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We have grown apart and want different things......should I leave?
Q. ive been married for almost two years and we have been together 4 years. we have a daughter together he wants more i dont right NOW. IM 22 hes 38. we dont get along anymore and have different wants and needs! we have grew apart! I dont have a job or ...
A. 24 February 2011: thats so much making it clear. now how do i go about leaving!!???? what should i say?? should i sit down with him and talk things over to leave upon good standings, its easier said then done so i need some more help on leaving??but your answers ... (read in full...)
3 months ago I hadn’t looked at another women in 14 years, now all of a sudden we are planning on leaving our respective partners for each other!
Q. Hi, so this is my story…been married 14 years, have two boys aged 12 and a daughter from wife’s previous relationship aged 20. I thought everything was fine and loved my wife until a couple of months ago, and I am now so confused. I met a girl 2 y...
A. 24 February 2011: i really feel you marriag is a drag. i feel the same way as you right now. yeah do what you feel in your heart. talk with your wifey and settle everything out. i dont believe in breaking a marriage,but when it comes to a point where no one is happy ... (read in full...)
Should I stop this friendship or try dragging along longer and see if it gets better
Q. This isn’t a relationship as much as something I’m having problems with my best friend who’s a girl. Basically were really good friends. Hers the problem she seems to have completely changed in the course if 1 day and stayed that way for a month ...
A. 24 February 2011: tell her how you feel. that you want to be friends and the way it used to be. how you like to hear her laugh what u just told us. she should go back to normal or shes doing drugs other then that idunno. ... (read in full...)
15 and pregnant need help!
Q. im 15, get good grades, live in a good home but am not very close to my parents. i go to a vocational school and take an automotive shop. ive been with my boyfriend for 3 months, and we lost our virginity to eachother. the condom didnt work, and i ...
A. 24 February 2011: girl, its hard being a mommy. i have one and that all i refuse to have more. men say theyll take care of the baby but they dont,but he might be different!! ihope you luck. and i dont know if you want to tell ur parents yet. they will freak out,but u ... (read in full...)
I'm 27 and he's 41...Should I go for it?
Q. I know age is "just a number." But I met this guy through a mututal friend and he's 14-years older than me. I told my friend that I found him attractive but that I thought he might be a little too old for me. Anyway, we've started seeing each ...
A. 24 February 2011: WOW!! i wish this is all i could say,but my husband is about that many years older and we definently grew apart. he wants something different than i do. so either way its fun while it lasted thats what id say. be friends and do whatever,but do ... (read in full...)
Is it possible that this girl is using me to get her work done at university?
Q. Ive known this girl in uni for a couple of years. She's the type of girl who would go out to clubs and what have you and prob make out with guys who hit on her if she's interested. I would say her looks are pretty decent, and she always dresses very ...
A. 24 February 2011: sounds like she could have came to ur birthday if she wanted. but chose not too.
id say she usin you. but i dont know 4 sure until i see whats going on.
its hard to say. sorry i couldnt help you farther.... (read in full...)
I overheard my boyfriend bragging to his friend about using me for sex and then breaking up!!
Q. hi everybody I've been crying my eyes out all day because when I was walked into the passway leading to my boyfriend's dorm room I overheard him bragging and giving high fives to his roommate about how he was going to break up with me after he ...
A. 24 February 2011: i feel your pain. we've all been through something like this. stand up and say im better then he is. be happy. show everyone your strong even tho; inside u hurt dont let them see that. stop crying and tell yourself i can do this i am beautiful there ... (read in full...)
I don't classify this as cheating but my boyfriend will!
Q. Okay, Ive been dating a guy for about 2 months and I told him I would never cheat. But recently I was out with friends (1 girl and 2guys) one of the guys is an ex boyfriend. When we were leaving, i hugged him goodbye and I turned to kiss him on ...
A. 1 May 2010: personally i would have to put the situation in a different perspective if you saw a girl do that to your boyfriend an just imagine it happened would you say he was cheating.???
I know if i saw my husband get kissed by another women like that i woul... (read in full...)
My girlfriend got so jealous she threw an iron at my head. Should I dump her?
Q. I have been dating someone for a year now and it has gotten to be very serious. I work the graveyard shift at a resturaunt and a few weeks ago I was very sick and didn't finish my shift. One of the waitresses is a very dear friend of mine liv...
A. 29 April 2010: ok what a story. wow!! i give kudos to you.. i am a women my self and could see why she got jealous i would get jealous too, but actually its not jealousey its the thought of losing you.thats what i think it is. so yea she loves you. but throwing ... (read in full...)
Should I have my friend tell him I like him?
Q. Ok so I like this guy alot! One of my best friends is friends with him so do I tell my friend I like him or not?...
A. 29 April 2010: I would show him your not shy or afraid of his reaction . make sure he knows ur name tho'lol. just kiddin' go for it. ask him out., but really whats the point of having a boyfriend ? I know someone to kiss and hug and such, but right now i would ... (read in full...)
Sensitive new age guy vs Cocky and Arrogant
Q. Do women like men who are a bit cocky and arrogant? Or do they prefer snesitive new age guys? Some women, I've heard, like men who exude confidence. Is this a dumb question? Help me out here. I want to get women on side, so they stop pulling faces ...
A. 29 April 2010: im not quite sure what ur trying to ask but the type of man i perfer is one who is taking me out doing romantic things for me maybe even one who gives me money just because they love me. complementing me on my looks or even the outfit (your so hot ... (read in full...)
Should I just keep acting this way until I never see him again?
Q. My best buddy he has always been very nice to me at school. He's always nice to me on the bus. I really didnt talk to him much today and always act like myself when hes around. I always sit in front of him on the bus and he always puts his arms over ...
A. 29 April 2010: If you have feelings for him tell him because by the sounds of it i think he has feelings for you.. why dont you sit next to him and ask him if he has feelings for you, if he likes you more then a friend. then you'll know what to do.. ... (read in full...)
My cheating girlfriend got pregnant!
Q. what should I do my girlfriend I was with for 4 years in on and off relationship who wanted to have kids and love each other. recently got pregnant but she cheated but didnt tell me so I thought it was mine. I was with her through the whole ...
A. 24 April 2010: i would see if its the other guys baby first if it is leave her. you will find a love so great that she will have your baby and you will have a happy life. she will regret what she has done to you. i promise if you leave her she will regret ... (read in full...)
Sneaking around on Adultfriendfinder, what should I do?
Q. A while back and I got the Mail and I just open the credit card bills and I just found out that he was charging by adultfriendfinder and he was telling me that I cancel it . so yesterday, I just found out that he still on it. so I don't think he...
A. 24 April 2010: break the relationship with him. sorry to say it. ur better then that. ... (read in full...)
Can I meet the right woman after college?
Q. I am a 22 year old college senior who is graduating in less than a month. I just got out of a 2 year relationship with a girl who goes to my college who supposedly decided that she never loved me, a few months before I was going to propose to her. ...
A. 24 April 2010: you are going to be able to meet the women of your dreams. you can continue to go to a church and there are lots of people to meet at church. you just have to get ur self out there. trust me god always opens a door when a door closes a new one ... (read in full...)
I can't shake the feeling of wanting a baby!
Q. ok im 16 and i want a baby. im really good with them and ive tried to get over it but i cnt shake the feeling. i have this best friend(friends with benifits) and he says that i lite up when im around babies and weve tlkd about if i was to get ...
A. 24 April 2010: hi, dont act on this want of yours..!! for Real if you want a baby spend the night at my house for a whole week or how about a month and take care of my new baby that is three months old.. wow.. I could really use the break since her birth i haven't ... (read in full...)
I masturbated because my husband never wants sex! Is this bad?
Q. So one day my husband was at work and i wanted to have sex so bad and we hadnt had sex for 3 weeks and he never wants to so i masturbated and it wasnt as bad as i thought. My husband would be mad. so am i in the wrong for doing that? Do you think ...
A. 24 April 2010: i am 21 and my husband never wants to have sex with me anymore. what is it??? I just dont understand men. lets just keep masturbating!LOL. i really mean it.... (read in full...)
G/f cheating? No sex, says I make her skin crawl
Q. I live with my girlfriend, but is she having an affair? Weve not had sex for nearly 16 months now, she used to sleep naked in bed but now wears shorts and t-shirt, we argue a lot, she goes out 4 nights a week even for just an hour sometimes, she ...
A. 24 April 2010: i would leave her. i know that i want sex from my man every nite so she definently is gettin it from somewhere else. leave asap.. be happy with someone else or hangin out with friends... just leave her.... (read in full...)
I just had a horrible "first time", or what should have been. I'm too hurt to move on, what do I do?
Q. "Wow, hun...You're so much smaller than my ex...I'm sorry." That's what she told me when we were just about to...yeah Then she got up, apologized, and left quietly. I felt so terrible after, I actually cried lol. We don't see each other anymore. ...
A. 24 April 2010: I am a 21 year old female an my husband does not have the biggest penis as i would say but ya know what I dont think it matters to me. i can not reassure you that it doesn't matter to other women because every women is different. one thing tho' if a ... (read in full...)
Three is NOT company...
Q. I'm in a horrendous situation and I need help. I'm living in the same apartment as three of my exes, two of which live on the same floor. I'm not on speaking terms with one of them and she's doing everything she can to drive me crazy because I ...
A. 29 January 2010: if i where in your situation i would move too.. thats the best advice there is.. ... (read in full...)
We are constantly at loggerheads and I don't know how to fix it!
Q. if its not one problem its another!!! agian me and my husband are in a crunch... he says i dont treat him with respect and i say he doesn't treat me like the women i am... lol....how can i make our relationship better so we are closer and so i am ...
A. 26 January 2010: yeah that makes sense... thank you!... (read in full...)
First sex acts after a 3-week-break were painful, I wasn't a virgin, can you explain?
Q. Hey all, not a concern just confusion, recently my boyfriend of nearly two years went on holiday to america for 3 weeks, before he went the sex was really good :) But when he returned and we had sex for the first time again it was so painful, it f...
A. 26 January 2010: yes.., i think it is normal.. see our vagina area skin area is very elastic like so having sex for a while then not having sex for 3 weeks makes it shrink back down so it would be tighter and painful with intercourse like you experienced thats what ... (read in full...)
Wife had anal sex with another man, how should I react?
Q. Mod note: had some language and sexual content not suitable for younger aunts and uncles, changed to make it... more friendly. I went to a party with my wife and I forgot to eat beforehand, well I got drunk and passed out. I woke up a couple o...
A. 26 January 2010: I am a Wife, mother, and yet very young.. I feel for you in so many ways.. i wish i was there to give you a hug and be that good friend that gives you that shoulder to cry on... this is serious I would definently ask her to take time to talk to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has lost interest in sex, but I haven't
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together for over a yr now and we used to have sex about 3 times a day. now it seems like i have to beg him for it, and he doesn't really do any fore play with me anymore. i have talked to him about this a number of ...
A. 1 December 2009: i have the same problem with my husband. I think they just like it when we give them head...i dont know if i can help but will try. I would try giving him a back rub in a relaxing setting, this will stimulate his mind or if hes on his feet all ... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't listen to me and I think there is more to his 'friendship' with an older woman
Q. HI i just got married this year in may and me and my husband are having a difficult time. i am currently pregnant this is the second baby our first i miscarried and i have a hard time believing that he still loves me. i accuse him of cheating...
A. 28 November 2009: i don't have the time or money to buy a book or read one. he controls me so much that I don't have a cell phone and if i did hed break it, but when i did have one he broke about three total before i just gave up having one and he was texting me all ... (read in full...)
Is that considered sex? Am I still a virgin?
Q. if a guy stuck his penis all the way in my vagina but he just stayed there and didn't move. like there were no thrusting or humping motions, is that considered sex? or sexual intercourse? am i still a virgin?...
A. 27 November 2009: yea i've heard that before, but i think it is considered sex and it is considered a BJ if your mouth is around his penis. ... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't listen to me and I think there is more to his 'friendship' with an older woman
Q. HI i just got married this year in may and me and my husband are having a difficult time. i am currently pregnant this is the second baby our first i miscarried and i have a hard time believing that he still loves me. i accuse him of cheating...
A. 27 November 2009: thanks so much this advice is real helpfull and i will try my hardest to do what I can, I definently will talk to this women becuase i know she is doing wrong and they both need to realize it.
I DONT believe that i will do what i want when i w... (read in full...)
I just want to have meaningless sex with him!
Q. There is this boy at school who I am very sexually attracted too. He is one of those bad boys, I don't have a crush on him I just want to have meaningless sex with him lol. Should I tell him I want to? We flirt sometimes, whenever he talks to me it...
A. 26 November 2009: i would slow your roll. dont' always just want to f*** some boy but i think you should be thinking more on the school side. think about school. not having sex. your young and later in life you;ll regret doing everything you've done. i want to know ... (read in full...)
Unprotected sex... now I'm worried I may be pregnant!
Q. hi im 17 and have a boyfriend i have been having unprotected sex with. thing is i wasnt meant to be due on my period until the 6th december but i come on today which is a week and a half early, this keeps happening, its happend about 3 times now, i ...
A. 26 November 2009: i think you should go to planned parenthood and get a free pregnancy test. they are completely confidential. because i remember even though i still had a period i was pregnant. it would be the right thing to do. maybe even go to a doctor and tell ... (read in full...)
Do I have to compromise myself to attract a man?
Q. I am a 20 year old virgin who has never had much luck with guys. I'm not thin (however, I'm not obese: I'm just slightly overweight), I don't have any self confidence in my appearance, and I do not pretend to be something I'm not! Usually, when I ...
A. 26 November 2009: soon or later you will come across a man who loves you for you. no matter what. just maybe if you don't already , go places and get out there and have fun. ... (read in full...)
My husband has developed feelings for another woman and I don't know how to handle it...
Q. me and my husband have been married for 3 and 1/2 years and recently he realized that he has feelings for another woman. I'm in a battle for him with her. My friends tell me to go but my heart tells me to stay cuz he will pick me, what do u think I ...
A. 26 November 2009: i just recently got married and i think that you should talk to him about what marriage means and why you two should stay together. because these days the divorce rate is sky rocketing and i know it will be hard but you two can work it out. i hoped ... (read in full...)
Was this a one night stand or should I take the lead in the next episode of our sexual encounter?
Q. Ok, I slept with this guy and we pursued each other not even 3wks. The pursuit was extremely intense and the sex was even more intense. However, he had sex with me, I held back a lot, because for me it way too soon. but he reaaaaaly went ...
A. 25 November 2009: thats all it seems by what info youve given is that you didn't really want to so you should have not. and that maybe he was just looking to get down. I know that is how men are they just want sex and with some one who will give it up to them without ... (read in full...)
My wife wants a threesome with another man!
Q. My wife wants a threesome with another man. She says she loves the idea of "spit-roasting." I am disgusted, when I first met her two years ago in Church she was innocent and caring, and she saved herself until our wedding night. I don't know where ...
A. 25 November 2009: that would be hard to kope with. knowing im a married women and i would never think of doing such a thing. i would sit her down and tell her kindly and understandingly that you are uncomfortable with her idea, and that it would be considered ... (read in full...)
What do guys find attractive in girls?
Q. hiya ok, this a question for you guys out there. What do you find atractive about a girl?? Skinny? Even if she is pretty she has to be thin?? You wouldn't mind if she was a bit more "padded"?? please give me your opinion?...
A. 25 November 2009: im not a guy either, but i am married and have had many relationships that i regret having. ok i man/boy/guy doesn't know what he wants. he just wants someone who is confident in them selves. and never puts them self down. they do like women to be ... (read in full...)
Please help me, he likes me one day.. then hates me the next.
Q. PLEASE HELP ME! I cannot let this go and need your help! There is this boy and i have liked him over a year now. Im only 13 but I actually feel in love with him. On some days, he seems really interested in me and I feel like we are getting somewher...
A. 25 November 2009: I was once 13 too. i thought i was in love and what do you know i was just being used. boys don't know what they want neither do men, its hard on a girls life knowing that we care about someone and love them though they keep treating us like shit ... (read in full...)
I want to protect my friend. Should I tell the school nurse about her (who just happens to be my mum!)
Q. Hey, just a 'quick' question. This one's not about me thank god. Basically, one of my friends got completely wasted and ended up losing her virginity at 14 a couple of days ago. I've been sworn to secrecy, but (always a but) I have a small problem ...
A. 25 November 2009: I would tell my mom too if i where you because its your best friend and although she trusted you, you could be saving her life and one day she will thank you. because alcohol is one of the most deadliest, it can ruin a persons life and soon enough ... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't listen to me and I think there is more to his 'friendship' with an older woman
Q. HI i just got married this year in may and me and my husband are having a difficult time. i am currently pregnant this is the second baby our first i miscarried and i have a hard time believing that he still loves me. i accuse him of cheating...
A. 25 November 2009: I have confronted my husband many times and i told him it would make me feel better if you didn't talk to her as often atleast not around me, yet he still does and just acouple nites ago before we went to sleep he had to text her... i don't know ... (read in full...)
Is that considered sex? Am I still a virgin?
Q. if a guy stuck his penis all the way in my vagina but he just stayed there and didn't move. like there were no thrusting or humping motions, is that considered sex? or sexual intercourse? am i still a virgin?...
A. 25 November 2009: i would say it was sex. due to the fact it was intercourse. and you can not be a virgin if the male stuck his penis in your vagina. ... (read in full...)
I have no idea what he is feeling and I guess he doesn't either?
Q. So this is quite a long story. I have been dating my boyfriend for exactly 1 year last week. We have a long distance relationship and have from the beginning. We talk and have always talked allll the time whether through texting, phone, email and ...
A. 25 November 2009: sounds like to me that he doesn't know what he wants and that you two should remain close because at this point i think he just needs someone to talk to and be close too. it would be hard for a women definently, but just stick it out and be the ... (read in full...)
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