A
female
age
41-50,
*ichelle411
writes:me and my boyfriend have been together for over a yr now and we used to have sex about 3 times a day. now it seems like i have to beg him for it, and he doesn't really do any fore play with me anymore. i have talked to him about this a number of times and he just tells me that he's tired i understand that b/c he works monday thru friday. but it kind of hurts me like he's not that interested in me or my body anymore. i can get myself off easily but it's not the same, what else can i do for this to not feel like a problem to me anymore? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2009): Well, three times a day does sound like a bit much. Perhaps if the two of you reduced the amount of sex you had, it would be a bit more special and desirable. Sex three times a day is like eating three times a day...you look forward to your three meals, but are you truly excited about it?
A
female
reader, shortone1 +, writes (1 December 2009):
 i have the same problem with my husband. I think they just like it when we give them head...i dont know if i can help but will try. I would try giving him a back rub in a relaxing setting, this will stimulate his mind or if hes on his feet all day give him a foot rub whatever is more comftable to you and him. just get him to relaxe and then start makin' your move on him. it might help him get aroused if he forgets about his long day at work. A bath would help him and you can join in... by washing him and also rubbin him down. that way your both already naked. let me know if i helped.
...............................
|
