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writes:I'm fourteen, my ex boyfriend is fifteen.We were dating for a steady three months before we broke up recently, but have always had on and off relationships prior to that.My ex boyfriend is kind of, how should i put this?a 'thug' type. He is into alot of drugs and the gang related type of life, and has been in and out of foster homes his whole life.When we we're dating, for the most part he was typically very sweet to me, we had our fair share of arguments, but in all reality, I was swept away, and felt like what we had was going to be forever, but obviously I was wrong.Well, here I am sitting a few weeks later, and I think I may be pregnant. Lately I have been feeling, nauseous and constantly have a headache and lack of energy. I feel very sick mostly when I wake up in the morning and I feel like I don't have the energy to do anything.I have been feeling like this for a little over two weeks now, but I got my period. My period usually sticks around for around four to five days, but this period was very irregular, I had it for about three days but some hours of the day, I wouldn't bleed at all. So, I would like to know if there is any chance at all I could still be pregnant? Also my ex boyfriend and I have been keeping in touch lately. I told him there is probably a slight chance I could be pregnant because lots of my friends said I had the usual symptoms. He really wants me to be pregnant, I think he thinks that if there is a baby involved, it will make him go down the right path in life..and I'm scared that if i'm not, he will completely leave forever.. and try to find something else to make him do so..HELP
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reader, shortstuff4789  +, writes (6 February 2009):
 either way your both too young and it will become even worse. i think you probably are but get a test and find out dont wait in this the longer you wait it will be harder to get the help you need . you cant change him he has to change himself by himself. are you close to your family? do you have any close older freinds ?
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reader, uluvme0723 +, writes (6 February 2009):
 Ok..wow. First off, 9 times out of ten your pregnant. Second...your too young. Your only 14. Mama, you got your whole life a head of you. If you honestly think having a baby will help the relationship. Your wrong. I was 20 when i decided to have a baby. Me and my sons father relationship was decent. Then we brought a baby into it and it crumbled. You have a baby when your stable. You have to be prepared for things like that. And in no way do i think you or your bf are ready for that type of responsibility. Finish school and focus on yourself. And lastly, if you bf really wanted to be rehabilitated he would have started the process already. But may god bless you with any decision you make.
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