My boyfriend through me into the snow during an argument! I'm not sure what to think!
Q. I was walking outside with my boyfriend of 6 months, when we got into a small disagreement. We were holding hands, when he suddenly flung me across his body and into the snow on the side of the road. I landed, unhurt, but shaken. He is much stronger ...
A. 9 February 2011: I just wanted to say that I tend to agree with the other Aunties that it would probably be in your best interest to leave the relationship as it does look as though you are in for further abuse.
I did play devil's advocate on this for one reas... (read in full...)
My boyfriend through me into the snow during an argument! I'm not sure what to think!
Q. I was walking outside with my boyfriend of 6 months, when we got into a small disagreement. We were holding hands, when he suddenly flung me across his body and into the snow on the side of the road. I landed, unhurt, but shaken. He is much stronger ...
A. 8 February 2011: OK I want to play devil's advocate on this one against the other Agony Aunts. I don't necessarily disagree with you but I also think we have to do two things. A) Look at the age range and B) I not sure Snowie is giving us the full picture re. how ... (read in full...)
I feel he's emotionally blackmailing me to stay with him and I don't know what to do... Please help!
Q. Ive posted a question here before about a possessive, controlling boyfriend. good news i said i needed time out - thats lasted a week. He found out his friend dies yesterday and i went to comfort him as i do still love him and care for him. Lo...
A. 7 February 2011: Run Away... Run Fast... Run Far... If he does or doesn't hurt himself that is not your fault. He is using this as a way of controlling and manipulating you.... (read in full...)
My mother is interfering too much in my life. I need advice badly!
Q. Hello Readers. I am feeling very anxious about my Mother's interference with decision making in regards to my daughter. This has been an ongoing saga for the last 5 years and has affected my relationship with my daughter in a detrimental manner a...
A. 7 February 2011: You are in a tough place but I believe you were able find a partial solution for your daughter. I'm guessing she isn't old enough to understand the family dynamics completly. You followed your heart and found her a safer place.
With regard t... (read in full...)
Am I being played by an older man?
Q. Im 19 and I have being seeing someone for the last 3 months. He is 26 and has a really good job and is always busy with work. We live really close to each other like a 5min walk. We met over a social network site, although we live close I didnt know ...
A. 7 February 2011: Yep... He's a player. ... (read in full...)
Recent events rehashed memories of when I was abused by a relative. My father would never hurt me, but now I distrust him!
Q. So this question is nothing about dating. It's just a feeling I'm experiencing and would just like to know if I'm over thinking or what. I'm twenty and knowing that, my parent's friend, who happens to be married and has a kid, came on to me. H...
A. 3 February 2011: It sounds like you have a good relation w your Dad. As a Dad myself I would want my daughter to speak with me. I suspect that yor Dads heart would be broken if he thought you didn't trust him because of something creepy relatives did. It may also ... (read in full...)
I'm beginning to feel resentment toward his child, I need help to handle this situation!
Q. Ok - Here is the situation... I have known my husband since I was 15, we made out one night at a bar when I was 19 and I never heard from him again until I was 25. I was a super mess, my Fiance at the time had cheated on me and sent me the pictures ...
A. 3 February 2011: What I have to say may sound glib but that is not my intention. You need professional help. Counseling to get over the resentment and legal to work out proper custody issues. And then do your best to distance yourself and hubby from his ex. I ... (read in full...)
I want to leave but I don't know how.......
Q. I moved country's when I was 18 - I realize now I was young and very impressionable. I was persuing a man 8 years older than me however I look back and it wasn't for him at all it was more for the freedom from parents! I could do whatever I wanted ...
A. 1 February 2011: We all make mistakes. If you escaped your parents just because of teen anger and they treated you well. Then a ph. call and a conversation may be needed. As a parent I know that my kids will always be my kids at three and at twenty three or fifty ... (read in full...)
People don't take me seriously because of the way I look! How can I find a nice guy?
Q. Ok. I really like the way I look, but people just seem to not take me seriously. I am 16. I am a bleach blonde. a little taller than the regular. I have as some people say the 'perfect nose' (people ask if I had a rynoplasty haha) I have brown eyes, ...
A. 1 February 2011: I love the Euripides quote. Sweetheart it may be time to do a makeover. We are all into different things but we don't always advertise with our attire. Also what you are into doesn't sound like who you are as a person.
So from a guys point of... (read in full...)
What should I make of this?
Q. Hi guys, Soo I like my best friends brother, I have know him for a few months and we attend the same college. He is older and is a junior. We hadn't started really talking until around mid-October. After that we would have a small conversati...
A. 1 February 2011: He probably likes you as well. He may be figuring out whether or not his sis will be bugged with him if he asks you out. He is also thinking that if he does get involved and then goes south with you will his Sis forgive him.
I can say this as ... (read in full...)
He is a nice person, but I don't think he knows who I am. What should I do?
Q. Hi. Any kind person please help. I have been with my boyfriend for a few years and the problem is that we have went through soo much, he treated me badly (aggressive, inpatient, etc) and i really lost my confidence. He wants to marry me,but i dont ...
A. 1 February 2011: "When He's not around I feel free" Honestly I think you know the answer. I don't mean to sound glib because I know how our hearts can muddy things. Speak with him maybe. But if you don't feel like you are at your best with him and that he brings ... (read in full...)
I stumbled upon a video of my husband masturbating, on our computer!! I don't know how to deal with this..
Q. Hi, I am 19 years old. I am married. I have been married for 9 months. my husband is in the military. We have been together for 3 years. We recently moved to Germany, for his job. He is at work. I stumbled upon a video of him masturbati...
A. 25 January 2011: I agree that you should speak with him.
But first, are you offended or do just find it a little out of character for your hubby and therefore odd. Personally I think if you approach the subject with humour and an open mind you might have a r... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has been cheating with his ex wife
Q. I need some advice from someone i recently found out that my boyfriend of a year has been cheating on me with his ex wife my heads in bits. We have argued about it and he says he never slept with her he was only helping her out with money but we ...
A. 25 January 2011: The fact is he really may be a good guy. However, a new girlfriend rarely takes precedence over an ex-wife. I would tend to agree with doublejack. While he may be a great fella he doesn't sound 100% over his ex. That doesn't mean he is neces... (read in full...)
Is there any hope? I'm in love with a married foreign woman
Q. Hi. I love a foreign woman who's only reason for being in America is that she is married. She's explained numerous times that its a casual marriage, and that he has his own lover(s) *I do not ask that many questions on the subject*. I know, though, ...
A. 25 January 2011: Strangely I was once in a similiar position as you. While I have nothing truly sage to add I will say that you will be better off ending things and moving on.
You will look back at your time with her more fondly if you are able to allow th... (read in full...)
The lies are piling up, I think my husband married me for visa
Q. hi ive been married for 6 years and have 3 children with my husband. when we used to date he told me he was 22 and just used to act like he was the best guy ever when i married him he told me he was actually a virgin and that he was actually 27 ...
A. 24 January 2011: Well ira3000000 sounds like your in a pickle. Believe it or not you may have more control than you think. Talk to the bank set appt to have transaction info changed. Get to know the girls at your branch. They will find a way to help you. If ... (read in full...)
How do I move on from the affair I had?
Q. I have been with my now husband since I was a teenager. We got engaged my first year of college. He had joined the military, and was stationed outside of the continental united states for 3 years. During this time, I had a relationship with another ...
A. 24 January 2011: As a Military wife you understand the "Don't ask Don't tell" policy.
That applies to so many aspects of a serviceman's life it is incredible. What our wives do when we are on tour is their business whether we like it or not. While we hope and... (read in full...)
Should I wait for the guy who also likes me or should I just go on with the guy who's been courting me for years?
Q. Hi! I have a crush on this certain guy. I liked him since the day we met and it's really getting too complicated because he is my rival in our class standing. Although I can compete rationally without getting my feelings mixed up, when it comes to ...
A. 24 January 2011: remember to stop and breath. Chances are that neither boy will be right. I don't want to sound harsh but at 18-21 yrs life has an intensity that can confuse simple issues. If you are still at the courting stage then don't let yourself be cornered ... (read in full...)
Am I weird for feeling confused?
Q. I guy I was dating told me things that a lot of men I have dated have never told me-----he told me that he could see living his life with me, that he was falling in love with me, that he was surprised that no one ever asked me to marry them, etc. ...
A. 8 December 2010: He may have honestly meant the sweet things he said.However, the fact is he may have been being sweet to play you. That is why you are feeling confused.
Regardless it doesn't sound like he has himself sorted out enough emotionally to add anyt... (read in full...)
Brother in law problems....
Q. Hey all, Iam a happily marrieed woman but I have one problem. The problem is with my brother in law. This started a while back before I got married. I was suppose to meet my BIL at a party in 06 that was arrangged by a family member, but he d...
A. 8 December 2010: I have to agree with the other writers on this.
Don't let him be a bully. If his own parents won't tell him to act appropriatly you have to. I think if you haven't spoken to your husband about this it is time you did.
He should be aware ... (read in full...)
Is it a good idea to send my ex a Christmas card or even a gift?
Q. So my ex girlfriend of one year and I broke up back in September and it's been almost three months since we've seen each other. As far as I know she's been dating somebody else almost a week after we broke up. It wasn't best of news when I heard ...
A. 8 December 2010: Really don't think sending anything to an ex is ever a good idea. With the exception being if you have children together. It doesn't sound like you fit that exception.
She probably won't appreciate it and her ex will be pissed. Makes for bad ... (read in full...)
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