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41-50,
*ra3000000
writes:hi ive been married for 6 years and have 3 children with my husband. when we used to date he told me he was 22 and just used to act like he was the best guy everwhen i married him he told me he was actually a virgin and that he was actually 27 years old he also said that he was previously married but a sham marriage that a lawyer organised so he had to pay the women like thousands of dollars and bla bla bla, anyways just two months ago i got into his facebook account and his emails and i found that he was chatting up other girls and that hurt so much all behind my back, my heart was pulpitating and i nearly fainted....when confronting him he swore he had no idea what i was talking about claiming it was all spam,i checked in his mobile and found teenage pornography when confronted him broke his phone crazy hey, i found photos of what looked like a honeymoon but when questioning him he said that he went to the resort with hes friends and theres no picture of any friends just him in all the photos,even a picture of him in the spa, i asked him about the name of the wife he had as a sham he wont tell me has about 10 email adreses and changed all the passwords dont know them, i think he used me to get a permanent visa in australia filling my head with all the lies of a sham marriage and i love you the resort with only hes photos claiming being a virgin, i was at the time a virgin myself seeking the man of my dreams but i think i got sucked into a trap which i cant get out of he contols the money and i dont have a close family and i have these three children and to raise them up on my own would be too difficult, if a didnt have the kids id run anywhere far away from him i just feel so used and unloved... help please
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reader, ira3000000 +, writes (25 January 2011):
ira3000000 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni will leave him eventually but theres alot of other things hes been hiding from me so i need to find out exactly what it means by going to a translator to help me understand his language i found alot of hidden papers about him so ill see what happens eventually
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reader, Snowshoe  +, writes (24 January 2011):
 Well ira3000000 sounds like your in a pickle. Believe it or not you may have more control than you think. Talk to the bank set appt to have transaction info changed. Get to know the girls at your branch. They will find a way to help you. If even only a little to regain some banking control. Like everyone else they won't like a lying cheating sociopath either.
And for your own mental health and personal safety start developing an exit plan because what he doing to you is most definetly abuse.
Good luck
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