My boy friend has started being aggressive to me. Is dumping him the best idea?
Q. My boyfriend was great when we were friends but when we started going out he. Since then he's changed. He's started acting more aggresive, controlling, rude, ect. and when I wanted to talk to him about it, he broke up with me on Facebook and then ...
A. 3 February 2011: Ok his a total idiot, I mean only a coward breaks up with someone over facebook. don't be upset he did it for you, just move on and find someone better, plus now you have more time for yourself and less for an agressive idoit! ... (read in full...)
My boy friend has started being aggressive to me. Is dumping him the best idea?
Q. My boyfriend was great when we were friends but when we started going out he. Since then he's changed. He's started acting more aggresive, controlling, rude, ect. and when I wanted to talk to him about it, he broke up with me on Facebook and then ...
A. 2 February 2011: Obviously this guy has issues.
don't go back move on, things will just eventually go back to the way it was before, people don't change over night!
I'm sure you wil find someone else, you don't need his crap in your life!... (read in full...)
Why is he acting this way? Is it him or is it me?
Q. This guy in my class, we used to joke around and actually talk to each other. Then out of the blue, suddenly, he started being more distant. Like, back then, if we were put together it'd be fun. We'd talk and everything. Now, it's like he completely ...
A. 2 February 2011: Ok as for as I can see, I think that He might have grown feelings for you and doesn't feel comfortable being around you, or you said something that annoyed him or his into your friend and is trying to get with her.
Only thing to do is confront... (read in full...)
I want to leave but I don't know how.......
Q. I moved country's when I was 18 - I realize now I was young and very impressionable. I was persuing a man 8 years older than me however I look back and it wasn't for him at all it was more for the freedom from parents! I could do whatever I wanted ...
A. 1 February 2011: Hi there
this is a very tricky situation, but you have to get away, whatever it takes its gonna get worse and will never stop!
Think about your child, you are his only life line!
Firstly look at options- a loan from a friend or bank.
tel... (read in full...)
Oral sex makes me sick!
Q. dear readers, i have been going out with my boyfriend for almost three years now and we have done almost everything sexually. we seem pretty good at it by now but one thing always plays at my mind.every time i give him a blow job he tries to puch...
A. 1 February 2011: If you can imagine yourself practicing on a dildo and not immediately collapse in giggles you’re ahead of the game and I give you my blessing. Buy something realistically sized and inexpensive (jelly rubber, probably), pretend it’s attached to your ... (read in full...)
I am thinking about leaving my boyfriend because I am not pretty enough compared to his ex!
Q. What do you do if you are not pretty? I feel so insecure about myself. Its not my body, in fact I think my body is amazing I am blessed in term of genetics but my face is so...plain. ITs not ugly or weird its just boring and shapeless. ITs more ...
A. 1 February 2011: Hi there Listen I always compare myself to his ex's and now I have stopped and thought, she's not me and i'm not her, im a different person and his with me now and I love him so I'm not gonna let this ruin our relationship, there are different qu... (read in full...)
Is this relationship going anywhere? Should I just give up?
Q. Is this relationship going anywhere? I have been in a relationship that has been full of highs and lows which lasted about a year. It was my first gay relationship. Both of us had been with women before. We discovered this together. I have...
A. 1 February 2011: Hi firstly he kissed someone else, he betrayed you and i'm sorry. secondly he can't even comfort you during a difficult time, it's affecting you deeply and if he truelly cared and stopped thinking only of himself and his needs he would b... (read in full...)
Now that she's taken I want her!
Q. I am so lonely at times and i would always call her. she love me so much in my middle school days for at least 2 years. I didnt even bother trying to make any move with her. I did a stupid part. I kind of liked her, but didnt really want a ...
A. 1 February 2011: Ok, she has a boyfriend now obviously she has moved on.
try and do the same if it's ment to be your paths will cross again.
I assume she is aware of your feelings? if not make her aware before you move on. ask her to go for coffee and then tel... (read in full...)
Made mistake of breaking up with him, want him back, but how??
Q. my ex and i were together for 4 rocky months (we're 23 and 24 years old). i dumped him once in november over a fight he started that distracted me from school (i wasn't that into him them). he came back, made things right, and we got back together. ...
A. 1 February 2011: Hi
Ok now you have to spark, think of something extermely romatic. this guy still has feelings for you but you bruised his ego bad.
you need to show him you sorry and how you truelly feel, what is he into, maybe music, send him a cd with all yo... (read in full...)
Any chance he'll come back?
Q. I have been seeing a guy for about two months now. I wouldn't give him the time of day at first and when I did he was absolutely wonderful. Problem is we work together. I was at lunch the other day and another co-worker told me he was bragging and ...
A. 1 February 2011: firstly relax.
If he truelly cares he will come back to you.
In the mean time give him time to cool off, think of it as some me time, keep yourself and your mind occupied with making yourself hotter , maybe that will speed up the process.
... (read in full...)
He lied to me and now is telling me I'm too controlling!
Q. My boyfriend is telling me I have to stop controlling him. I have been with him for over a year now this march an we have a 5 month old together too. Yes I have trust issues with him bc of our past, my trust has gotten stronger an better with him, ...
A. 1 February 2011: Hi
Firstly I'am so sorry.
I know exactly how you feel I used to be very controlling and im still struggeling to trust men, because of what men have done to me in the past.
firstly stop going through his stuff, wait it will come to you. the... (read in full...)
How do I get her to like me?
Q. there is this girl i like and shes way out of my league, and i know one person she likes but i dont want to be like him. at the same time im afraid to ask her or her friend what i should do to get her to like me. i know the basics exercise etc but i ...
A. 31 January 2011: Hi
Ok, you can't force someone to like you! be yourself, don't try and be someone else , just think how amaizing it will feel if when she likes you for you.try and chat to her, a girl likes nothing more than a guy who tells her how he feels it... (read in full...)
What do I do when I see him again at school? How do I come across as perfectly fine in front of him?
Q. I started talking to this guy about two months ago, that i saw in school and i thought was really cute. He added me on facebook one day, and then i IMed him on there, and we started talking and he asked for my number. We ended up texting everyday ...
A. 31 January 2011: Ok, relax... you won't come off as obssesive, firstly wait two to three days and ask him just as he asked you are we no longer talking? and if you don't get a reply. go to school carry on like normal, if he really likes you he will come around. ... (read in full...)
How do you make a girl feel great in bed?
Q. dear readers, i love my girldfriend very much and i am very intersested in pleasing her in bed. but i am unsure in the way to best make her feel good? i know how to do some things but would like to know if you guys out there have any good id...
A. 31 January 2011: Ok
when you in the act kiss her and look in her eyes tell her you love her and how special she is to you, complement her, tell her i have never seen such a gorgeous yummy bum in my life even if you have!
or make it very romatic before r... (read in full...)
My husband likes his bum licked, is this normal?
Q. Hi guys this is rather a funny question but it has been puzzling me for a while now. My husband likes me to lick his bottom whilst he masturbates lol!. I know it sounds funny and i have no problems doing this but is it normal? He has a bit of an ...
A. 31 January 2011: Hi
Okay I have noticed you get two types of guys boob guys and bum guys now my boyfriend loves my bum to and usually wants to have anal sex, so in that aspect its normal, because most greek men do it and its called greek style.
now your husb... (read in full...)
The wandering eye......
Q. My guy and I had a little spat in regards to the wandering eye and loyalty to me and the relationship. He says that my constant banter of telling him how upsetting it is to me to see him looking at other women and physically acting like he's not ...
A. 31 January 2011: ok Hello
I have felt like this plenty (if i freaked out everytime we wouldn't still be together and have a happy relationship and i would be slapping every woman he looks at we actually laugh about it), but soon relised all men have wonderin... (read in full...)
I lied about taking a pregnancy test, how do I get his trust back?
Q. I recently lied to my fiancé about taking a pregnancy test, which I did but I didn't pee on it ..because days before he ask me to take one..he was telling me we are not ready for kids..so I decided to not take it cause I was scared to be and make ...
A. 31 January 2011: ok only thing you can do is take the damn pregnancy test and show him, explain to him your feelings and that you didnt want him to feel pressured and if he doesnt understand then his an idiot after all you put him before yourself! always be open and ... (read in full...)
He wants to give us another try but I don't feel anything for him anymore! Should I work at getting the feelings back?
Q. Ok this is a long shot so here it is. My exbf broke it off with me and I took it hard. I cool now and guess what? He's pressuring me to give it another try. Ok so here's the deal. I'm tolerating him and I'm bored. I've lost every feeling of love ...
A. 31 January 2011: if you feel like he deserves another shot, do it. but remember you might think of it as killing time , but watch out you might fall for him again and end up getting hurt again. so avoid past mistakes, rather be in it for real and be with the p... (read in full...)
Do I still stand a chance? Could I possibly win him over somehow?
Q. Hi there . I need help I'm so confused with this . I want to know if I still have a chance with this guy . We have so much history . 3 years ago I was introduced to this guy by my (girl)friend. I thought he was cute and told her . She tried hookin...
A. 31 January 2011: Hi
He see's as a friend and also a girl he can get attention from when needed.
If he was interested he would have been with you a long time ago. you should watch that movie his just not that into you.
get rid of him and find someone if he r... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is still married, living with his wife and having a baby with her!
Q. my boyfriend of 5 months is married but seperated and has a baby due anyday now. He lives in another city with his mom and dad and wife. He come to see me when ever he can. So many times I've tried to end it because of the situation but we just ...
A. 31 January 2011: ok
I'm so sorry to hear about this I feel your pain.
the only thing you can do is give him an ultimatium .
tell him if you really love me you will leave your wife.
i'm not gonna see or talk to you until that happens and then see what happen... (read in full...)
My fiance has online profile looking for discreet casual sex!
Q. I have been with my Fiancee for 3 years. We are both in our 40's. A few months ago he was in a car accident and was house bound for three months. During that time, he got very upset with me for not giving him more time and attention while he ...
A. 31 January 2011: hi
ok he felt abandoned by you like he wasn't important anymore, like he needed attention he was hurt. so he needed a way to find attention and since he can't get out he went on a site were he could be anything he wanted and were women could gi... (read in full...)
Does my ex still like me or should I pursue a new girl
Q. I had a few questions. one dealing with my ex and one dealing with this new girl i met tonight. heres the stories: I was talkin to this girl tonight and she stayed around me anytime we ran into each other (we were at a night club) and she woul...
A. 31 January 2011: firstly when girls meet guys in clubs they only want one thing, so basically its a fling, she just likes the attention, so don't look to much into it. secondly, your girlfriend saw you with this girl and wanted to make that girl jealous and show... (read in full...)
My ex wants to try again, but take things slowly this time. Should I give a shot?
Q. I split with my ex around 7 months ago, as i didn't feel the same... like I didn't feel the love I did before. I've recently started talking to him again and he said he wants us to try again, but take it slowly. What do you think? Should I try ...
A. 31 January 2011: Hi
Give him a chance to show you that his changed, and if it doesn't work then it will never work.... (read in full...)
Should I just give it a go with this guy?
Q. dear agony aunts, theres this guy that really really likes me and has said stuff like hes never felt this way bout anyone before and hes exactly my type of guy and is looking for a lasting relationship and i am warming to him but i just aint getting ...
A. 31 January 2011: Go for this guy, you never know what will happen. maybe his holding back, give him a chance to knock your socks off! if it doesn't work then let it go!
The greater the risk the greater the reward.
... (read in full...)
Maybe I've been too clingy but I really like him
Q. Basically I've liked this guy for nearly a year now. We've had a bit of flirting going on every now and then before, and he's admitted hes liked me before, then months later i admiteed that i liked him really badly, and he was shocked and didnt know ...
A. 31 January 2011: hi
okay you really like this guy.
if he wanted to be with you, he would have made a move.
and he would have left his girlfriend for you, but he didn't.
she probably found out about your feelings, and thinks you are a threat and told him hi... (read in full...)
I find it hard to focus on my husband because of all mess and find myself thinking of this other man all the time....
Q. Hi I am a women in my late thirties with two young children, I have been married for twelve years, during this time my husband has ended our relationship twice, once as a trial separation, then for good. This was a very difficult time for me, but ...
A. 31 January 2011: Hi
Firstly if you don't love him and don't wanna be with him don't. stop lieing to yourself! be happy don't let anything stand in the way of your happiness! this is your husbands fault he ended it, so if its not working for you. just end it, just... (read in full...)
I've pushed him away by my jealousy and by trying to control him way too much...How can I make him interested in me again?
Q. hi i need help, my co worker and i have had a thing for each other for the past year. I have realized that i really do love him and i dont know what he thinks i felt that he felt the same as well but for the last 3 months he has been distant. He ...
A. 31 January 2011: hi
Firstly I have gone through this so many times, I'am currently dating a guy i work with and things are going great.
you must forget about him,act like nothing bothers you, show him you have changed. keep your feelings to yourself.
a ... (read in full...)
I've got a whole lot of perversions and moral failings that I'd like to disclose to the girl I'd probably get involved with. How do I do it?
Q. Hello World, I've got a question that I think I already know the answer to, but would like some reassurance with all the same (or other answers if any). It's about a woman I've been getting close to (in a strictly non-GF/BF way), and would like g...
A. 31 January 2011: Hi Firstly you are bi-curious, which do you like more men or women? Never ever tell the woman you with about the stories you have just disclosed, I promise she will run a mile. rather tell her that you are Bi and like both men and women. but... (read in full...)
First sexual encounter : Is there anything you wish you knew / did your first time?
Q. Im 19 and I am still a virgin - I'm not too particularly worried because I will probably lose it this summer as this boy and I are getting more serious. The thing is, he is almost 22 and not a virgin. We havent gone very far and now we are in LDR. ...
A. 31 January 2011: Hi Firstly what I regret is the fact that i didnt lose my virginity with a special person instead i lost it with someone who was using me. Make sure this person isn't really doing it because he just wants to get in your pants, and remember its ... (read in full...)
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