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writes:Sometimes me and my boyfriend have nothing to talk about on the phone and sometime in person. We have a baby together and we mostly talk about him, were young and I don't want him getting bored. Maybe we just got to comfortable to were we feel like we can just stay quite. Any advice on what makes good conversation? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2011): How about taking up a hobbie together or going to the movies once a week? take at least one day a week where you can both do something fun together and share eachothers interests, find out what you both like and aim to do something that involves that. This will give you plenty to talk about. Communication is Vital in a relationship and relationships are hard work, but if you both put in the time and effort then you will see how rewarding a relationship can be. :)
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reader, Tbonex +, writes (11 June 2011):
 Why not find new things out about each other? Likes, dislikes. Plans for the future. What do you want to be when you grow up? Maybe hot topics or interests.
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reader, MissTellAll +, writes (11 June 2011):
 Good conversation is made up of discussing shared interests, events from your day, opinions, debate... so many things can go into a good conversation.Do you and your boyfriend get adequate 'me' time? When you don't have time to explore your own interests you have nothing to bring to the table, even if exploring your own interests just means watching something interesting on TV and talking about it with him later. Anything to get opinions out really. This is just my opinion of course.I know having a baby doesn't leave much time for anything else but maybe you can make time?Maybe you need to reacquaint yourselves. Just talk about what you like and dislike, share with each other the things that irritated you that day, or what made you happy that day. Music, movies, TV, etc... anything.Hope this helps. Good luck.
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