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Should I tell my parents? I think I'm pregnant
Q. Hi, I'm 15 and think I'm pregnant. I don't know what to do. Should i tell my mom and dad? I need advice before i do anything. I've had sex 1 time but he pulled out and we used a condom. I told him we shouldn't do it anymore unless we're really ...
A. 10 April 2009: when did you have sex and when was your last period have you missed on ? you should take a preg test. let us know what you find out... (read in full...)
He got me nowt for my birthday and I'm upset about it.
Q. I planned a great vday for my boyfriend of almost 3 years... he had so much fun and so did I but it really bothers me I didn't get a gift this year... he has always gotten me one. Should I really be upset he didn't get me anything? I mean I didn't ...
A. 19 February 2009: thanks everyone!... (read in full...)
He got me nowt for my birthday and I'm upset about it.
Q. I planned a great vday for my boyfriend of almost 3 years... he had so much fun and so did I but it really bothers me I didn't get a gift this year... he has always gotten me one. Should I really be upset he didn't get me anything? I mean I didn't ...
A. 19 February 2009: no i didnt but you need to understand... we have a very special connection... he almost can read my mind. its very interesting. he knows everything i need and want and i know his. its very unique. and he said he did have something for me. and so im ... (read in full...)
He got me nowt for my birthday and I'm upset about it.
Q. I planned a great vday for my boyfriend of almost 3 years... he had so much fun and so did I but it really bothers me I didn't get a gift this year... he has always gotten me one. Should I really be upset he didn't get me anything? I mean I didn't ...
A. 19 February 2009: yeah i guess i really shouldnt be upset... it just is weird and not like him at all we did have a good time and i guess that all that matters thanks... (read in full...)
He got me nowt for my birthday and I'm upset about it.
Q. I planned a great vday for my boyfriend of almost 3 years... he had so much fun and so did I but it really bothers me I didn't get a gift this year... he has always gotten me one. Should I really be upset he didn't get me anything? I mean I didn't ...
A. 19 February 2009: to mee x i know that gifts arEnt everything and i know he didnt have to but the week before V day he said he had gotten me something... so thats why i was expecting it... a.danica i know what you mean... but this is the first time he hasnt gotten m... (read in full...)
My friend always drags me and my boyfreind into her relationships arguements!
Q. Hello aunts sorry if this is long! Im 16 and have been with my boyfriend for around 9 months. Everything is great, and for once i can actually say ive fallen in love with someone that makes me truly happy and feel good about myself. But my probl...
A. 19 February 2009: ok so seriously you need to ditch her she is bad for you and your relationship. she is looking for attention and needs to find a different boyfreind. you should tell her but she probably wont belive you and blame you. dont take it. tell her to grow ... (read in full...)
What's going on in his head? I need advice
Q. I started dating my first boyfriend a month ago.I am just turning 18 and he is about to turn 19. He spoils me,and takes me out to nice restaraunts,and I lost my virginity to him acouple weeks ago. eveybody thinks he is my prince charming including ...
A. 18 February 2009: ok take a deep breath. relax and give him his space. let him come to you. cause if you keep calling and texting he will feel like you are smothering him. i have this problem all the time and he will come to you when he is ready dont worry.
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If I have a baby with my cousin, will the baby be healthy?
Q. i have a boyfriend and hes my cousin. i want to have a baby with him but my question is if the baby is going to come out healthy?...
A. 18 February 2009: If there is a defect that runs in the family, it is more likely to gain dominance by intermarriage. however most babies turn out fine.lots of people marry their cousins. i hope everything works out for you.
here is a link to something i think yo... (read in full...)
If I have a baby with my cousin, will the baby be healthy?
Q. i have a boyfriend and hes my cousin. i want to have a baby with him but my question is if the baby is going to come out healthy?...
A. 18 February 2009: is he a first cousin?... (read in full...)
Why wont he tell me the cause of his mood?
Q. sometimes he will come and see me.. he will be in a huffy mood.. he won't tell me why.. any tips on getting him to spill? my boyfriend is really amazing.. his is kind.. he supported me and is still supporting me since my granny died two weeks a...
A. 17 February 2009: i have found the best way to get them to spill is to be quiet, let him be upset and when he is ready he will tell you . make yourself available to listen but dont be pushy and dont be judgemental or offer your opions when he does tell u things ... (read in full...)
Call me a bitch or a whore but you know I'm right.
Q. I really laid it on thick with this guy who already had a girlfriend. I even made made him cheat on his girlfriend by having sex with him while they were together. They were together for two years and broke up two months ago after she caught us ...
A. 17 February 2009: this is going to bite you in the ass someday your finally goin to find someone who you love and want to spend the rest of your life with and some little whore will do this to you. casue you will probably loose your looks eventually.good luck. its ... (read in full...)
I feel so inferior to all these porn stars and celebrities, what to do to raise my self esteem?
Q. I have a very stupid problem. I hate myself. More specifically, I hate my body. I feel so inferior to porn stars or celebrities. Whenever I see a scantily clad woman I feel so, so ugly and unsexy. I will never be pretty or attractive. I just don't ...
A. 17 February 2009: i so know what you are going through... i never feel good enough and i hate seeing all these hot people . i know my bf loves me but i cant help but thinking im never going to be pretty enough. the only thing we can do i guess s just keep trying to ... (read in full...)
Planning a wedding and I'm not even engaged - have I gone crazy??
Q. Am i crazy? im 16 and do have a boyfriend of almost a year and a half. this may sound crazy but we have spoken about SOMEDAY getting married, when we're about 22, 23. on saturday i went to a wedding and since then [today is tuesday] i have l...
A. 17 February 2009: no you havent gone crazy i have been planning my wedding for 2 years now. i totally know how you feel. i will have been with my man for 3 year in a couple of months.and i have been planning since 6 months after we started dating. dont feel weird ... (read in full...)
He is the PERFECTEST guy ever but my parents would shoot me, but I'm really not caring, and I just want to be with him.
Q. I'm 15 years old and I've been talking to this 19 year old, I'm a freshman and he graduated last year. He always says how much he likes me and he wants to be with me, and ive had sex with him. He bought me a phone so i can text him, and he is paying ...
A. 16 February 2009: ok you are 15 he is 19 you guys had sex that is rape youre not old enough to consent and you shouldnt be hanging out with a guy that old he should know better. this is wrong im sorry hun but it is really wrong i have been there and it only leads ... (read in full...)
I want her to feel special like a queen, any ideas?
Q. I want to take my girlfriend to a special dinner in about three weeks, of course im going to take her to a dinner but its going to be one about an hour away, Dolly Parton owns it, its a dinner and a show, we may come back to town and go to a place ...
A. 12 February 2009: the note idea is great i would suggest roses and her favorite candy. also when your alone i would suggest getting some good smelling massage oil or lotion and treating her to a massage. adn maybe a bubble bath if you guys like that sort of thing. ... (read in full...)
MUST you use enemas or douche before anal sex?
Q. I've given anal sex a try several times before and was put off by the pain (my partner is fairly well endowed). The last time I tried it I was a bit drunk and kind of changed my mind halfway through but didn't really articulate that thought firmly ...
A. 12 February 2009: i kind of understand... if you want to message me i can talk to you more about it . my bf and i have been trying it too but cant get very far in it cause there was to much pain casue we didnt use enough lube i guess. i really dont think you need to ... (read in full...)
I want to call the wedding off, but he doesn't. What should I do?
Q. Hi, I'm in need of advice desperately.I've been in a relationship for the past 2 and 1/2 years now,we are getting married in a few months time and I'm studying .lately Ive been having doubts about us,about the wedding,about just being with ...
A. 12 February 2009: if you dont want to marry him then dont . this is only the begining dont let him control you beacues it will only get worse. dont let him push you around you have a right to say no and he needs to respect that. relationships go both ways he has no ... (read in full...)
He invited me for a walk, you think he likes me? What should I do to get with him?
Q. Ok it was me ,my twin,my boyfriend,his brother,his friend and we were hangin out at his brother house and my boyfriend didn't talk to me or anything not one word was said between us and when it was time to go home he got frustrated cause my ...
A. 11 February 2009: sounds like first you should break up with your current boyfreind.he might like you but you should be single first and not going for both of them. i would wait awhile after you break up with your current bf before you go rushing into a new ... (read in full...)
My family loves my BF but my friends don't!
Q. What can a girl do if your friends doesnt like your boyfriend, but your parents and sisters and brother like him and they dont know him like i know him. it make me so sad. i dont know what to do.....
A. 11 February 2009: i have almost the same problem only if is the opposite. i have found the best thing is to do what is best for you be independent you dont need your family or freinds approval you are your own person adn have the right to be whith who you want . if ... (read in full...)
Anal sex tips?
Q. ok i am hoping to get some tips on anal... my bf and i have been trying baby steps with it and im cool with it, i was just wondering if i could get some tips on it. ...
A. 11 February 2009: thank you we will try that tonight and start slowly also are there any girls that have any experience?... (read in full...)
Shouldn't I love him no matter what?
Q. I love my bf, he's a great guy. But sometimes I wish he were better looking. I make him wear a hat all the time cos his hair is awful and he's going bald. But I sometimes feel like that is really messed up. Shouldn't I love him no matter what? But ...
A. 11 February 2009: my boyfreind is only 21 and has lost most of his hair. he wears a hat and shaves his head so its not a big deal i really like it when he shaves his head i think its sexy. you may wanna try it with your guy. you should feel bad its not his fault he ... (read in full...)
Losing my V-card on V-day, I'm so scared and nervous, please help!
Q. well ive been going out with my boyfriend for like 4 months now and im a virgin, we have been talking about having sex lately hes 19 and im 16. weve talked about having sex on valentines day which is like 4 days away, i need some advice really on ...
A. 9 February 2009: is it really what you want? 4 months is really not a long time, are you prepared to deal with the fact you guys may not stay together forever? i would ask you to seriously consider this. is this really someone you want to give your virginity to? it ... (read in full...)
I'm 15, she's 18 and she wants to have sex on V-day
Q. Ok well im 15 and ive been with my girlfriend(age 18) for 3 1/2 months and i love her and she loves me. We trust each other with everything and have told eavh other things we havent said before to others. We have been having sexual talks alot lat...
A. 9 February 2009: dont do it. if she really loves you you should wait till you turn 18 too if you really lovve her dont. she would get in serious trouble if you did and someone found out... (read in full...)
I made a bad choice when I was younger, and now it's affecting my relationship.
Q. When I was 16, I was crazy about this boy in school. For years I dreamed of returning the feelings, and even though we were good friends, I knew he didn't feel the same way... until I had a party and he kissed me. But next thing i know, I ended up ...
A. 9 February 2009: i know exactly how you feel. i did almost the same thing and my boyfriend likes it too but i felt so miserable when i did it for him cause it made me feel horible. the important thing is to remember that you made a mistake back then but you are with ... (read in full...)
I think he loves his video games more than he does me!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years now, we get along wonderfully with one exception, I think he loves his video games more than me. He always wants to stay in and play. Sometimes I get to play with him but I'm not very good. He takes me ...
A. 6 February 2009: thank you i have planned a few things for him and we had a good talk about everything and we are on a much bettter track now ... (read in full...)
I'm scared that if I'm not pregnant, he will completely leave me forever.
Q. I'm fourteen, my ex boyfriend is fifteen. We were dating for a steady three months before we broke up recently, but have always had on and off relationships prior to that. My ex boyfriend is kind of, how should i put this? a 'thug' type. He...
A. 6 February 2009: either way your both too young and it will become even worse. i think you probably are but get a test and find out dont wait in this the longer you wait it will be harder to get the help you need . you cant change him he has to change himself by ... (read in full...)
Her ex keeps giving her a hard time, what can I do?
Q. I cant take this anymore. Me and my gf have been together 9 months im 16 shes 15. i dont care called it puppy love if u want but its really lol. anyways the prob is her ex. she loves me i know it she noes it and he noes it. and cos of this he keeps ...
A. 6 February 2009: have you talked to the school counclers? they may be able to give you guys some ideas about how to handle this. it would be dangerous for you to involve yourself with the type of people this guy hangs out with. but another alternative is to have a ... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend treat me so badly?
Q. i am very confused about what to do about the relationship i am in. Me and my boyfriend have been together now for about a year. It has always been a very intense relationship and we were breaking-up and getting back together as soon as we started ...
A. 6 February 2009: i totally agree with shaashiie.she is exactly right about all of it. get out now. i have been there too and there really is no changing him. he has to want to change and make the commitment to . i gave up my freinds and my previous lifestyle for a ... (read in full...)
Curious sex question
Q. I have a curious question Would you french kiss a girl who engaged in oral sex with her ex boyriend 2 years ago? Next question is it true that if you kiss a girl that engage in those things it will come in like you kissing the guy private part?......
A. 30 January 2009: fyi the "girl" has probably brushed her teeth since then. its really not a big deal. and second its only like kissing a guys private parts if you do it right after you give oral. but if you brush your teeth and listerine your mouth who will ever ... (read in full...)
Am I bad? Have I done such a bad thing?
Q. Six years ago I left my husband for another man. I have never been able to quite forgive myself because I know it hurt me children very much. I had been married for 21 years and had suffered badly. My husband took our first child from me in hospital ...
A. 30 January 2009: no you are not bad. he is an evil abusive mamas boy who doesnt have the balls to admit how wrong he was to you all those years. and not only has he abused you but now he is emotionally abusing the children i dont think anyone whould say you were ... (read in full...)
Doubts about a lasting relationship without christ...
Q. Hello everyone my name is Feeljoy please my question is: is there really a lasting relationship on earth without christ in your life?...
A. 30 January 2009: I dont think so. If you are a christian there are specific guidelines as to whom we should have relationships with. 2 Corinthians 6:14-16 "14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness wi... (read in full...)
Do you think he could truly be my soultmate?
Q. I'm in love and I mean in love, I'm only 15 but I am honestly head over heels in love with I boy I have never met before I know it sounds so sad and pathetic but he means everything to me he is 19 and like I said I am only 15, we were waiting until ...
A. 29 January 2009: ok first of all sweety i want to let you know that you probably dont love him. he is 3-4 years older than you hun. he has a different perspective on life, he has different priorities and different responsiblities. the reason you probably get back ... (read in full...)
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