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*hortstuff4789
writes:I have been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years now, we get along wonderfully with one exception, I think he loves his video games more than me. He always wants to stay in and play. Sometimes I get to play with him but I'm not very good. He takes me out occasionally and when he does it's great, we don't have as much money as we used to but I don't even care about that. I really need some ideas on how to get his attention back on me... romanticaly you know... I'm not very good at being the agressor - he did that for me but now it seems like it's my turn to... I'm not sure... chase him?... I know he loves me and I love him, he is just not very inspired thanx
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reader, shortstuff4789 +, writes (6 February 2009):
shortstuff4789 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you i have planned a few things for him and we had a good talk about everything and we are on a much bettter track now
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (30 January 2009):
Just keep organising dates (cheap ones) and make him meet you out, rather than going round.
Go to the movies, walk by the river to a pub, get your bikes out!
Anything that gets him away from his games.
Either that or spend a bit less time with him. Go out with your friends and mention a male friend to him a couple of times, he might realise that he has been ignoring you then.
Good Luck!! xx
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