February 2011: He is getting the best of both worlds...avoiding guilt and really ending his marriage and getting you on the side. You have along with his wife, enabled his selfishness. One of you needs to grow a pair and I suggest it be you and get the heck out. ... (read in full...)
Can I stay with my bf who, at 45, is terrible at money management and always in a financial crisis?
Q. My bf always seems to have a financial crisis. I met my bf for over a year now. Few months after we were dating exclusive, I noticed that he was always anxious about money. Though, he doesn’t make lots of money but he works full time and make ar...
A. 23 February 2011: Stay with him but keep your finances separate.... (read in full...)
What should I do about my husband's friend's wife? I can't stand the woman!
Q. My husband's friend's wife is a pain the wrong place. She is a bitchy person and can never have a good word to say about anyone. She is super fake and is all nice and pally with everyone though. She bitches to me about everyone else, what is the ...
A. 23 February 2011: Be honest with your husband about the way you feel. You can choose to put up with her for his sake or not, but it's your choice. If you choose to stay clear of her then expect your husband to not do you any favors when it comes to putting up with ... (read in full...)
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