A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello aunts sorry if this is long!Im 16 and have been with my boyfriend for around 9 months. Everything is great, and for once i can actually say ive fallen in love with someone that makes me truly happy and feel good about myself.But my problem is my friend keeps bringing my relationship into her relationships problems, everytime something goes wrong with her relationship for example someone says her boyfriends cheated on her she will bring me into it and make me think that my boyfriend was there when he was with me, and its really annoying. My friends boyfriend is a right idiot. He does drugs, has a fake id and goes drinking most nights and gets in trouble with the police. He knows my boyfriend from his english class and thank god my boyfriends nothing like that. My boyfriends a typical boy into the gym,football and is doing well at school. Well heres where the rumours started, my boyfriend and her boyfriend both went camping as it was a mates brithday who they both knew. There ended up being 5 boys and they bumped into 1 girl from our school too- unfortunatly she stayed with them. So my best mate came up to me ( 3 months after they had camped) and told me that her boyfriend had said that my boyfriend had been kissing this girl that had been with them, and basically telling her that he had witnessed it all. My boyfriend went up to him and asked him straight and of course her boyfriend told him that he hadnt said anything that my best mate was making it all up and sucked up to aparently "cheated" on me and although i didnt believe that he would cheat on me i did question whether it happend. Now i have found out the truth that ha has infact cheated on her four times with four differant girls. My friend knows about two of the times but she doesnt no about the other two, i was going to tell her but its my best friends birthday tomorrow and she has asked me not to say anything as she doesnt want it to ruin her brithday party and has asked me can i wait untill sunday to tell her. what shall i do im torn? I want to tell her as i know its for the best and now hopefully they will leave me and my boyfriend out of there stupid arguements. am i selfish for thinking this?
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reader, shortstuff4789  +, writes (19 February 2009):
 ok so seriously you need to ditch her she is bad for you and your relationship. she is looking for attention and needs to find a different boyfreind. you should tell her but she probably wont belive you and blame you. dont take it. tell her to grow up and deal with her relatioships like an adult.she is a trouble maker and you shouldnt give her the time of day if she is going to treat you like this
hope this helps let me know how it goes
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